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Women
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I hate them. I'm sick of being the nice guy when all they want is an asshole.
I need to learn how to be a total jerk.
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i used to be the same. then i found www.youporn.com and grew mushrooms.
porn and a wank every other day, shrooms once every few months.
all my sexual and emotional needs are met.
women.are.evil.
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Women are fuckin' crazy, end of story
They're still pretty cool to have around though, under certain conditions
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Re: Women [Re: skydog]
#7560842 - 10/25/07 09:20 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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AKA after many many beverages
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DoorsFan said: I hate them. I'm sick of being the nice guy when all they want is an asshole.
I need to learn how to be a total jerk.
no, you need to learn how to be a mna, instead of am insecure little shriveled prick. Remember, women need you as much as you need them.
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women are awesome
all my friends are women
the only difference between you and them is your body
think about that
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sirbojangles said: women are awesome
all my friends are women
the only difference between you and them is your body
think about that
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how so?
maybe you dont know the right women
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of course all is different is our bodies, but i find alot of times many women tend to be very vain and self conscious, that's not to say men aren't either, but that's not my concern.
so you nailed in on the spot, you gotta know the "right" women.
sometimes it's a bit hard to find in today's society though
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Women want a nice guy who will beat them occasionally. Once you figure that out, it's gravy.
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you dont need to learn to be a jerk - you need to learn to be the alpha male.
show superiority over other male's by taking them down a notch with wit and intelect, it's the best and women love it.
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7561205 - 10/25/07 10:54 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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meams said: you dont need to learn to be a jerk - you need to learn to be the alpha male.
show superiority over other male's by taking them down a notch with wit and intelect, it's the best and women love it.
Add to the wit and intellect for the guys, a shy smile for the girls and that's a combo, nobody can beat! Fill your arsenal with brains and honestly cultivated charm, sprinkle liberally with self-confidence and you'll be lethally attractive. No beer-belly helps too btw. lol
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all my sexual and emotional needs are met.
I hope you're joking man.... I think you need some hugs from a chick...here ya go! OOOOO Consider thyself hugged lol
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I love women
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Re: Women [Re: ZShroom]
#7561270 - 10/25/07 11:08 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Cant trust anything that bleeds every month, for a week and doesn't die. .....nah just joking..........we are all one 
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Re: Women [Re: ZShroom]
#7561363 - 10/25/07 11:40 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Some of you guys are fucking halarious. RUN AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER SCREEN!!! FIND A FAT CHICK!!! SRSLY!!
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Re: Women [Re: domite]
#7561381 - 10/25/07 11:44 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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needs me a fatty pretty soon here
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Re: Women [Re: ZShroom]
#7561395 - 10/25/07 11:49 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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ZShroom said: Cant trust anything that bleeds every month, for a week and doesn't die.
that was awesome
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yeah some old guy told me that a while ago, now he's dead
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Re: Women [Re: ZShroom]
#7561450 - 10/26/07 12:23 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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This pic, says it all.
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i hope to god she doesn't have a cock.
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Re: Women [Re: Merkin]
#7561631 - 10/26/07 01:40 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hahahaha. She has a mind control device. It's built with infinite and evil.
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Re: Women [Re: AlCapwn]
#7561645 - 10/26/07 01:44 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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k.. @_@
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Women this, women that... they are people and the real ones (that are individuals) probably won't like your attitude
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Re: Women [Re: Meepp]
#7561775 - 10/26/07 03:03 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think that, from a guy's point of view, most women are boring and fail. From a woman's point of view, most guys are assholes and fail. In fact, you should all probably just accept the fact that the human race sucks as a whole.
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Re: Women [Re: AlCapwn]
#7561805 - 10/26/07 03:50 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol well I am a female, and my best friends have always been male I have to agree that most women are really boring... it's not very interesting to talk about what colour your cousin's mother decorated her house with etc. But there are really cool ones too, not all are airheads.
I can smell cliche BS that some men try to pull from a mile away It's pretty funny when they try to act tough, talk only about what a cool car they have etc. Lol stop trying to act like an alpha male if you're not and STFU weakling.
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They don't want a jerk. They just want a confident guy. Jerks just happen to be confident most of the time. Be yourself.
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go for the ugly ones... better cooks
Edited by johnm214 (10/26/07 08:32 AM)
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memes
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Re: Women [Re: Meepp]
#7561941 - 10/26/07 06:41 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meepp said: Lol stop trying to act like an alpha male if you're not and STFU weakling.
clearly (with a few exceptions) being the alpha male is a LEARNED trait - a process which i'm going through right now. I decided a month or two ago that i'm tired of being the funny guy who's always such a good friend, and started being 'alpha male'-esque.
so far its working - i went from a 6mo- dry spell to a steady stream of poontang over the past month and a half.
Things i did: -spoke slower -spoke lower (hard to do) -work out daily -walk around with an 'air' that "i am the shit"
i dont understand why (well, yes i do: Women are fucking loony) but it works
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Re: Women [Re: AlCapwn]
#7561991 - 10/26/07 07:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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AlCapwn said: I think that, from a guy's point of view, most women are boring and fail. From a woman's point of view, most guys are assholes and fail. In fact, you should all probably just accept the fact that the human race sucks as a whole.
Agreed! There are noteworthy exceptions to this rule, ones that I enjoy spending time with, but there's a lot I don't like about women as a whole. I won't bother listing their shortcomings, because that's done too often. I wouldn't even say I don't like women. I just don't like the vast majority of people.
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most women have penis envy and as a result try to be alpha males and control guys....what they fail to realize is men don't go around trying to control people with their assholes.
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DoorsFan said: I hate them. I'm sick of being the nice guy when all they want is an asshole.
You are going for the wrong type of woman if they're expecting you to be more of a asshole. If you go for the wrong type, you'll always be left unfulfilled.
I'm not a very sociable person. Somehow I still managed to meet the girl of my dreams...and it wasn't by going to bars (it's totally right what that guy said in Superbad...you don't meet keepers in bars!). Go do something you like to do, and you'll meet the right women. Anything, just as long as you like to do it. I met mine at a small party a friend was having, for example.
Oh yeah, you know when you do meet the right girl. Likely she'll know to, so it won't take much to get something going...just don't be scared!
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7562036 - 10/26/07 07:41 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meams is spot on.
In my experiments I've found out:
-The most important thing to do is to initiate conversations with women.
-It pays to try to learn who they are and what they value by talking to them. Don't act like you like them until you clearly have reason to like them other than for their bodies. You're just talking to another person, not a woman you want to sleep with.
-Women dislike jerks, but they dislike insecure guys even more.
-Smile a lot! Smile when you first meet ANY woman.
-Women back off when they sense they are only being talked to because the guy wants to sleep with them.
-Women are usually insecure too, but they don't have to approach guys to get with them. Don't let yourself think they're better than you.
-Women pay more attention to your clothing and grooming than you do.
It sounds wrong, but practice by talking to women that are not that attractive and intimidating.
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I think, women control men, but not with their pussy but with their mind. It's important to realize, because if we don't, then we can't escape. But if we realize, that we don't need their pussy (there are plenty of it everywhere), then we are not under control anymore.
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I should add: The mind control is still there, but if we look deeper into it, we either realize that we actually like it, or if we don't, we can escape it too...
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I don't belive. I fear.
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Meepp
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7562057 - 10/26/07 07:54 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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meams said: clearly (with a few exceptions) being the alpha male is a LEARNED trait
Well it's nature versus nurture... if it works for you, nice. 
Personally I'm all about being myself, I don't see any huge advantage in acting... then again I just hate stupid drama, manipulation etc., maybe these games are more enjoyable to others.
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Re: Women [Re: Bard]
#7562060 - 10/26/07 07:56 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think guys would do well to realize the difference between a want and a need 
I want pussy...I don't need it.
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Re: Women [Re: Meepp]
#7562073 - 10/26/07 08:01 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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...there's always whores.
pz,
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Re: Women [Re: GoaM]
#7562083 - 10/26/07 08:04 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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actually those that get pussy have been proven to live longer so actually we do need it to live...infact every women that denies me sex is dening me life come to think about it
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Re: Women [Re: GoaM]
#7562090 - 10/26/07 08:07 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I can honestly say in the 5 years Ive lived in Florida Ive yet to meet a single women who I can stand to be around for more than 10 minuets.....I think Florida is making me gay. Maybe living in Gainesville has something to do with it though.
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They are absolutely correct, it isn't about being a jerk it is about confidence. Just always be smiling, laughing and joking around and they come to you.
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Re: Women [Re: Nem]
#7562173 - 10/26/07 08:41 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I still think they are a bunch of yin pains in the ass to our male yang awesomeness....ITS SCIENCE
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Wow I feel bad for you deprived males who can't seem to find great women. They're everywhere. Women in general aren't evil at all and if you think that you need to get out more 
If any sex is evil, it's the males. We've formed a patriarchal society that benefits the males and SHAFTS the females. If anything I feel bad for the women, having to suffer through the socio-cultural bullshit that males have created over time.
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Haha what a silly video A rather ugly male too...
I don't really feel sorry for all us females, I am mostly annoyed by the fact lots of them willingly let males make the rules outside the home. Some of the common attitudes don't leave room for us who aren't interested in having kids etc. (like getting to high positions in most workplaces). It's pretty hard to get any respect being a female
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Re: Women [Re: Meepp]
#7562385 - 10/26/07 10:00 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meepp said:
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meams said: clearly (with a few exceptions) being the alpha male is a LEARNED trait
Well it's nature versus nurture... if it works for you, nice. 
Personally I'm all about being myself, I don't see any huge advantage in acting... then again I just hate stupid drama, manipulation etc., maybe these games are more enjoyable to others.
i suppose you're right - and these games are somewhat enjoyable for me (i have a natural tendency to analyze everything in the world - so this type of stuff is a gold mine for me).
i also don't want to put off the impression that i'm off being Alpha-Male trying to find my next long-term relationship. When i find a girl i consider girlfriend material, i'm always myself, gotta make sure they're interested in ME and not alpha-me. but if i'm at a bar or a big party just tryin to get laid, its Alpha all the way.
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7562481 - 10/26/07 10:25 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Man there are so many lame generalizations in this thread.
Aplha male is a learned trait? Not necessarily, at all.
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alpha male CAN be a learned trait - my bad? let's use underline
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7562517 - 10/26/07 10:34 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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underline, weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehoooo! "lets use underline"<<LOL being an "alpha male" isn't a learned trait for the majority, thats all i was tryin to say =) i dunno now im making generalizations in stoned rambling, just ignore this post and the previous hahahaha, whew
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its all gravy - i just chuckled when you said:
"There are so many lame generalizations"
and then followed it on the next line by saying:
"Alpha male isn't a learned trait, at all"
it's been a long morning for all of us - its quite shitty here, pouring rain
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Re: Women [Re: memes]
#7562577 - 10/26/07 10:47 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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oh that "at all" was meant to add to the "necessarily"
i didn't mean what you just said
=)
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Re: Women [Re: Meepp]
#7562587 - 10/26/07 10:51 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meepp said:
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meams said: clearly (with a few exceptions) being the alpha male is a LEARNED trait
Well it's nature versus nurture... if it works for you, nice. 
Personally I'm all about being myself, I don't see any huge advantage in acting... then again I just hate stupid drama, manipulation etc., maybe these games are more enjoyable to others.
So what is 'being yourself?' Following your impulses? Who people are changes throughout life. To 'be yourself,' for most, is to act how you've acted in the past. Many people have developed habits of self-consciousness and avoidance could stand to benefit from acting in ways they are not used to acting.
It doesn't have to be phony, or manipulative.
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Be yourself to me means
to do what pleases you and only you to live for yourself and not for anyone else
there are exceptions for sig others but you can still basically manage to do the above if you truly find the right person do live with
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you guys are all pretty fucked up
you seem to forget just how many people there are on the earth
these generalizations are complete bullshit
is like you guys cant wrap your head around the human mind so you blame women
you gotta remember how many people are brainwashed and conditioned
wake the fuck up
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these generalizations are complete bullshit
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sirbojangles said:
you guys are all pretty fucked up
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LOL
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Meepp said:
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meams said: clearly (with a few exceptions) being the alpha male is a LEARNED trait
Well it's nature versus nurture... if it works for you, nice. 
Personally I'm all about being myself, I don't see any huge advantage in acting... then again I just hate stupid drama, manipulation etc., maybe these games are more enjoyable to others.
So what is 'being yourself?' Following your impulses? Who people are changes throughout life. To 'be yourself,' for most, is to act how you've acted in the past. Many people have developed habits of self-consciousness and avoidance could stand to benefit from acting in ways they are not used to acting.
It doesn't have to be phony, or manipulative.
That is very true also. I typed that because I got the impression the person I quoted put a lot of effort into acting like others would want him to be...
I rarely take other people's opinions of me into consideration, but that's just me, I'm a lone wolf mostly. I don't feel comfortable faking anything. I've learned to show different sides of myself to people though, often you don't see yourself the same way everyone else does...
Ideally people would let go of some social roles, brought by gender, financial status etc. and do what they want. Haha I hope this makes any sense, English is not my native language and I'm pretty drunk so..
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