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Anonymous said: I don't understand pederasty that well, the appeal, but I'm not going to ask anyone to get into that. I realize that everyone has their thing.
For me, it's Asian women. An all too common fantasy, but I think I'm lucky for it, because interracial marriages, etc are allowed in our culture.
As for pederasty, though, I'm sure you understand the reasoning behind it being so taboo. For a lot of people, you're right, it would simply be that it simply isn't their 'thing' and they would be afraid of it, much like homosexuality alone in the past. But the major worry, at least that I have seen, is that the younger one involved may not understand the nature of what is happening and may be taken advantage of, even if the older one did not realize or intend for it.
I know there are always exceptions to this, those younger ones that choose the route a bit different than others by finding someone older, but I don't think it should be a black and white case.
I don't know. I'm the original poster in this thread and I've made a couple other posts here too.
I wasn't exactly telling the truth when I had no relation to this thread, but I do. My girlfriend, a Shanghainese girl, who I have been with for many years, and the love of my life, met me other when I was only 13 and the relationship became sexual at about 14. When I say sexual, I don't just mean that it was sex. It was much more than sex and that only played a small, small role in our relationship, and it still does. I love her very much and I wouldn't change a thing about her. I traveled around the world to be with her and our lives have never been the same, but have never been better either.
She was only 22 when we met, but the 9 year difference to a 13 year old is quite a bit. My family called her a pedophile and for 8 months I couldn't see her and our lives were turned upside down. Police were involved and her family was threatened until our relationship had to come to an end. Months later though, I turned 16 and I flew back to China to be with her again. I never plan to return to Canada to see what was once my family and I am slowly adapting to the new culture, be that from my language even to my name.
Her family also had shunned her and would no longer talk to her or allow her in their homes. The only ones that would speak to her and me were her cousins, who are around her age and have done so much to help us.
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