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TameMe
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never been a home wrecker but...
#7547996 - 10/22/07 05:53 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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there's this chick in my art class.... she's got a boyfriend...and normally i'd just leave it alone.
but this girl is different. i don't know what to do. i guess i could handle just being her friend and leave it at that. but i will always be wanting something more.
should i let her know how i feel or just be a friend?
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: TameMe]
#7548008 - 10/22/07 05:56 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're your first priority.
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drSE
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: JunkFood]
#7548026 - 10/22/07 06:00 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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people who don't open their mouth don't get fed.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548028 - 10/22/07 06:00 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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and it depends if you are friends with her boyfriend or not.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548034 - 10/22/07 06:02 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't do it. It's a mean thing to do.
Karma.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: JunkFood]
#7548038 - 10/22/07 06:03 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Been in a similar situation.... The best thing you can do is be a friend... But, don't let her know that you like her and don't treat her like you would a girlfriend. Be sure to pick and joke and throw the occasional light hearted insult her way. Keep things mixed up by creating doubt, yet lending a helping hand. Keep things light hearted and humorous. Lend an ear and share 'relationship' stories. Maybe even let on that you are seeing someone. As long as she is sharing her intimate life with you, you have a one up. When her BF pisses her off, be there to lend a shoulder. If they break up, move in for the kill.
The sure fire way to ruin your chances with her is to tell her how you feel...... Also, in order to play this hand effeciently, you need to know the history of their relationship....
Anything worth doing is hard work.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: m.v2]
#7548043 - 10/22/07 06:03 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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i dated a girl named karma once.
what a bitch..

actually she wrote me a message for the first time last month in over a year since I left her in Washington.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548044 - 10/22/07 06:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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she stole that hat from me too.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548049 - 10/22/07 06:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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i wonder if she knows that i still have a porno of her... hmm....
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548055 - 10/22/07 06:06 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Them love triangles, always work out for the best.
Edited by Brainiac (10/22/07 06:12 PM)
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548057 - 10/22/07 06:06 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
drSE said: and it depends if you are friends with her boyfriend or not.
if not just do it
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drSE
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: mikeytro]
#7548065 - 10/22/07 06:07 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
mikeytro said:
Quote:
drSE said: and it depends if you are friends with her boyfriend or not.
if not just do it
NIKE
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548079 - 10/22/07 06:09 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't be an asshole! Imagine if this happened to you.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: m.v2]
#7548086 - 10/22/07 06:10 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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i've been their. thats why i left that girl in Washington... But at least I didn't know who the guy was. i would rather it be someone that i didn't know then a friend.
so i say that if your friends with her boyfriend... then don't do it.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: TameMe]
#7548112 - 10/22/07 06:15 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah i dunno. I would at least wait it out. I would absolutely hate it if some one tried to make a move on my girlfriend. Especially if she accepted the invitation. My life would be a fucking ruin. I would be absolutely crushed. I wouldn't know what to do with myself, and i would go through a bad depression for a long while.
You don't know if they are madly in love or not. If they have a terrible relationship, maybe its alright, but the fact of the matter is, you don't know the first thing about their relationship (you may on the surface but not underneath that).
So you can either try and succeed and know that you stole a girl that some one else could possibly have loved with all their heart, try and fail and know that you tried, or just leave it alone and try later when she breaks it off with her boyfriend.
Seriously though, i would not do that, even if you don't know the guy.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: drSE]
#7548125 - 10/22/07 06:17 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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No I've never met the guy.
I think I'll stick with what Fraggin said. Although...if they do break up....I don't want to be a rebound. I'd probably rather "steal" her away than be her rebound.
I guess this isn't meant to be.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: Drewwyann]
#7548131 - 10/22/07 06:18 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Think about if your girlfriend ran off with some asshole because he approached her. Sure, that must mean your relationship wasn't that strong.. but there should be some kind of unspoken rule where another guy doesn't fuck with another guys girlfriend. It's just wrong and cheap.
If you do it, you're an asshole.
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: TameMe]
#7549218 - 10/22/07 09:39 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
TameMe said: there's this chick in my art class.... she's got a boyfriend...and normally i'd just leave it alone.
but this girl is different. i don't know what to do. i guess i could handle just being her friend and leave it at that. but i will always be wanting something more.
should i let her know how i feel or just be a friend?
fuck that. my next door neighbor is a rabbi and his wife must be like 10 years younger than him(or maybe his beard just makes him look older...) but she is a stone cold fox. I won't even mention the unkosher thoughts... (haha get it.....fuck you guys. that is some hot semetic ass. omar knows what im talkin about, but he knows more about the blacks, for sure.)
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aint no ring on her finger? then BAM! Fair game.
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TameMe
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Re: never been a home wrecker but... [Re: BrAiN]
#7552822 - 10/23/07 09:14 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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exactly. that's what i'm thinking......
i mean....i have friends that got married in their early 20s(although i think that is kinda stupid)...but still....if you're not engaged then you should still be able to look around and flirt.
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