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Sex Is Not A Drug
    #7569898 - 10/28/07 02:55 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

ive seen quite a bit of sex related threads here

it seems to me that most of you and even those outside of this site have a similar attitude towards making love

im not a one to agree with alot of the outdated concepts of waiting a while before you have sex

but it really seems like so many young people toss around their bodies as something to do when your bored or something for popularity or even a way to get a buzz

consider this:

sex in some cultures is a coming together of two parts of a whole as a way to achieve enlightenment or completeness within your life

but in this culture it seems to be the beginning of a journey to find more and more

never complete

never content

it also seems to breed dominating mentalities or pain and anger and hate and misconceptions and distortions of the way of the human race

we are all complex and mystical entities and should not be used as a drug

im not shooting down intimacy

but thats a completely different thing

thats about closeness and understanding and emotional support

i just dont understand how one aspect of our lives as humans drives people to such a dark path of losing respect and love and appreciation of every single person on the face of this planet

why cant we all marvel in each others illumination

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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569914 - 10/28/07 03:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

the younger generation sees sex as an activity or even a sport
when you're bored on an friday night/saturday night
go to a party
get drunk
have sex

we tend to let our animal instincts take control without reevaluating our actions with our human logic
we strive for lust instead of love

this new change in direction could be caused by the media, or maybe even evolution...

we are all essentially animals
we want sex
it is built into our brains


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7569934 - 10/28/07 03:15 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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we are all essentially animals
we want sex
it is built into our brains




exactly. i see nothing wrong with it. there is nothing special about it, nothing magical or mystical, and no enlightenment, and sex doesn't make you complete. you can make it whatever you wish, but the only real purpose of sex is to further the human race.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7569935 - 10/28/07 03:15 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

we also want to eat

and look where thats got us


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7569942 - 10/28/07 03:18 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

nothing is wrong with it

on the contrary

and yes, sex is what you make of it

but why would you want it to be something not worth the consequences


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569951 - 10/28/07 03:20 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)



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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569961 - 10/28/07 03:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.

It disgusts me too at times man.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569968 - 10/28/07 03:25 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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we also want to eat

and look where thats got us




no offense but that's probably the silliest comparison ever. we must eat to survive. so where did it get us? we'll right now it's keeping us alive.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
    #7569976 - 10/28/07 03:27 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.

It disgusts me too at times man.




maybe you've got it wrong and society just makes you feel bad about that. churches say lust is a sin. we'll lust is natural, what you're thinking is natural and you shouldn't feel bad about it. it's a desire hardwired into your brain.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
    #7569977 - 10/28/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.

It disgusts me too at times man.




i even do that with fat girls :undecided:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
    #7569979 - 10/28/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

May not be a popular opinion, but I believe that reduced sexual thought (be it in form of masturbation, sex, or just lustful fantasy) is greatly beneficial to ones being; physical, mental and if you're into it, spiritual. I pose this. Is any sort of addiction good for you? If not, could you restrain yourself for a few days? weeks? months?

Myself, I realized that sexual orgasm was addictive when I found that attempting a week long abstinence took me months to accomplish. A month long abstinence as taken me a year. To me, people should be in control of their sexuality. Not the other way around.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569982 - 10/28/07 03:29 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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but why would you want it to be something not worth the consequences




this doesn't make any sense.

if you have safe sex, with a clean partner, who is on birth control, there is a very slim chace of anything happening. so the only consequence is good time.

if you wanna have sex any other way, you should know the risks and then decide if you wanna risk it. so its your opinion as to whether the consequences are with it and it is your choice.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
    #7569986 - 10/28/07 03:30 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Right on. :hippie:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7569990 - 10/28/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

We also fuck to survive. Sex is like breathing. in. out. in. out. You will always need more oxygen. You will always need more sex. Its part of being human.


When people start to run out of either they tend to complain.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
    #7569991 - 10/28/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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May not be a popular opinion, but I believe that reduced sexual thought (be it in form of masturbation, sex, or just lustful fantasy) is greatly beneficial to ones being; physical, mental and if you're into it, spiritual. I pose this. Is any sort of addiction good for you? If not, could you restrain yourself for a few days? weeks? months?

Myself, I realized that sexual orgasm was addictive when I found that attempting a week long abstinence took me months to accomplish. A month long abstinence as taken me a year. To me, people should be in control of their sexuality. Not the other way around.




unfortunately is not that black and white. you can be in control of your sexuality and still have sex. there are also benefits to having sex. whether you want to have sex all the time or dont want to ever have sex is perfectly fine. it's your choice.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7569995 - 10/28/07 03:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

exactly
lust is natural
why fight it?
when i'm hungry
i eat
when i feel pressure in my bladder
i pee
when i feel like my colon is going to burst
i poo

sex is just a tool
a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus
to fertilize her egg

why do people make sex a big deal?


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7569998 - 10/28/07 03:33 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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exactly
lust is natural
why fight it?
when i'm hungry
i eat
when i feel pressure in my bladder
i pee
when i feel like my colon is going to burst
i poo

sex is just a tool
a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus
to fertilize her egg

why do people make sex a big deal?




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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7570003 - 10/28/07 03:35 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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exactly
lust is natural
why fight it?
when i'm hungry
i eat
when i feel pressure in my bladder
i pee
when i feel like my colon is going to burst
i poo

sex is just a tool
a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus
to fertilize her egg

why do people make sex a big deal?




I see what you're saying, but there is one key difference. Your examples are primarily physical. Sex and lust has a large part to do with the mind as well.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
    #7570007 - 10/28/07 03:36 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

elaborate.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
    #7570012 - 10/28/07 03:37 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I don't think I can ever fully understand why some people have random sex and risk STDs/pregnancy etc. :shrug: I'm pretty happy to have an extremely low sex drive. Now, if only some people would forget trying to get any extra benefits from being my friend...  :rofl:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7570032 - 10/28/07 03:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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elaborate.




Hunger, your body needs food to survive. Else it will deteriorate.
Pissing or poopin', you'll poison your blood or blow your kidneys like Abe Simpson.
Your physical body requires these things to happen in order to survive.

Why does one need to have an orgasm, excluding for pro creative purposes? Masturbation involves fantasy and imagination (the mind). Ever heard of guys calling out the name of someone other than the person they are making love to? Creating a mental fantasy.

If the mind is addicted to these fabrications it gets bogged down in my opinion.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Meepp]
    #7570033 - 10/28/07 03:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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:shrug: I'm pretty happy to have an extremely low sex drive.




You suck.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7570042 - 10/28/07 03:46 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

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we are all essentially animals
we want sex
it is built into our brains




exactly. i see nothing wrong with it. there is nothing special about it, nothing magical or mystical, and no enlightenment, and sex doesn't make you complete. you can make it whatever you wish, but the only real purpose of sex is to further the human race.





But what if we are not in control of our reality and some outside unkown source is in fact. And if this is true, it has obviously programmed it quite well in our heads.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: JunkFood]
    #7570063 - 10/28/07 03:50 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

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:shrug: I'm pretty happy to have an extremely low sex drive.




You suck.


No, I'll pass.
Okay, why? :smirk: Because I'm missing out on all the drama? Or is it the threat of disease?  :rofl:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Meepp]
    #7570067 - 10/28/07 03:51 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Try: The pleasure.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: cube talk]
    #7570088 - 10/28/07 03:56 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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But what if we are not in control of our reality and some outside unkown source is in fact. And if this is true, it has obviously programmed it quite well in our heads.




well you can believe what you want, but i am in control of my reality. no outside source is.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: JunkFood]
    #7570119 - 10/28/07 04:06 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Try: The pleasure.


Meh well if I don't crave it, it's pretty pointless to think of it as a huge loss... :shrug:  I've had my share of chances though, including a time when a really cute girl suddenly had her hand in my pants lol, but it went nowhere even though I was drunk. At that time I figured there is pretty low chance I'll ever want to have sex  :lol:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Meepp]
    #7570139 - 10/28/07 04:13 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

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Try: The pleasure.



Meh well if I don't crave it, it's pretty pointless to think of it as a huge loss... :shrug:




Ignorance is bliss. You obviously have some hormonal imbalances or something. Also: Cocaine and amphetamines are known to get people horny as fuck (I can vouch for amphetamines); you might wanna try those just to see what it's like to have a libdo.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: JunkFood]
    #7570153 - 10/28/07 04:18 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Haha, well sure... so far I've only had some methylphenidate that didn't make me horny, apparently I need stronger stuff  :lol:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: JunkFood]
    #7570164 - 10/28/07 04:21 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

There's no need to be critical of another poster's personal preferences.  Not everyone has a strong sex drive, and it's not unhealthy per se not to have one. :shrug:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Meepp]
    #7570173 - 10/28/07 04:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

You should look into orthomolecular medicine. It's about achieving an optimal state of nutrients/chemicals in the body; using things like amino acids, enzymes, hormones, vitamins, and minerals instead of medication (at least, as a first resort).

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bug said:
There's no need to be critical of another poster's personal preferences.




What if his lack of libido is, in fact, due to a hormonal imbalance? I'm just giving him suggestions he might find useful.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: cube talk]
    #7570431 - 10/28/07 05:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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But what if we are not in control of our reality and some outside unkown source is in fact. And if this is true, it has obviously programmed it quite well in our heads.




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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7570448 - 10/28/07 05:39 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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well you can believe what you want, but i am in control of my reality. no outside source is.




HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

:rofl:

Oh god, that is a good one. Tell me another...

I am dying over here...

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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7570482 - 10/28/07 05:52 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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but why would you want [sex] to be something not worth the consequences




this doesn't make any sense.

if you have safe sex, with a clean partner, who is on birth control, there is a very slim chace of anything happening. so the only consequence is good time.



I think you're taking a fairly self-centric view here my man.  Not to say that considerations of STD's aren't valid, they are extremely important to weigh as potential consequence.  But if I might be so bold, I'd suggest that sirbojangles may have been referring also to the emotional consequences of engaging sexual partners without appropriate communications of intent.  For one partner to play sex as a game, and potentially manipulate another person, can produce great consequence to the person unknowing that the experience is only for fun and not something indicative of commitment. 

While a lot of people might consider that "their problem", I'd like to believe that many of us carry more social responsibility towards our fellow man and woman, and that we would want to do all that is in our power to communicate openly and to insure that both parties are understanding of the intention and goal when engaging into a sexual relationship.

For my part, I don't find anything wrong with casual sex.  Nevertheless, I simply don't find myself having it -- because when it comes right down to it, I truly yearn for the emotional intimacy that comes with a commited and trusting relationship.  There are of course moments where I'd like simply to get my rocks off, but in those times (if my partner is not around), I simply end up choking my own chicken and am left plenty satisfied when all is said and done.

In fact, as I'm on vacation some 5000 miles away from my sugar bowl, I might just take myself up on that idea right now! :laugh:



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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: geokills]
    #7570495 - 10/28/07 05:56 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Nice silicone cups :smirk:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7570796 - 10/28/07 08:01 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

eating is also hardwired into our brain

but most of the people that surround me eat far more or for different reasons than staying alive

im saying the same is with sex

you dont HAVE to have sex all the time or even more than once every so often but most certainly do it in excess

and i think excess is the main problem

animals are suppost to appreciate everything they have but since most of us are excessive with every aspect of our lives appreciation is lost

and appreciation breeds content and ends depression

have you ever heard someone say "im so sad, i have a roof over my head no diseases and friends that dont use me and plenty of food"


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7570961 - 10/28/07 08:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

sex is great



SO WHY QUESTION IT?!?!?!?!?

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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7570973 - 10/28/07 08:49 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Exactly.

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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7571893 - 10/29/07 05:33 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

you guys dont get it

never mind


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7571904 - 10/29/07 05:40 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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sirbojangles said:
you guys dont get it

never mind




its OK man, you can tell us if you are having erection problems.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: druqs]
    #7572113 - 10/29/07 07:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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mycelismymind said:
Quote:

sirbojangles said:
you guys dont get it

never mind




its OK man, you can tell us if you are having erection problems.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Meepp]
    #7572129 - 10/29/07 07:30 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Sex not a drug? Pah! Tell that to someone that's not getting any.

But as for those that do it casually, if they find it fun, good for them. But I like my sex like I like my drugs, mind expanding, lasting all day long, and forfilling for days afterwards.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: geokills]
    #7572728 - 10/29/07 11:45 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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I think you're taking a fairly self-centric view here my man. Not to say that considerations of STD's aren't valid, they are extremely important to weigh as potential consequence. But if I might be so bold, I'd suggest that sirbojangles may have been referring also to the emotional consequences of engaging sexual partners without appropriate communications of intent. For one partner to play sex as a game, and potentially manipulate another person, can produce great consequence to the person unknowing that the experience is only for fun and not something indicative of commitment.

While a lot of people might consider that "their problem", I'd like to believe that many of us carry more social responsibility towards our fellow man and woman, and that we would want to do all that is in our power to communicate openly and to insure that both parties are understanding of the intention and goal when engaging into a sexual relationship.

For my part, I don't find anything wrong with casual sex. Nevertheless, I simply don't find myself having it -- because when it comes right down to it, I truly yearn for the emotional intimacy that comes with a commited and trusting relationship. There are of course moments where I'd like simply to get my rocks off, but in those times (if my partner is not around), I simply end up choking my own chicken and am left plenty satisfied when all is said and done.





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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Visionary Tools]
    #7572730 - 10/29/07 11:45 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

maybe i should remind you that im a virgin

does that mean everything ive said means nothing?

no

i think it gives me a much better perspective of the whole situation

im not an idiot

id love to get some but i dont because frankly none of the people i know whod go for it are really worth my emotions

maybe im wrong

maybe sex is great and you should have as much as possible

maybe everything i think and feel about it is bogus

then why is that overtime ive wanted it less and less and watched everyone i know be broken up by pouring out their most personal emotions to one person after another

i dont need to drink to know that you shouldnt over do it

and that was my original point


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7572752 - 10/29/07 11:53 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Your only concern should be how hot the girl is — if she's your type and has the features you like; looks are everything.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7572793 - 10/29/07 12:09 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I'm afraid of the day when the nowadays widespread porn fueled teenage level perception of sex and sexuality will become a norm. Also check out the statistics on sexuality vs. level of education. Not that I'm saying sex is bad.


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: JunkFood]
    #7572836 - 10/29/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

and your okay with that?


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7573244 - 10/29/07 02:52 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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sirbojangles said:
maybe i should remind you that im a virgin





makes sense now, virgins are always the ones making sex out to be such a big deal.

hope you get laid soon buddy.  :safesex:


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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
    #7573257 - 10/29/07 02:57 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

i guarantee you once i do get laid i will feel the same

its not a personal thing

if it was it would be a completely different argument

this is my view of society


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