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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488409 - 10/05/07 01:15 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Wait, are you lesbian?
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488418 - 10/05/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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you might want to see a doctor about that.....oh wait, you are a doctor
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488420 - 10/05/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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hmm...so youre a shemale?
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are you retarded?
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488427 - 10/05/07 01:21 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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OCD?
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: Atheist]
#7488431 - 10/05/07 01:21 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Who the fuck are you?
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somebody that ISNT asking stupid questions
gonz, i blame the girls. soooo many hos that are just askin for a bangin
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488443 - 10/05/07 01:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hormones. Pornography.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488445 - 10/05/07 01:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think it has something to do with his home situation growing up, have you always been like this?
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488455 - 10/05/07 01:28 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I tend to have the same problem. Although reversed (guys as opposed to girls). I have seriously wondered if it's a sexual addiction issue.
I don't think a person can help being attracted to other people. Where things go from there is what becomes the issue.
I have talked to friends who once in a serious relationship never look at other guys in that way. I don't know how they do it. I always feel like I'm barely able to hold back if I feel a mutual attraction. This is why I stay home so much. I'm lousy at resisting temptation.
But I do resist, even when I REALLY REALLY don't want to.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488460 - 10/05/07 01:29 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Its just your royal oats man - no big whoop
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dude, whenever you get the urge, just duck into a public bathroom and whack it or something. it's okay to have urges, but what separates man from beast is self control.
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what separates man from beast is self control.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: trendal]
#7488476 - 10/05/07 01:33 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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you guys are really smort
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488477 - 10/05/07 01:33 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said: I just feel like I can please every girl I see more than you could even dream of.
Yeah I have that too. The best part is that it's always been true. I've never had a girl give me the
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488478 - 10/05/07 01:34 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said: I have a very beautiful girlfriend and the sex is dynamite. Someone tell me why I still want to fuck EVERY other female I see. I wish I could just be happy with one. society is probably to blame
Society is to blame for you feeling bad about wanting to fuck every other female you see not for your desire. Men are genetically programed to want to spread their seed in as many hoes as possible. Maybe if you look at it this way... How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to get slammed by every dude she sees?
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allreadyused said: Maybe if you look at it this way... How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to get slammed by every dude she sees?
hahahahaha. great choice of words.
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Maybe if you look at it this way... How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to get slammed by every dude she sees?
Let's be serious here. would most people actually want a girl that other guys didn't want to nail?
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allreadyused said: Maybe if you look at it this way... How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to get slammed by every dude she sees?
hahahahaha. great choice of words.
I'm so fucking eloquent I make myself sick.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488543 - 10/05/07 01:49 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said: I honestly believe that human beings are not meant to be monogamous.
that's a perfectly viable belief, that i'm sure some people may agree with. but if you really care about the girl you're with, then you'd be best off to stifle that belief a bit for her sake.
in fact, to a degree, i too believe that biologically, men are not monogamous creatures. however, as i said earlier, self-control is what separates us from animals. so you fight those instincts to protect the feelings of people you care about. i guess if you don't care about the girl you're with, then go for it man. jump the bones of every girl you come across. i'm sure you'd get a shit-ton of immediate gratification out of it. the problem with that sort of lifestyle though, often comes in the form of the lack of long-term satisfaction, or the feeling of meaning in relationships.
whatev man, i won't think any less of you for what you choose, but just make sure you're down with your decision.
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tiny_rabid_birds said: the problem with that sort of lifestyle though, often comes in the form of the lack of long-term satisfaction, or the feeling of meaning in relationships.
Not to mention STD's...
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7488941 - 10/05/07 03:48 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I had a friend who was seriously a fuckin nympho, every week he had some new bitch. He would run into people he's randomely fucked of all ages.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7489069 - 10/05/07 04:16 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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IMO there is some biology to the way men think and act, what they want, etc but at the same time, its not just a choice for some that they have to stifle what they want more with 'self control'. When I get into a long term meaningfull relationship, I'm in it because I'm with someone who goes much farther past just a physical thing and I could care less about the rest of the people sucking up my oxygen and making my life a pain in the ass, regardless of who they are, what they do or how they look. The hottest woman could be standing next to me naked and I wouldnt give it a thought past 'why the hell is she naked in public' because she has little value to me as a person based on looks alone.
Monogamy to me is happiness. If you are truly happy in a relationship, then you are in a relationship that either respects your feelings however they might be, or being happy with the person you are already with nullifies those desires to be with others.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: mndfreeze]
#7489087 - 10/05/07 04:22 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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you wanting to fuck every attractive female you see is natural...I say go for it and ignore the guilt
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: mndfreeze]
#7489122 - 10/05/07 04:29 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well said mndfreeze.
For some people thats really what they want, but because of past situations they tend to fuck up a good thing. if its something you just cant control, then its a problem that needs to be fixed.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7489609 - 10/05/07 07:16 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah man you wanna have sex with everything that moves because you are a male. but if you are down for your girlfriend you just dont do it.
and most importantly you should not feel guilty for something that is natural.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: evolprim]
#7489793 - 10/05/07 08:10 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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it is society. we can look in a majority of non -western cultures and never come across a discussion like this, ever. it is the patriarchal system we live in that conditions men to think/believe /behave as if these behaviors are genetic, the way a man is. when if a women were to behave the same way its completely unacceptable. we have found ways to back 'men's behavior' with genetic, or hormones, etc while women are sluts and wrong.
and i agree [forgot to quote who said it] that i dont think we as people are meant to managomous[sp?]. its a Christian ideal. marriage, state and sexism has shaped so much of our way of life. our personal relationships are no different.
i'm a woman, and i'm a horn ball. if i find a person attractive i will think about fucking them. i not gonna sleep around with every hot guy or sexy womean, i see but if there is a strong connection on some level that i feel comfortable with then, i will. i've been in relationships lasting years, never cheated. ... its situational. one general rule isnt gonna work for everyone. i dunno i guess my words for you is that the reason why this is a issue for you is the guilt or going against societies norms of marriage, etc . i'm starting to rant now so i'll leave it at that. outtie
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: juende]
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juende, what cultures can you not see a discussion like this in? A lot of non-western cultures place even more gender restriction on women and even less on men.
It's biology that you want to fuck every woman.
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circularvortex said: juende, what cultures can you not see a discussion like this in? A lot of non-western cultures place even more gender restriction on women and even less on men.
It's biology that you want to fuck every woman.
yes it is very true that in some other cultures those restrictions are even more extreme, and not a majority cuz i'm not gonna claim i know each and every society. but the ones with intense religious views, not cultural or traditional, but institutionalized religious systems seem to have those gender roles well defined. the cultures of people in some Oceania cultures have a drastically different view on gender than most industrial countries or the semai in malaya view of sex is completely different.
for example if a semai man is attracted to a woman he'll go up to her and nag her for sex, over and over. the woman can simply say oh i have to go pick up this leaf or i'm tired and its a mutual and cultural understanding that the woman is not interested in the man at all. and this is done with out hurting anyones feeling [for lack of a better phrase] or the man can nag the woman so much that she gives in and its known that the woman only gave in cuz the man wouldnt leave her alone. this is just one of countless other example. or in places where the sunject of sex[especially talked about with childred] isnt a taboo - unless its used to sell beer or football
i'm saying that, in countries, cultures, or societies that support this type of gendered discrimination seen in the usa, etc, do we see such a discussion as this. not saying that it is a rule but these factors do effect the way we view relationships, women. men etc and that may help us who do question 'why' better understand.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: juende]
#7489979 - 10/05/07 09:12 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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juenda, i agree with you to an extent, but i also disagree. it's not the culture that justifies male promiscuity with claims of biology.. it is pure, simple biology.
The biological goal of the male and the biological goal of the female are different. The male, given the no strings attached nature of being the fertilizer instead of the child-bearer, is capable of engaging in intercourse with many different women in a short amount of time, spreading his seed around and passing along his genetics as much as possible. The female on the other hand, has the biological aim to keep a mate that will protect her and the young, during the gestation period and onwards, lending towards a more monogamous tendency.
now i'm not trying to justify male promiscuity in any way, nor am i trying to sanction female promiscuity. i'm simply saying that there is a biological influence, and it's not simply western patriarchal society making claims.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7489980 - 10/05/07 09:12 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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it's normal for guys to want what they can't have
it just depends on if you act on those impulses
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tiny_rabid_birds said: juende, i agree with you to an extent, but i also disagree. it's not the culture that justifies male promiscuity with claims of biology.. it is pure, simple biology.
The biological goal of the male and the biological goal of the female are different. The male, given the no strings attached nature of being the fertilizer instead of the child-bearer, is capable of engaging in intercourse with many different women in a short amount of time, spreading his seed around and passing along his genetics as much as possible. The female on the other hand, has the biological aim to keep a mate that will protect her and the young, during the gestation period and onwards, lending towards a more monogamous tendency.
now i'm not trying to justify male promiscuity in any way, nor am i trying to sanction female promiscuity. i'm simply saying that there is a biological influence, and it's not simply western patriarchal society making claims.
i have to disagree with the biology stuff yes there is an influence but not in those broad terms. [don't worry i still would like to lick you ]
it is true that biology plays a role in other species and ours but that same formula cannot be applied so blindly to humans as we are now. i dont think the biological goal; male or female can apply to humans in that way. it is clearly seen in primates and in some, cultures has been seen to develop. but overall it is the biological needs of both genders that determine the roles males and females play in primates and other species. that cant be said for humans. like all living things, our environment determines how we behave, look, what we eat etc. and for humans i think that our environment extends to include culture because it can shape us in the same ways. we have conscious thought. we have self control. we make choices. we have condoms and abortions because of this. we have to take into consideration that our environment - culture tradition, history, etc included effect us. to say its only biology limits the complexitey of humans.
but to take your side for a moment i could say that its culture and our conscious thought that has altered, affected etc our biological impulses.
i dont think theres one all inclusive reason, its complex.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7491125 - 10/06/07 11:47 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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You know something man... I have that problem too, but it's like 100x worse when I DO have a girlfriend. Now that I'm single I don't have that issue nearly as much.
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It's your biological programming. Monogamy is not beneficial for a species that depends on having a diverse gene pool. However, "commitment" supercedes that in some cases, and causes heartbreak when adultery is committed, because people try to deny their true nature.
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Re: Girl issues - fuck [Re: dr_gonz]
#7491961 - 10/06/07 04:36 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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dude u are a guy, its normal lol.
if u didnt want to bang all the hotties, then somethings wrong with u!
we are here to spread the seed. in nature its NOT normal to have 1 partner lol, but we have made it normal i guess.
we are still animals.
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