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danlennon3
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parents
#7524244 - 10/16/07 04:49 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Do you have a good relationship with them? It seems like I have a bad relationship with my mother. I can be in a great mood and then she will say something that will get under my skin and completely ruin my mood. All she does is bitch all day about this or that. No matter how clean the house is, she will find something to complain about. I cannot wait until I have more money so I can get the fuck out of this place. I'm sorry... I just needed to vent. My dad is cool though. So how is your relationship with your parents?
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MOTH
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Yeah...move out. I hated my parents when I was living with them. And I noticed the farther I move away, the more I like them. Pretty soon I'll be moving back in the same town as them though, so I wonder how that will turn out. I get along better with my mom then my dad.
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Postulio
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Re: parents [Re: MOTH]
#7524336 - 10/16/07 05:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I have the same problem. Except everything I do just isn't good enough for my mum. Right now I'm saving up for bond so I can get the fuck out of there, while I'm living at dads for the moment.
I think moving out is a good choice. Talking doesn't work, it just goes back the way it was the day after.
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LeftyBurnz
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Re: parents [Re: Postulio]
#7524374 - 10/16/07 05:12 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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my father is awesome, my mother is a drunk. i had a pretty good relationship with them growing up, moreso my father, but since they have divorced, i spend alot more time with my father.
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Jack Albertson
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psycho mom, awesome dad.
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WhiskeyClone
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I could not have a better relationship with my parents. I enjoy all the time I spend with them. Since my father became ill, none of us (me, my sister and my parents) have let anything petty get between us. They invite me to dinner once a week, and I never decline.
When I lived with them there was more friction, but I think that's normal.
Just about every mushroom trip I have I end up sobbing at how lucky I am to have the family I have.
You can't do much but accept her habit of nitpicking as well as you can (she probably suffers the most as a result of that behavior) and try to keep the peace until you move out.
I would bet money you will appreciate her much more when you get your own place. Life begins when you move out
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jewunit
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I have a fine relationship with my father and had a very good one with my mother as well. It's definitely better when I'm here at school, since the things that we do that get on each other's nerves are pretty much based on living in the same house (me having a messy room, him getting upset over the smallest things.)
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d33p
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Re: parents [Re: jewunit]
#7524473 - 10/16/07 05:37 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I hate my parents. My mother is a psycho hypochondriac with chronic migranes and my father is an asshole hypocrite who was away on bussiness for 250 days a year while growing up. They are also potheads and don't get along.
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disturbed
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Re: parents [Re: d33p]
#7524898 - 10/16/07 07:20 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Both of my parents are pretty cool I get along with them pretty well because out of my 3 brothers I'm the only one to finish school and that is really the main thing they are annoying about. Well my mom and step dad are like super christian and them trying to get me to go to church all the time is pretty annoying too.
I just recently found out that mom my mom ate a bunch of acid and smoked a lot of weed when she was a kid which was a real shocker because I've never even seen her get drunk. I honestly thought shed never done any drugs because she is so super christian all the time and I used to come home whacked out of my gourd on lots of drugs all the time when I lived there and they never had any idea I was fucked up haha.
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blkjkrabbit

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I get along with all my parents, times were really, really rough when I was younger and getting in trouble with the law constantly - but now that they've smoothed out things are much better. I'm super, super close with my mom - and probably talk with her every other day. The rest of my family I'm somewhat close with but I'll never be as confiding in them as I will with my mom. Mothers are your best friends for life whether you know it or not, they're always in your corner
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blkjkrabbit

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Quote:
WhiskeyClone said: I would bet money you will appreciate her much more when you get your own place. Life begins when you move out
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Tangerines




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my mom can get crazy. For example I was pretty much forced to become an Eagle Scout. I quit for a period of a month or so and she did not talk to me AT ALL except to yell at me and tell me to do something.
I know she has good intentions and I love her. My dad is a stoic so he never shows much love directly but indirectly he does. He is awesome though he brews beer and pretty much chills out when not working. Pretty laid back.
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