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OfflineMisterKite
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LONELINESS
    #7574214 - 10/29/07 07:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Ah how karmic this is. I just told someone who has been pursuing me for 8 months that they need to move on with life, that happiness is to be found within one's self and that they shouldn't be dependent on other people for satisfaction (in much more delicate words). Now I find myself recently deeply struck by the amazing beauty and grace of this gorgeous and funny and happy French girl. Now the loneliness I've been living with for a year and a half hurts so much more and I find myself always thinking about this girl, counting down the days when I feel it will be appropriate for me to call her again, or to stop by for a surprise visit with a CD or some tea, asking her room mates to gather info on whether she has feelings for me as I do for her, or if she's been seeing anyone else. It's awful! Out of nowhere, I find I'm afflicted with an addiction to another person and I can't get my mind off of it. Not yoga, nor music, nor studies, nor even the internet deters my one track mind! How do I make the incessant noise of loneliness and longing cease??


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: MisterKite]
    #7574266 - 10/29/07 08:00 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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MisterKite said:
How do I make the incessant noise of loneliness and longing cease??




Buddhists have been working on that one for thousands of years:

http://buddhism.about.com/library/weekly/aa021403a.htm



Why did you send this girl on her way anyway? There must have been a reason.


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Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man.  For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire.  Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.

~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

:heartpump:


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: MisterKite]
    #7574268 - 10/29/07 08:00 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

tell her you were wrong.


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: MisterKite]
    #7574280 - 10/29/07 08:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Edit: I thought I had something to contribute, but I don't really... Best of luck. :hippie:


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I will not fear my passions like a coward.
My body I will give to pleasures,
to diversions that I’ve dreamed of,
to the most daring erotic desires,
to the lustful impulses of my blood, without
any fear at all, for whenever I will—
and I will have the will, strengthened
as I’ll be with contemplation and study—
at the crucial moments I’ll recover
my spirit as was before: ascetic.”


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: Lion]
    #7574541 - 10/29/07 09:14 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

the girl i sent on her way i am not interested in. it's a different girl for whom ive fallen. but all that the girl i rejected mustve gone through i now fully understand.

i will make it through. the musings of richard alpert (be here now) have helped me center myself.


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: MisterKite]
    #7574620 - 10/29/07 09:38 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

"Loneliness isn't being alone. It's when someone loves you and you don't have it in you to love them back"
- Xiu Xiu

Probably one of my favorite lines in modern pop

Anyway, loneliness is what you make of it


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
    #7577736 - 10/30/07 05:40 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Just go after her man, IMO. It seems like you're waiting for your life to be perfect before you do so, or something. F that, it's good enough, just take advantage of this great opportunity.


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7579290 - 10/31/07 02:25 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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WhiskeyClone said:
Why did you send this girl on her way anyway? There must have been a reason.




because the grass is always greener on the other side. duh

or to put it in better terms - why be content with the present when you can yearn for the future?! the present is highly overrated


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Re: LONELINESS [Re: Grok]
    #7579291 - 10/31/07 02:25 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Friendship, Comradery, Romance, and Intimacy are not cures for Loneliness. Loneliness is a part of our experience.


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