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Anonymous #1

Is she going to cheat?
    #7584806 - 11/01/07 05:12 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

My wife of 10 years and mother of my child is going out of town this weekend to stay with her cousins, ironically at the same time I have an out of town appointment for the weekend....

The last time she went to stay with her cousins, a few weeks back, I had to work while she had days off and wasn't concerned about going either. She went and apparentley went out with them to a local watering hole to have a few drinks...(which I expected, since we go there when we are visiting)

Upon teling me about her adventures, she told me that she flashed her boobs to some old guy at the bar because everyone was talking about breasts at that moment....

She also told me that she bumped into an old class mate while there and told me how much of a loser he was, and how he had potential, but didnt do anything with his life after high school. And I heard these put downs about this guy several times before she casually mentioned that she danced with him while her and her cousins were at the bar. Then asked me if that was ok, and if I was mad about it, and I told her no, even though I was a little jealous of her behavior she was admitting to......

Now, this weekend, she is ironically, going back to visit the same peeps while I will be 8 hours away for the whole weekend. All day today my stomach has been in knots because I'm not sure what she has in mind for the weekend and the possibilities of what may happen. She has never cheated on me that i know of, and I dunno if she could pull it off because she's not a good liar... Also, she has led me to believe over the years that if I cheated on her it would be the most devastating thing in the world, blah, blah, bla...

So, I'm wondering, if she has admitted to slightly inapproprate behavior before, just to ease her guilt, or to test the waters and see how mad I was. Now, I'm wondering why she jumped at a chance to request days off work and head out of town the same weekend that I'll be gone.

I know I should not worry about such things, and I never have before, but its out of character for her to dance with other men, and especially flash her tits at someone (she claimed he was an old man she has known since she was a kid)....

Anyway, I didnt tell her about how I felt, I just told her that I had second thoughts about leaving town, and she said "no, you're gonna go, and you're gonna have a good time, you've been planning on going on this trip for a long time"

I'm curious, if she did 'cheat' on me while she was out of town, how would I know? Is there any clues I could look for when she gets back? I don't consider dancing or flashing of tits to be cheating, but it seems like the next step would be to do something along the lines of infidelity...

Everytime she has done something that she felt guilty about, she has always been hesitant about telling me about it. It usually involves bringing the subject up over and over until she feels comfortable telling me the whole story...

I suppose that when women have been tied to one man for so long, and when they get independant and get closer to 30 yrs of age, they begin to wonder what another pair of hands would feel like around their waist, and another pair of lips pressed against theirs and sex with another partner would be like. Is this a correct assumption?

Also, how do you handle it when the love of your life betrays you? I'm afraid if it did happen and I did find out, that I would probably be crushed.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7584872 - 11/01/07 05:26 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

sounds a little shady brah


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Anonymous #3

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7584880 - 11/01/07 05:27 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

That's a shitty situation, but if you can't trust her, maybe it's for the best if things turn out bad.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #7584916 - 11/01/07 05:34 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

she is definitely going down the road to becoming a cheater.


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Anonymous #5

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7584939 - 11/01/07 05:39 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Why don't you talk to her about it? If you love her, and she loves you, then something as simple as talking with her about it shouldn't do any damage. Besides, a partner is someone you can, and should talk to.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #7585084 - 11/01/07 06:17 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

youre gut is talking to you. listen.

the last time my gut talked, i ignored. later found out it was right.


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Anonymous #7

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #7585235 - 11/01/07 07:09 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

10 years dude? you should learn to trust her a little more. and she told you all that shit she did and said and didnt have to mention any of it. you sound like how i used to be in highschool with my wife and that was 8 years ago man. tell her how u feel about it and thats all you can do. dont let those crazy feelings in your gut get you down. things will be fine. everybody needs their time apart from oneanother you know?


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Anonymous #8

Re: Is she going to cheat? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7585282 - 11/01/07 07:22 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

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Anonymous #1

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #7585539 - 11/01/07 08:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

I will talk to her about it tonight.....


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Anonymous #9

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7585999 - 11/01/07 10:50 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

call cheaters!


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Anonymous #10

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7586037 - 11/01/07 11:03 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Take the kids and run.


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Anonymous #11

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #7586144 - 11/01/07 11:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

i agree that you should talk to her. certainly don't outright accuse her of planning to cheat, but let her know you're a bit uncomfortable with her dancing too seriously with other men, and especially the flashing of naughty bits.

and be really nice. show your love. make her remember why she loves you. so even if she might have been teasing the idea in the back of her head, her love for you would push it back out.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #7586157 - 11/01/07 11:50 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

I talked with her about it...
The guy she danced with, she said was an old high school classmate she had not seen in almost 10 years and the only reason she danced with him (two step lol) is because her cousin wouldn't dance with her...
She said she was hesitant to tell me because she thought I may get my feelings hurt about it, but knew she had to because we're open with each other...
She told me that she would be a fool to jeapordize our family, and has no reason to because I make her happy....
When I asked about her promptly deciding to make this trip, she said that she needed to visit her aunt, and also reminded me that she was attending my grandmother's 80th bday on my behalf....
She told me that she completely understands my gut feeling about the ordeal and assured me that it's ok because she has felt the same way from time to time....
It was good to talk to her.. I just got really paranoid for a minute and reached out to you anonymous people when I should have asked her first....


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Anonymous #12

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #7586693 - 11/02/07 06:42 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Think of it this way: Everyone likes to be flirted with. When I go out on the town, it's nice to have women approach me and flirt.

Women are the same way. It doesn't necessarily mean she will cheat. Maybe she just likes the attention?


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Anonymous #13

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7586734 - 11/02/07 07:08 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Come on people it's obvious she got the jack hammer from this guy.


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Anonymous #14

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #7586753 - 11/02/07 07:26 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
Come on people it's obvious she got the jack hammer from this guy.




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Anonymous #2

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #7586811 - 11/02/07 07:54 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
Quote:

Anonymous said:
Come on people it's obvious she got the jack hammer from this guy.







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Anonymous #15

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #7586844 - 11/02/07 08:07 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

I myself am in a long-term relationship, 8 yrs. Sometimes people just need a little break. Letting her go out with family (come on really what would she do with her family around?) to cut loose and have fun doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.

In fact you two will have something fresh to talk about. Is the old boyfriend calling the house or anything? If he's not I don't think it's as serious as your insecurity is making it. But I think it's normal to question it, I would.

I go out by myself sometimes and so does my husband. Sometimes it gets a little tricky with the trust but we work thru it. Instead of worrying about her why not just try to have a little fun yourself and the two of you can compare notes when you both get back home.


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Anonymous #16

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7587047 - 11/02/07 09:41 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

U need to smack that bitch up

she just mind trippin ya


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Anonymous #17

Re: Is she going to cheat? [Re: Anonymous #16]
    #7590105 - 11/03/07 02:26 AM (16 years, 2 months ago)

PUNCH HER CUNT


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