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Sex Is Not A Drug
#7569898 - 10/28/07 02:55 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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ive seen quite a bit of sex related threads here
it seems to me that most of you and even those outside of this site have a similar attitude towards making love
im not a one to agree with alot of the outdated concepts of waiting a while before you have sex
but it really seems like so many young people toss around their bodies as something to do when your bored or something for popularity or even a way to get a buzz
consider this:
sex in some cultures is a coming together of two parts of a whole as a way to achieve enlightenment or completeness within your life
but in this culture it seems to be the beginning of a journey to find more and more
never complete
never content
it also seems to breed dominating mentalities or pain and anger and hate and misconceptions and distortions of the way of the human race
we are all complex and mystical entities and should not be used as a drug
im not shooting down intimacy
but thats a completely different thing
thats about closeness and understanding and emotional support
i just dont understand how one aspect of our lives as humans drives people to such a dark path of losing respect and love and appreciation of every single person on the face of this planet
why cant we all marvel in each others illumination
tell me
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the younger generation sees sex as an activity or even a sport when you're bored on an friday night/saturday night go to a party get drunk have sex
we tend to let our animal instincts take control without reevaluating our actions with our human logic we strive for lust instead of love
this new change in direction could be caused by the media, or maybe even evolution...
we are all essentially animals we want sex it is built into our brains
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meatcakeman said: we are all essentially animals we want sex it is built into our brains
exactly. i see nothing wrong with it. there is nothing special about it, nothing magical or mystical, and no enlightenment, and sex doesn't make you complete. you can make it whatever you wish, but the only real purpose of sex is to further the human race.
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we also want to eat
and look where thats got us
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
#7569942 - 10/28/07 03:18 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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nothing is wrong with it
on the contrary
and yes, sex is what you make of it
but why would you want it to be something not worth the consequences
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Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.
It disgusts me too at times man.
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sirbojangles said: we also want to eat
and look where thats got us
no offense but that's probably the silliest comparison ever. we must eat to survive. so where did it get us? we'll right now it's keeping us alive.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
#7569976 - 10/28/07 03:27 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Cepheus said: Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.
It disgusts me too at times man.
maybe you've got it wrong and society just makes you feel bad about that. churches say lust is a sin. we'll lust is natural, what you're thinking is natural and you shouldn't feel bad about it. it's a desire hardwired into your brain.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
#7569977 - 10/28/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Cepheus said: Unfortunately society has made me this way. When I see a hot girl walking down the street, I want to rip her clothes off, shove my cock up her ass and come on her face.
It disgusts me too at times man.
i even do that with fat girls
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
#7569979 - 10/28/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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May not be a popular opinion, but I believe that reduced sexual thought (be it in form of masturbation, sex, or just lustful fantasy) is greatly beneficial to ones being; physical, mental and if you're into it, spiritual. I pose this. Is any sort of addiction good for you? If not, could you restrain yourself for a few days? weeks? months?
Myself, I realized that sexual orgasm was addictive when I found that attempting a week long abstinence took me months to accomplish. A month long abstinence as taken me a year. To me, people should be in control of their sexuality. Not the other way around.
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sirbojangles said: but why would you want it to be something not worth the consequences
this doesn't make any sense.
if you have safe sex, with a clean partner, who is on birth control, there is a very slim chace of anything happening. so the only consequence is good time.
if you wanna have sex any other way, you should know the risks and then decide if you wanna risk it. so its your opinion as to whether the consequences are with it and it is your choice.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
#7569986 - 10/28/07 03:30 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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WScottsdale said:
Right on.
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We also fuck to survive. Sex is like breathing. in. out. in. out. You will always need more oxygen. You will always need more sex. Its part of being human.
When people start to run out of either they tend to complain.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
#7569991 - 10/28/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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WScottsdale said: May not be a popular opinion, but I believe that reduced sexual thought (be it in form of masturbation, sex, or just lustful fantasy) is greatly beneficial to ones being; physical, mental and if you're into it, spiritual. I pose this. Is any sort of addiction good for you? If not, could you restrain yourself for a few days? weeks? months?
Myself, I realized that sexual orgasm was addictive when I found that attempting a week long abstinence took me months to accomplish. A month long abstinence as taken me a year. To me, people should be in control of their sexuality. Not the other way around.
unfortunately is not that black and white. you can be in control of your sexuality and still have sex. there are also benefits to having sex. whether you want to have sex all the time or dont want to ever have sex is perfectly fine. it's your choice.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: usg543]
#7569995 - 10/28/07 03:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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exactly lust is natural why fight it? when i'm hungry i eat when i feel pressure in my bladder i pee when i feel like my colon is going to burst i poo
sex is just a tool a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus to fertilize her egg
why do people make sex a big deal?
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meatcakeman said: exactly lust is natural why fight it? when i'm hungry i eat when i feel pressure in my bladder i pee when i feel like my colon is going to burst i poo
sex is just a tool a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus to fertilize her egg
why do people make sex a big deal?
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meatcakeman said: exactly lust is natural why fight it? when i'm hungry i eat when i feel pressure in my bladder i pee when i feel like my colon is going to burst i poo
sex is just a tool a method to get my sperm cells into her uterus to fertilize her egg
why do people make sex a big deal?
I see what you're saying, but there is one key difference. Your examples are primarily physical. Sex and lust has a large part to do with the mind as well.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: WScott]
#7570007 - 10/28/07 03:36 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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elaborate.
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Re: Sex Is Not A Drug [Re: Cepheus]
#7570012 - 10/28/07 03:37 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't think I can ever fully understand why some people have random sex and risk STDs/pregnancy etc. I'm pretty happy to have an extremely low sex drive. Now, if only some people would forget trying to get any extra benefits from being my friend...
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