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deXtrous
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Just found out I knocked a girl up.
#7549955 - 10/23/07 05:15 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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This girl i've been seeing the past few months, who I have fucked only twice without a condom has just told me she had a positive pregnancy result from her doctor.
I didn't cum inside her though, it was pre-cum insemination I am guessing.
I am in shock atm I only found out 10 minutes ago.
I cant keep it but I have feelings for this girl, I dont want to lose that if we lose the kid... Tell me how or what I can do to fix this.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7549956 - 10/23/07 05:17 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Pre-cum birth? Does that mean the baby will come out retarded?
I don't know man.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7549957 - 10/23/07 05:17 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear that bro, I had a scare like that before and luckily for me it was a false positive.
You really gotta talk to her through the whole thing and figure out together how you guys feel.
Sorry man, thats a rough situation. Best of luck.
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deXtrous
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: Dave Bowman]
#7549970 - 10/23/07 05:27 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Synthettek said: Sorry to hear that bro, I had a scare like that before and luckily for me it was a false positive.
You really gotta talk to her through the whole thing and figure out together how you guys feel.
Sorry man, thats a rough situation. Best of luck.
I am praying my situation is similar to yours.
How much do abortions run for these days?
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7549977 - 10/23/07 05:32 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oooh, you should totally watch the movie knocked up.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: zepp420]
#7549980 - 10/23/07 05:38 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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zepp420 said: Oooh, you should totally watch the movie knocked up.
You're useless
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: zepp420]
#7549982 - 10/23/07 05:39 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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zepp420 said: Oooh, you should totally watch the movie knocked up.
I instantly thought that. But seriously dude, that sucks. I feel very sorry for you. I hope it all woks out, man.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7549988 - 10/23/07 05:43 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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deXtrous said: I didn't cum inside her though, it was pre-cum insemination I am guessing.
What is pre-cum insemination?
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7549996 - 10/23/07 05:50 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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dude you idiot... either where a condom or have her on birth control.. otherwise you take that risk .. you get a baby.. and usually its idiots who do that.. and continue polluting the world with idiot babies!
but i feel for you man, thats a tough situation. for real... sucks... :/
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: MrKite1]
#7549998 - 10/23/07 05:51 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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MrKite1 said:
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deXtrous said: I didn't cum inside her though, it was pre-cum insemination I am guessing.
What is pre-cum insemination?
dripping... leaking... get my drift?
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deXtrous
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: Locus]
#7550004 - 10/23/07 05:55 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Locus said: dude you idiot... either where a condom or have her on birth control.. otherwise you take that risk .. you get a baby.. and usually its idiots who do that.. and continue polluting the world with idiot babies!
but i feel for you man, thats a tough situation. for real... sucks... :/
Fuck up, She told me she was on birth control, which she was. She forgot a pill while on holiday which I guess fucks the cycle for the whole month.
I'm not an idiot just a victim of misfortune
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7550055 - 10/23/07 06:42 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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if the baby comes, be a man and take responsibility. fuck an abortion
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7550080 - 10/23/07 06:58 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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deXtrous said:Fuck up, She told me she was on birth control, which she was. She forgot a pill while on holiday which I guess fucks the cycle for the whole month.
that sucks - my X used to miss pills all the time, her doctor told her if she takes 2 the next time then it won't affect risks (for the most part).
either your girl missed quite a few... or you're just super unlucky.
If you have the responsability, maturity, and economic means to care for the child I recommend keeping it - but otherwise do it a favor and ab0rt.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7550087 - 10/23/07 07:06 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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1. Insemination by pre-cum is a controversial topic. Although it does contain sperm, it's in very low amounts and they are possibly not viable sperm. 2. Missing one pill does not negate the entire effects of birth control. As an aside, there are procedures when you miss a pill. Sometimes doubling up the next day will correct it; sometimes not. If not, she should have told you you need a condom. 3. You only had unprotected sex twice, which hardly guarantees a pregnancy. Many people who want to get pregnant take longer than that.
Now, I'm not saying it can't be yours. But if I were you, I would absolutely insist on a paternity test. And if she refuses and gets all defensive about "trust" and whatever, that would be a huge red flag.
Anyway, get another test before you even start worrying. Good luck!
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: FollowTheMusic]
#7550096 - 10/23/07 07:17 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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FollowTheMusic said: 1. Insemination by pre-cum is a controversial topic. Although it does contain sperm, it's in very low amounts and they are possibly not viable sperm. 2. Missing one pill does not negate the entire effects of birth control. As an aside, there are procedures when you miss a pill. Sometimes doubling up the next day will correct it; sometimes not. If not, she should have told you you need a condom. 3. You only had unprotected sex twice, which hardly guarantees a pregnancy. Many people who want to get pregnant take longer than that.
Now, I'm not saying it can't be yours. But if I were you, I would absolutely insist on a paternity test. And if she refuses and gets all defensive about "trust" and whatever, that would be a huge red flag.
Anyway, get another test before you even start worrying. Good luck!
Tomorrow we are going to the doc's to get another test, I think the first could have been a false positive, at least I'm hoping to god it is. A paternity test will be underway if the result is still positive and she wanting to keep it.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7550102 - 10/23/07 07:21 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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deXtrous said: How much do abortions run for these days?
$20 for a bottle of cheap vodka? less if you can find a coat hanger somewhere.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: FollowTheMusic]
#7550107 - 10/23/07 07:27 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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FollowTheMusic said: 1. Insemination by pre-cum is a controversial topic. Although it does contain sperm, it's in very low amounts and they are possibly not viable sperm. 2. Missing one pill does not negate the entire effects of birth control. As an aside, there are procedures when you miss a pill. Sometimes doubling up the next day will correct it; sometimes not. If not, she should have told you you need a condom. 3. You only had unprotected sex twice, which hardly guarantees a pregnancy. Many people who want to get pregnant take longer than that.
Now, I'm not saying it can't be yours. But if I were you, I would absolutely insist on a paternity test. And if she refuses and gets all defensive about "trust" and whatever, that would be a huge red flag.
Anyway, get another test before you even start worrying. Good luck!
translation. Stop fucking skank hos without a rubber dude. Its enough to put to question the fact that she missed a pill AND it was precum.
come the fuck on man. Get a paternity test.
On a side note if it is yours this could be a blessing or a curse. probably a curse though.
I miss mine
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: deXtrous]
#7550170 - 10/23/07 08:09 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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If she is pregnant, you and her should weigh the pros and cons of throwing away the next 18 years of your lives and decide accordingly.
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Re: Just found out I knocked a girl up. [Re: Hakim0777]
#7550172 - 10/23/07 08:10 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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How old are you?
Also, I agree with buk here. If having a child would seriously disrupt your life, abortion is something I'd consider. This shouldn't be an issue about whether it's moral or not; that's a whole 'nother debate altogether. In my opinion, if the environment a child is coming into isn't expecting the child or doesn't want it, but does so because of abortion conflicts, then the child may not grow up well. Not to say you'd be a bad parent, but some people just aren't ready for a kid until they've been with their girl for a long time, and parents of a child who haven't been together for awhile tend to have relationship troubles as a result.
A relative of mine got his girl pregnant, but his case is different from yours. She deliberately stopped taking birth control and didn't tell him for three months. Bam, pregnant. Now the two are constantly having arguments, usually instigated by her because she's a grade-A bitch. Now, this relative strongly opposes abortion, despite the fact that because of his current lifestyle, having a kid is one of the worst things that could happen to him. Just take your own living conditions into consideration.
Regardless how others around you feel about abortion, it's ultimately your life, and your choice.
Edited by Gill (10/23/07 08:19 AM)
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