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Offlinecrazy__diamond
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girls, sex
    #7569422 - 10/28/07 11:01 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

so, i need a diagnosis. and a game plan.

i'm a good looking guy, and fairly confident. but girls have been elusive to me! i'm not really confident with girls......they've fucked it up...

so, i don't really try much at getting them. and i know thats where it happens...but it just feels so fucking shallow and not worthwhile.

i smoke a ton of pot lately, and while that doesnt directly hurt my cause, i'm sure it doesn't help too much. i went out with this girl my freshman year and got all attached and subsequently hurt when she left me this summer.......so that makes this girl-less void even worse!

but still, there should be a market for potheads! especially funny/smart ones...

i am a sophomore in college right now. there are tons of girls around, and it kills me knowing that none of them are mine...

its more than just being horny. i want to be content. i hate that i feel the need for a female; i wish i could be happy independently of anyone else.

I know that i could compromise who i am and be some douchebag frat boy who has meaningless drunken sex every friday. but that doesnt sound too appealing or satisfying...

i dont even want to be a player-type getting lots of girls all the time. ideally, i just want a girlfriend who i can get comfortable with. problem is, i rarely get flirty/chatty with a girl i like....

what is up with me and this funk i'm in?


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7569425 - 10/28/07 11:04 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

You already mentioned it. its confidence. be confident and the girls will be more interested.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: sui]
    #7569431 - 10/28/07 11:08 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

see, i'm confident in myself. i know i'm a smart guy, fairly good looking, etc.

but it hasnt equated to find someone....

which in turn lessens my confidence...

its a nasty little cycle


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7569460 - 10/28/07 11:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Perhaps you won't settle for a shallow bitch.... This makes finding a female companion next to impossible.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7569461 - 10/28/07 11:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

apparently you need to start treating everyone like shit and behaving like an instinctive animal that has alpha status in his imagined pack. a blank stare and holding your mouth open a bit while you're thinking might help


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Re: girls, sex [Re: sam420]
    #7569470 - 10/28/07 11:26 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

well i think you just need to get to know some of em, i was with my last girlfriend for ages, and i was proper in love, and so its hard know, but if you are good-looking and nice, then you should have no trouble. a beer may help :wink:


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Re: girls, sex [Re: sui]
    #7569536 - 10/28/07 01:15 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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suimush said:
You already mentioned it. its confidence. be confident and the girls will be more interested.




I second this.
Good luck hunting.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: bort]
    #7569560 - 10/28/07 01:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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its more than just being horny. i want to be content. i hate that i feel the need for a female; i wish i could be happy independently of anyone else.


You can. :hippie:


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and I will have the will, strengthened
as I’ll be with contemplation and study—
at the crucial moments I’ll recover
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Re: girls, sex [Re: Lion]
    #7569638 - 10/28/07 01:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I dunno what to tell you i am in a very similar funk. I'm a beautiful, smart, talented, creative and fun woman. or at least i and other people seem to think so. yet shit just never seems to work out. i've never been in a long term relationship at all... the longest i've dated someone was like 2 months and they could hardly even be called relationships. I feel like dudes just totally lose interest in me most of the time. I feel a complete lack of connection with most men romantically because of this. a part of me feels like i'm not what they want, some people tell me i'm intimidating and maybe that's why dudes are put off, or are more hesitant about being with me. Who knows what it is, all i know is every time i think i've found someone who i have something genuine and beautiful with, i crumbles before it ever really goes anywhere.

i dunno what it is, why interesting beautiful driven wonderful people can't seem to find other people to be with. I some how always end up seeing the stupidest most boring people in relationships, most of the time at least. I just try and think that one day all this pain and all this heart ache and loneliness is gonna pay off with the most extreme happiness and infinite love.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Aninator]
    #7569700 - 10/28/07 01:58 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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I just try and think that one day all this pain and all this heart ache and loneliness is gonna pay off with the most extreme happiness and infinite love.


First let me clarify that everything below is my subjective opinion based on experience. (Obviously... but I just want to make it clear that I'm not saying any of these things as if I know them to true. I'm struggling with this shit on a daily basis.)

Unrequited love, the desire to be in a relationship, memories of past relationship experiences that were negative, etc., when dwelt upon, feed the misconception that one cannot be completely content without a partner. The lie that we tell ourselves is that, by feeling heartbroken and lonely, the universe will take pity on us and grant us that ideal partner we hope for. But these negative emotions just reinforce conditioned attachment to ideals, and this creates further suffering. In other words, most people wait around for the perfect partner, and that partner never comes; so, though they may enter into a relationship that offers some stability, they never realize that real happiness cannot come from outside themselves. What these people see in their partner is just a reflection of the self-love that they could have been cultivating instead of waiting. And when and if that partner leaves, or does something unexpected and hurtful, the cycle of suffering begins anew.


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“Strengthened by contemplation and study,
I will not fear my passions like a coward.
My body I will give to pleasures,
to diversions that I’ve dreamed of,
to the most daring erotic desires,
to the lustful impulses of my blood, without
any fear at all, for whenever I will—
and I will have the will, strengthened
as I’ll be with contemplation and study—
at the crucial moments I’ll recover
my spirit as was before: ascetic.”


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Aninator]
    #7569777 - 10/28/07 02:20 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Maybe u 2 should meet up?  :grin:

Seems, u got a fair bit in common.

Personally I just gave up trying.  I don't like confidence, I'm not confident and I don't like pretending to be - so I gave up, oh well - I'm just gonna dedicate myself to things other than relationships.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Ego Death]
    #7569805 - 10/28/07 02:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Personally I just gave up trying. I don't like confidence, I'm not confident and I don't like pretending to be - so I gave up, oh well - I'm just gonna dedicate myself to things other than relationships.


That's cool man, I respect that. I think most people's sense of confidence is based on wrong understanding anyway, it's more like a protective mask they're wearing than genuine self-knowledge.

Often times I feel very confident when the image I see in the mirror appears to be attractive by societal standards. Then later when I am disheveled and feeling tired and out of shape and worrying about my life situation, I realize that confidence wasn't real, it was illusory. Real confidence to me is the same thing as unconditional love: realizing that your natural state is compassionate and gentle, with more than enough love and acceptance for yourself and anyone you happen to cross paths with.


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“Strengthened by contemplation and study,
I will not fear my passions like a coward.
My body I will give to pleasures,
to diversions that I’ve dreamed of,
to the most daring erotic desires,
to the lustful impulses of my blood, without
any fear at all, for whenever I will—
and I will have the will, strengthened
as I’ll be with contemplation and study—
at the crucial moments I’ll recover
my spirit as was before: ascetic.”


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7570779 - 10/28/07 07:55 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I can relate, man...

I've made leaps and bounds recently in the department of approaching and talking to women, but I never seem to like what I find.  Maybe I'm a snob, but I find most women very uninteresting.  They all seem to talk about TV shows more than anything else :justdontknow:

The more women you get to know, the better your chances of finding a good one.  I guess it's like panning for gold. But there is just so much sand...


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Re: girls, sex [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7570830 - 10/28/07 08:09 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I am naturally confident. Tall, deep voice usually speak slowly, cunning. I can talk to girls fine. its just I never know if they actually want me or if they are just talking to me with no sexual interest.

If I am at a party talking to a girl for a good 15 minutes 1 on 1 about various topics is that a good indication they are interested in me?

last party I was at this cute girl(who is somewhat dating a guy i know) was like "hey ____ why the hell don't you have a girl around your arm of all people?" she even offered to be my "wing woman."

I know I should be swimmin in the pussy. I just.........cannot.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Tangerines]
    #7570889 - 10/28/07 08:27 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Go for an easy chick first.
Women are a lot more attracted to man who has recently been with a women. I don't know if there is some pheromone explanation or what, but it's been my experience.

Oh - and brush your teeth, wash your clothes, etc. - just in case that's your problem. Not saying it is - but a lot of guys don't take good care of their personal hygiene and then wonder why the girls pass them by.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: smbdy2lv]
    #7570901 - 10/28/07 08:29 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I have never been with a woman...am I doomed?


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Adom]
    #7570906 - 10/28/07 08:30 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Adom said:
Perhaps you won't settle for a shallow bitch.... This makes finding a female companion next to impossible.




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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7570925 - 10/28/07 08:33 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

:emo:


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Re: girls, sex [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7570969 - 10/28/07 08:47 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

> I guess it's like panning for gold. But there is just so much sand... 

:lol:  That's a good one - and it doesn't just go for women regarding romatics.. plenty of the men -- plenty of people I meet seem to fall very well into your sand analogy! 

At any rate, the best advice I can give to the original poster is simply to love yourself, find what you need for yourself to be comfortable, by yourself, and work it out from there.  I'm sure most people would want a partner, it's part genetic, partly how we're brought up -- but christ, get comfortable with yourself first.  Know that you're worth whatever you seek.  If you can't love yourself, how do expect to be able to give that love to another?

It sounds cliche, and yes I'm tossed five sheets away in the Hawaiian breeze here, but goddamnit you just have to understand yourself before you go and try to understand another.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: bort]
    #7571943 - 10/29/07 06:02 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Bridgelisa said:
Quote:

suimush said:
You already mentioned it. its confidence. be confident and the girls will be more interested.




I second this.
Good luck hunting.




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Re: girls, sex [Re: Tangerines]
    #7572185 - 10/29/07 08:01 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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I am naturally confident. Tall, deep voice usually speak slowly, cunning. I can talk to girls fine. its just I never know if they actually want me or if they are just talking to me with no sexual interest.

If I am at a party talking to a girl for a good 15 minutes 1 on 1 about various topics is that a good indication they are interested in me?

last party I was at this cute girl(who is somewhat dating a guy i know) was like "hey ____ why the hell don't you have a girl around your arm of all people?" she even offered to be my "wing woman."

I know I should be swimmin in the pussy. I just.........cannot.




15 mins? If you want a girl that's not shallow you have to give her more than 15 mins to form an opinion of you. I need alot more time than that myself. I have never(back when I was single) gone out with a guy I had just met at a party. You know, never trust a stranger.

It sounds like most of you are looking for more than a one night stand. That's good. But I have to agree with several others here that if for some reason it just doesn't seem to be happening right now maybe it's a good time to work on yourself.

Those special relationships are special for a reason: they don't happen every day. They are special because you finally found someone you have things in common with. Keep the faith guys and know it's better to wait for a good one than end up with some psycho just so you aren't alone.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7572231 - 10/29/07 08:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Some Good Timing helps. Met this girl at a party after her wankster boyfriend cheated on her. Surprisingly enough although it was kind of a rebound thing were still great friends afterwards. Oh and for the record. And try not to take the "its just confidence bro" too much to heart. Too much confidence is called being cocky and full of yourself Ive seen that blow up in so many guys faces :smile: its even better when the girls call them out on bein full of shit. :hehehe:


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Re: girls, sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7572297 - 10/29/07 08:57 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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I am naturally confident. Tall, deep voice usually speak slowly, cunning. I can talk to girls fine. its just I never know if they actually want me or if they are just talking to me with no sexual interest.

If I am at a party talking to a girl for a good 15 minutes 1 on 1 about various topics is that a good indication they are interested in me?

last party I was at this cute girl(who is somewhat dating a guy i know) was like "hey ____ why the hell don't you have a girl around your arm of all people?" she even offered to be my "wing woman."

I know I should be swimmin in the pussy. I just.........cannot.




15 mins? If you want a girl that's not shallow you have to give her more than 15 mins to form an opinion of you. I need alot more time than that myself. I have never(back when I was single) gone out with a guy I had just met at a party. You know, never trust a stranger.

It sounds like most of you are looking for more than a one night stand. That's good. But I have to agree with several others here that if for some reason it just doesn't seem to be happening right now maybe it's a good time to work on yourself.

Those special relationships are special for a reason: they don't happen every day. They are special because you finally found someone you have things in common with. Keep the faith guys and know it's better to wait for a good one than end up with some psycho just so you aren't alone.




well yes I am looking for 1 night stands. What I meant was that when observing a party it seems people have short attention spans and only hold convos very briefly. If I am talking to a girl 1 on 1 relativley in depth for 15 minutes that is above average. Would that mean there is some sort of interest? or just pleasantry talk. I do not expect to talk to a girl for 15 minutes and take her home with me. that is just ludacris.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Tangerines]
    #7572311 - 10/29/07 09:01 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

A good sign that she's attracted to you is if she touches you when talking. Nothing major, her hand touching your hand or your arm.

Other than that it kind of depends on the girl. I am a shy type. If I really really like a guy I can barely look at him. I start to make eye contact then look down. Other women (more successful at cruising than I was) can be very bold and look a guy in the eyes. So I don't think eye contact is a very good indicator.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7572317 - 10/29/07 09:06 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

okay. as of now I just want to get laid. I do have a nice girl in my sights I want to get a hold of possibly a relationship. she is from my hometown though so I never see her. She just visited my school and loved it so much that it is now her first choice of colleges so *knocks on wood*. That would be cool.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Tangerines]
    #7573540 - 10/29/07 04:23 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Soz for bringing this post up again but your lacking a major poinrt here...

All you gotta do is jump in, be a bit forward.

When you get to the stage (as before with the 'wing woman') you gotta use the body language.
Sit a bit closer.
Give her a touch or a nudge in a joking manner.
Look at her lips a bit more often and see if she looks at yours.
Then move your head a bit closer, see if she moves hers a bit closer.
If she doesn't look away then go in for the kill.

Once you've established that she's game with the kiss, you can usually take it as far as you want.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7573566 - 10/29/07 04:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

initiating contact is half the battle


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Lion]
    #7573667 - 10/29/07 05:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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bug said:
Unrequited love, the desire to be in a relationship, memories of past relationship experiences that were negative, etc., when dwelt upon, feed the misconception that one cannot be completely content without a partner. The lie that we tell ourselves is that, by feeling heartbroken and lonely, the universe will take pity on us and grant us that ideal partner we hope for. But these negative emotions just reinforce conditioned attachment to ideals, and this creates further suffering. In other words, most people wait around for the perfect partner, and that partner never comes; so, though they may enter into a relationship that offers some stability, they never realize that real happiness cannot come from outside themselves. What these people see in their partner is just a reflection of the self-love that they could have been cultivating instead of waiting. And when and if that partner leaves, or does something unexpected and hurtful, the cycle of suffering begins anew.



Someone seems to see things my way in this matter. Thats rare.

As you said its still a struggle thou. Definitely wouldn't mind meeting someone special. But at the same time don't feel the need to chase after sex. This complicates things.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: geokills]
    #7573738 - 10/29/07 05:25 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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>It sounds cliche, and yes I'm tossed five sheets away in the Hawaiian breeze here, but goddamnit you just have to understand yourself before you go and try to understand another.





very good advice and I personally will take this to heart.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
    #7573768 - 10/29/07 05:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

"i hate that i feel the need for a female; i wish i could be happy independently of anyone else."


that's the kicker.

you have to learn to be happy alone before you can be happy with someone. I spent 2 years without a girlfriend before i met my wife, because its what i needed to do. I had to take time to learn about myself, and learn what I REALLY wanted (and become happy with living alone). If you arent happy living without someone, then you will never be happy living with them.

If what you are looking for is your soul mate, then be patient, and dont settle for just any old girl. life will bring her to you when you both are ready. when i met my wife, she was my best friend for several months. we both liked each other but wouldnt say it, but we hung out every day. so when we finally took the step from being friends to more than friends, it was easy... it just felt right. and she is still first and foremost my best friend today.

Make a list of all the characteristics you want in your ideal woman. then dont settle for anything less than that... it takes time, but trust me, if that's what you're looking for then you will find it. you just need to be patient until it happens.

good luck, hope this helps.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Adom]
    #7573788 - 10/29/07 05:45 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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Adom said:
Perhaps you won't settle for a shallow bitch.... This makes finding a female companion next to impossible.




fuckin a man. i'm in the exact same boat as the OP. the thing for me though is, I'd rather not compromise - I don't want a girl that'll give me shit about smoking weed or tripping - I'd rather have a girl that will trip WITH me! but oh, I guess the boat for fantasy island is boarding...I'll be off then :rolleyes:


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Re: girls, sex [Re: blkjkrabbit]
    #7573814 - 10/29/07 05:52 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

me and my wife smoke n trip together. it's possible to find cool girls. you just have to be patient. and sift through a lot of stupid ones.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7574494 - 10/29/07 09:01 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

cool girls are out there in the plenty

i have like nine friends who are all these amazing crazy chicks

come to new jersey or philly and look for the girls with the mohawks


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Re: girls, sex [Re: sirbojangles]
    #7574618 - 10/29/07 09:38 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

I trip and smoke w/my guy but we didn't when we were first married even though we both knew the other had earlier in our youth. We understood each other and appreciated each other partially based on the mutual understanding of just having "been there and done that". One who has tripped can relate on a level where the never-tripped just can't.

That's not to say that the always-been-straight can't make healthy creative interesting life's partners but I understand why you'd want to look for someone with whom you relate that way.

In the advice for the love-lorn dept. lol, I'll say to lighten up and *be content alone to give off together vibes...which ironically attracts those who would want to become the puzzle piece to join with yours.

See my current thread requesting a definition for love. Some posters gave gr8 advice along *these lines and I really appreciated it.

There's someone for everyone out there and I believe that one discovers the person fro them b/c they are on your "frequency" so keep your frequency on a quality broadcast and it'll get "picked up" (not in a "picked up in a bar" sense lol) by quality chicks...you only want one but it's nice to be able to meet more than one to help you decide what you don't want too.

I wish for you and all singles who wish not to be that you won't have to kiss too many frogettes to find your "princess charming" however she'll come packaged...in rags or riches...or somewhere in-between. :wink: :heart: :peace:
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Re: girls, sex [Re: MyInnerChild]
    #7574836 - 10/29/07 10:29 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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MyInnerChild said:
I trip and smoke w/my guy but we didn't when we were first married even though we both knew the other had earlier in our youth. We understood each other and appreciated each other partially based on the mutual understanding of just having "been there and done that". One who has tripped can relate on a level where the never-tripped just can't.

That's not to say that the always-been-straight can't make healthy creative interesting life's partners but I understand why you'd want to look for someone with whom you relate that way.

In the advice for the love-lorn dept. lol, I'll say to lighten up and *be content alone to give off together vibes...which ironically attracts those who would want to become the puzzle piece to join with yours.

See my current thread requesting a definition for love. Some posters gave gr8 advice along *these lines and I really appreciated it.

There's someone for everyone out there and I believe that one discovers the person fro them b/c they are on your "frequency" so keep your frequency on a quality broadcast and it'll get "picked up" (not in a "picked up in a bar" sense lol) by quality chicks...you only want one but it's nice to be able to meet more than one to help you decide what you don't want too.

I wish for you and all singles who wish not to be that you won't have to kiss too many frogettes to find your "princess charming" however she'll come packaged...in rags or riches...or somewhere in-between. :wink: :heart: :peace:
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Well put.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Plok]
    #7574890 - 10/29/07 10:49 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

:thanx: plok...
:thumbup: man...
And here I am...off my foucs-meds and everything! I must be in a good mood cuz I'm about to become a grandma for the 1st time within the next 3-4 hours! Whattya think o'that?! :shocked:

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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7574908 - 10/29/07 10:54 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

If you're having girl problems, I feel bad for you, son.
'Cause I got 99 problems, but the bitch aint one.


no but honestly
why do so many guys on here have problems relating to the opposite sex...


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Re: girls, sex [Re: meatcakeman]
    #7575356 - 10/30/07 03:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Check out how I rated you man... :wink:
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Re: girls, sex [Re: crazy__diamond]
    #7575453 - 10/30/07 05:32 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Confidence is key but overconfidence is the killer, you just gotta find something in between that works for you, be yourself because thats who you want them to like. Make sure you give them enough room to express themselves so you can see where you connect and where you don't. I found a cute hippy girl I can toke and trip with and she's an absolute star, so they do exist, you just gotta know what to look for. And you know if all else fails there's always hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming :laugh: that way you are almost guaranteed good times, god knows I've had them :smile: peace


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
    #7575506 - 10/30/07 06:13 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

if a girl says "hey are you going to take your pants off again?" (cus i was in my boxers when we met at my house, then we left to pick up some beer for some friends together in her car so i had to put pants on) is that an indication that shes into me? as well as playing footsy and such? im never good at shit like that... but i was thinking those are some indications that ive come by and yet still didnt do anything with the girls.. just let it pass me by.. haha..


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
    #7575602 - 10/30/07 07:17 AM (16 years, 3 months ago)

COMPETENCE is much more important than confidence. My best advice is to KNOW HOW THE GAME WORKS. Girls typically follow the same pattern of behavior for all romantic relationships. If you can recognize the clues, you can play the game. Some of the best pick-up-artists do not have confidence, but they are competent with their material!

Check out the Mystery Method. MSG me for more info.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: blkjkrabbit]
    #7576964 - 10/30/07 02:23 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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I don't want a girl that'll give me shit about smoking weed or tripping - I'd rather have a girl that will trip WITH me! but oh, I guess the boat for fantasy island is boarding...I'll be off then :rolleyes:



i have plenty of home gurls that trip and smoke with me... they are out there look around :smile:


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Re: girls, sex [Re: xpl0de]
    #7580618 - 10/31/07 12:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

Where do you meet cool chicks like that? I never run into them... I would kill for a girl that understands the significance and depth of the psychadelic experience.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: Plok]
    #7580673 - 10/31/07 01:03 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

You have to slip them a dose to get the interested :quagmire:




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Re: girls, sex [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7581398 - 10/31/07 03:48 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

The bad thing about these kinda girls.......they are always broke and smoke up all your shit.


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Re: girls, sex [Re: jpea14]
    #7582210 - 10/31/07 08:01 PM (16 years, 3 months ago)

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The bad thing about these kinda girls.......they are always broke and smoke up all your shit.



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