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PyroBurns
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I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it.
#7578166 - 10/30/07 07:35 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just two or so weeks ago I lost that last of my friends, and am now pretty much alone... except for a couple people I talk to (but don't hang out with) every now and then here at college. Now I might be able to pull a couple of friends soon, but I'll have to ditch them when the semester is over because I'll be going to another college.
Then after two semesters there I'm going to leave AGAIN. So if I do make friends there it won't be for long.
Then who knows where I'll be after that.
All I want is one or two really close friends like I used to have back in the day. God do I miss that.
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ChiefGreenLeaf

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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7578362 - 10/30/07 08:45 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yay there is alot of people I can hang out witth but none of them give two shits about me. My definition of a friend is completly different then most peoples. It calls for a close relashionship where you can talk about problems. The people I hang out with (not so much lately) will run off and call you weird if you try to talk to them about anything besides TV and sports. Why is the world so shallow?
Edited by ChiefGreenLeaf (10/30/07 08:45 PM)
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LordSenate
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7578376 - 10/30/07 08:51 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just because you move, does not mean you have to stop talking to the friends you made.
I like moving to new places, personally.
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PyroBurns
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: LordSenate]
#7578392 - 10/30/07 08:59 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Still it's nothing like having them over almost every day and be a huge part of your life.
When you move, they move to the background. Even if just a little bit.
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LordSenate
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7578430 - 10/30/07 09:11 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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What can you do though?
Have them come see you, or just wait it out.. You don't want to sit there pouting about it, that will only make things worse.. Look at the bright side.. and figure out ways to fix it..
its not that bad.
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ravin0fff
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7579284 - 10/31/07 02:19 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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i haven't had any friends in i think about 2 1/2 years
loneliness is not a symptom of being alone, it's more about believing that you need friends to have a fulfilling and rewarding life.
gonna have to summon up some internal will(of which you truly have an infinite supply of) to release these unhelpful beliefs
Edited by ravin0fff (10/31/07 02:20 AM)
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Tsion
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7579288 - 10/31/07 02:24 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Friendship, Comradery, Romance, and Intimacy are not cures for Loneliness. Loneliness is a part of our experience.
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LordSenate
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: PyroBurns]
#7579299 - 10/31/07 02:37 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Be strong, and know that even when alone, you are not truly so. Friends are friends, and support is support. No matter where it may be.
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mushroomplume
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: LordSenate]
#7582199 - 10/31/07 07:58 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've been there Pyro, don't worry, things will get better.
I grew up in a family where my father moved every two years until I was 16. Pretty tough for a kid in my opinion.
lol, if you lived in SW Florida, I would be your friend!
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: Tsion]
#7582660 - 10/31/07 11:13 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Tsion said: Friendship, Comradery, Romance, and Intimacy are not cures for Loneliness. Loneliness is a part of our experience.
Dude, thats profoud! I like it. But to the OP, I'd reccommend having a yarn to some people around the place and going out and getting wasted maybe once a week or fortnight if you dont already. That might not cure you're lonlines right away, but youre sure to meet people at the very least.
Good luck and Godspeed - boingkster
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Crystal G



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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: LordSenate]
#7585367 - 11/01/07 07:53 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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LordSenate said: I like moving to new places, personally.
Same.
I believe that in the end, no matter how close you get to anybody, the only person you will ever have is yourself. Love the solitude. Socializing is meaningless jibber jabber anyways. Learn something, produce something, achieve something, and I bet you'd be secure in yourself.
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mushroomplume
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: Crystal G]
#7585538 - 11/01/07 08:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Crystal G said:
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LordSenate said: I like moving to new places, personally.
Same.
I believe that in the end, no matter how close you get to anybody, the only person you will ever have is yourself. Love the solitude. Socializing is meaningless jibber jabber anyways. Learn something, produce something, achieve something, and I bet you'd be secure in yourself.
awww....
If you were standing next to me right now, I would give you a big fucking hug. I think you just need some lovin Crystal G
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: mushroomplume]
#7585808 - 11/01/07 10:02 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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That hug would be very superficial I'm sure.
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ravin0fff
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Re: I'm lonely as hell and I don't know what to do about it. [Re: mushroomplume]
#7586541 - 11/02/07 03:25 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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oliveplume said: awww....
If you were standing next to me right now, I would give you a big fucking hug. I think you just need some lovin Crystal G
what a strange reaction to a very true statement
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