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 mr crisper
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 getting married.................? 
#752452 - 07/17/02 03:18 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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polygamy or monogamy? i just can't decide....which would be best?
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 EvilGir
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 Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#752515 - 07/17/02 04:32 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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I beleive that we where built for one to one relationships. If we where ment to be with more than on person at a time then there would be probably less sexuial transmitted diseaes as we would have a greater imunity towards them.
Also could you truly be happy with you girlfriend/boyfirend sleeping with 3 or 4 other people as well as being with you. You should find a bestfriend some some special to give them all your attention and make them feel special and wanted. How can this be done if your with more than one person.
We shoulsd be evolving not de-evolving.
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Swami
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: EvilGir]
#752532 - 07/17/02 04:45 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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If we where ment to be with more than on person at a time then there would be probably less sexuial transmitted diseaes as we would have a greater imunity towards them.
Meant by whom? God? AIDS is so recent a disease, that there has been way too little time for humans to adapt a genetic immune response. Most other forms of VD do not prevent procreation. Life dosn't care what happens to you after that, so a shortened life span has little affect on evolution nor the continuance of the species.
Also would you be happy with you girlfriend/wife sleeping with 3 or 4 other men as well as being with you.
As long as the ho' done give me my share of the bread.
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Edited by Swami (07/17/02 04:53 AM)
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: Swami]
#752561 - 07/17/02 05:08 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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In reply to:
Most other forms of VD do not prevent procreation
But it does stop reproduction like chlamydia which can make you infertile.
Which means you will not pass on your genes to someone else.
Also I beleive AIDS is a man mad disease to kill of black people in africa.
Kinda like a racist population controll but thats another topic.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#752609 - 07/17/02 05:31 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm told by my wife and others of the xx chromosomal type that when women are together for extended periods of time their menstrual cycles tend to synchronize. This could very well be hell on earth for one week out of every four.
With that in mind, I will now leave you with another sobering thought from a quote I read somewhere, "Why get married? Just find a woman you hate and give her half of everything you own."
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#752646 - 07/17/02 05:55 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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how about a nice group theogamy?
(thou art god
i am god
all that groks is god...)
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: gnrm23]
#752654 - 07/17/02 05:58 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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anybody ever heard of the church of all worlds?
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mr crisper
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: gnrm23]
#752658 - 07/17/02 05:59 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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now you're talking.
how could one kick off something like that? get the ball rolling, so to speak?
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: ]
#752834 - 07/17/02 07:16 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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"Why get married? Just find a woman you hate and give her half of everything you own."
Master, you are the paradigm of wisdom.
Thou art that.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#753283 - 07/17/02 10:15 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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higamous hogamous
women are monogamous
hogamous higamous
men are polygamous
duh........ 
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#753452 - 07/17/02 11:30 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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you can spend the rest of you life with one person and not get married. I don't see why proving your love for each other infront of your family, friends, and God should change your relationship with your mate in any way. I'd rather spend the cash traveling and experiencing the world together than paying for photographers, live band, all the stupid wedding dresses and tuxedos, man the list goes on and on.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: chodamunky]
#753469 - 07/17/02 11:36 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Amen.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#753490 - 07/17/02 11:48 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shit this is a strange thing. Sometimes I fell I want to be with one women, but after a while my mind gets nasty... Though I think a women to fit your choice can be found. Your choice after all.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: chodamunky]
#753545 - 07/17/02 12:12 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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I found the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, but I had to get married otherwise the U.S. government wouldn't have allowed her to legally stay in the country. If it wasn't for that, we would not have made it 'legal.'
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 Re: getting married.................? [Re: ]
#754527 - 07/17/02 07:08 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Always sign a prenup... if you don't and you split up, the man becomes a slave.
Fuck alimony.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: Sclorch]
#754552 - 07/17/02 07:16 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fuck alimony.
I think a more appropriate spelling is alimoney.
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TrUmAs
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#754773 - 07/17/02 08:23 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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evoloving...I went thru the exact same process with my brazilian wife he he
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: TrUmAs]
#754836 - 07/17/02 08:54 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck marriage, just get her to get a job that will sponsor a work visa, I dunno.
But seriously, I know some happy people who are married. It's just too special to be a sure thing for every person, especially in this individual-comes-first society.
We don't have the strict marrige rules of other cultures, where people learn to love each other (usually ending up happy together).
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: CosmicJoke]
#755054 - 07/18/02 12:26 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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dang it CJ, you been huffin' nitrous again? 
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hmmmm... married 25 years... maybe she & i might disagree as to how many of 'em was "good" years... our final wedding anniversary last tuesday... took her to dinner and gave her a yellow rose (i fear red rose no longer appropriate  )... told her i wouldn't have missed it... sorry for the bad times, thanks for the good times (and we did surely have some very good times...)(& we both got a bit teary-eyed, sniff...)
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if there is love, live it... try to make it last... and if love fades too far, well -- cherish the good, forgive the not-so-good... & if you can manage it somehow, allow friendship to survive the strain of dissolution... (& if not, do try not to eviscerate each other in the process ...)
i suppose it takes two to make it work, but only one to make it not work...
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here and now, boys, here and now
karuna"
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#755117 - 07/18/02 02:05 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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All I can say, is that I have been married for 14 years, and one woman is all I can handle, to add more that one, will send me to an early grave. 
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: ]
#755123 - 07/18/02 02:12 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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That was the same with my case.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: gnrm23]
#755690 - 07/18/02 07:41 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh, never ever gnrmi, why, nitrous oxide is a restricted substance - i prefer the legal, and hence spiritual, huffin' like toluene, butane, and gasoline... of course 
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ol' willy jame's lil diddy is often used to criticize the funny gas' seeming profundity, but if you think about it long enough, ain't it hard to top?
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if you wanna move to kenya you could always become a masai elder - not only do you get multiple wives, but you get to sit around and play checkers while they do all the labor!
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the way i figure it, fuck those healthy relationships. they sound boring. i want 'em sick, neurotic, and co-dependent. yes, indeed. and screw healing too, the thorns in my heart are my muse for which i write poetry and sew bliss seeds. (CJ slept alone last night and cried himself to sleep squeezing his pillow...) but as much as i love beat generation ideals, i unfortunately confess my desire for monogamy.... but to the naive- beware, beware, and beware - it's the ultimate toxin! play safely with much care.
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Everything is better than it was the last time. I'm good.
If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.
It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.
I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too. If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#755742 - 07/18/02 08:02 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Someone said humans are made for one-on-ones. I think that common human behavior suggests that human males evolved to have the inclination to be with as many females as possible, and human females evolved to find and secure a single mate for life. We evolved this way because it was the most productive for reproduction. Lots of extra kids running around. If a guy can start two families, his genes are twice as likely to survive.
Even though I am a firm believer in monogamy and would never under any circumstance cheat on a significant other, I am a human male and the idea of being with ten women at once does indeed appeal to me, but only on a sexual level. Imagine having ten girlfriends all paging you all friggin day! 
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: ]
#755756 - 07/18/02 08:05 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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In reply to:
I'm told by my wife and others of the xx chromosomal type that when women are together for extended periods of time their menstrual cycles tend to synchronize. This could very well be hell on earth for one week out of every four.
I have heard that too but hearing it again started me thinking... This too must be an evolutionary device. If you've got all your wives ovulating at the same time it would be easier to impregnate them all within a few days of chillin in your cave and then go off looking for food again.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#756894 - 07/18/02 04:44 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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i also believe that you can be with a person forever and never be married. its just a piece of paper. as long as you love that person there is no real need to have it written down, just express it to them. that should be enough 
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: hazybluestar]
#757141 - 07/18/02 05:58 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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I will second that thought and give an 'amen.'
Marriage should never be a legal issue, it is really about love, acceptance, caring and commitment between two (or more) people. If these things aren't there, no legal sanctions or paper declarations will make it a real marriage, if all these items are present a legal sanction is superfluous.
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#758606 - 07/19/02 07:38 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Crisper,
Just how old are you?
Bullfrog1
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: gnrm23]
#759607 - 07/19/02 04:04 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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anybody ever heard of the church of all worlds?
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Sure and their bible is my favorite book.
I grok.
Wanna share water?
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#759686 - 07/19/02 04:43 PM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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ever heard of oneida? and the comlex marrige system? i think there might be somehitng in that. im not saying that i necessarily would be able to "swing" that.....but who knows. i really think that they had a good idea.
i like the point also that i shouldnt have top mrry someone to show my love for them. marriage sometimes puts people in situations that they shouldnt be in. why should someone have to stay with me for the sake of the mrrige if they really wouldnt want to be? as long as i love my woman then i will stay with her, as long as she loves me..she will stay with me. i shouldnt guilt her into staying with me because divirce is looked down upon.
basically the gist of my rant is....i love her and im with her, she loves me and is with me. when one of us doesnt want to be with the other...we can move on. ill live another day to love and lose, or lose and love...or somehting like that.
i dont know if this came across as dickish or whatever.......i just felt like adding my2cents. phil
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mr crisper
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mile69]
#760751 - 07/20/02 02:00 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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thanks mile69, not dickish nor dickless
its strange we can view an event in our lives quite objectively, and more and more so the further away in time it is. either in hindsight or imagining a future event that could quite possibly happen - breaking up/divorce.
when it's going spla, all you can do is hang on.
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mr crisper
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: Bullfrog1]
#760765 - 07/20/02 02:10 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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i'd estimate i'm about 5 or 6 years younger than you 
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Re: getting married.................? [Re: mr crisper]
#762045 - 07/20/02 11:08 AM (21 years, 4 months ago) |
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Polygamy must be better.If you croaked, the kid would still be multi-parented .
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