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Lion
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Re: Sex [Re: leery11]
#7487798 - 10/05/07 09:40 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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leery11 said: The only thing I know about sex is that it is a strangling force in my energy body.
Something to cut away.
I've seen it this way before and still do in some ways; but I think that's ultimately an unhealthy view to adopt because you are denying and repressing something that is a part of you.
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The desire pollutes everything. The addictive craving. Desperate and ravenous clinging to an IDEA a mere illusion of pleasure sold to you through the media.
Well, you can see through this media-generated illusion, so why let that shallow desire be a pollutant? Let it arise, sit and be with the accompanying sensations, and it will pass...
If you try to 'cut away' your sexuality, you may find yourself closed to new experiences which could be beneficial.
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leery11
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Re: Sex [Re: Lion]
#7487802 - 10/05/07 09:42 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Right, I let it pass through.
I am not opposed to finding a sexual partner. It has to be something genuine, loving, and with quality. That is my responsibility.
-------------------- I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo! ....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human...... Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Sex [Re: leery11]
#7487839 - 10/05/07 09:56 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't understand why this idea of sex being evil. Sex is something that is to enjoyed and explored. Yes, the media is trying to sell sex, but it does that because there's demand. The media creates it's customers and vice versa. This issue is not one sided. The desperate clinging doesn't come because of sex, it comes from personal issues frustrations, from people who are afraid to actually enjoy not only sex, but life in general. Freedom and happiness comes when drop those fears and start exploring whatever curiosity we might have.
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   All this time I've loved you And never known your face All this time I've missed you And searched this human race Here is true peace Here my heart knows calm Safe in your soul Bathed in your sighs
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Veritas

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Freedom and happiness comes when drop those fears and start exploring whatever curiosity we might have.
Indeed! 
Claiming that sex is wrong, bad or evil because it is used unskillfully is like making the same claim about food for the same reason. Yes, people overeat & eat things that detract from their health. Yes, people engage in mechanical sex, or manipulative sex, or abusive sex. These actions reflect upon the inner state of the individual, and not upon the nature of food or sex.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7487882 - 10/05/07 10:10 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ego Death
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I'm sure from your pictures a lot of the shroomerites wouldn't mind exploring you!
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Icelander
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Yes, but would the feeling be mutual?
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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onlynow
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Re: Sex [Re: leery11]
#7488444 - 10/05/07 01:24 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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leery11 said: Right, I let it pass through.
I am not opposed to finding a sexual partner. It has to be something genuine, loving, and with quality. That is my responsibility.
Find a woman who is into taoist yoga, or who would be into it. Then she would understand why you wouldn't want to ejaculate.
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Re: Sex [Re: onlynow]
#7489089 - 10/05/07 04:22 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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MushroomTrip said: I don't understand why this idea of sex being evil. Sex is something that is to enjoyed and explored. Yes, the media is trying to sell sex, but it does that because there's demand. The media creates it's customers and vice versa. This issue is not one sided. The desperate clinging doesn't come because of sex, it comes from personal issues frustrations, from people who are afraid to actually enjoy not only sex, but life in general. Freedom and happiness comes when drop those fears and start exploring whatever curiosity we might have.
I could say with some accuracy that I am afraid to enjoy sex.
To boldly go where no man has gone before.
Well, where I have never gone before.
It will come in time. I will probably not come because
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leery11 said: Right, I let it pass through.
I am not opposed to finding a sexual partner. It has to be something genuine, loving, and with quality. That is my responsibility.
Find a woman who is into taoist yoga, or who would be into it. Then she would understand why you wouldn't want to ejaculate.
yes that sounds pretty good
or one i can quickly teach about such things.
-------------------- I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo! ....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human...... Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!
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NiamhNyx
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but theres one thing that they may have over me, and it seems to win over most of the girls anyway: physical attraction.
I have to admit that I really only pursue sexual relationships with men I find good looking. But there was this one guy who I dated for awhile who was really not a very good looking guy, and I mean REALLY not someone I would normally be sexually attracted to, but he had such an incredible, easygoing, caring and fun personality and flirted in such a no pressure yet flattering and appealing way that I fell for him. He dumped me for another girl and I was devastated. He was a total ladies man, everyone fell for him. A lot of really beautiful girls have dated him. Take him as your inspiration. Just relax, and flirt in a casual, no pressure sort of way.
Also, if you're still in highschool, don't worry. I didn't have a boyfriend (i liked) until after I got out of that shithole. The best things I did for myself in that department was to get less terrified and intense and get better at communicating.
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Icelander
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I only have my stunning good looks. And a cool dog.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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NiamhNyx
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I only have my stunning good looks. And a cool dog.
Stunning good looks are all you need, personality is the fall back for wierd looking dudes.
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Icelander
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I will PM you then.:D
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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NiamhNyx
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Are you insinuating that you want to cheat on your lady friend... and right under her nose? tisk tisk.
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Icelander
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She's still sleeping.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Veritas

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Icelander? Hmmm...nope, never heard of him.
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lysergicide
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Re: Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7491179 - 10/06/07 12:16 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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o rly? icelander is one of the best posters around here, a lot like you.
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Icelander
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Re: Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7491184 - 10/06/07 12:18 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Veritas said: Icelander? Hmmm...nope, never heard of him.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Icelander
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lysergicide said: o rly? icelander is one of the best posters around here, a lot like you.
Thanks, I like to be liked. It' doesn't happen that often.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Veritas

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OH, that guy. Yeah, he's OK, I guess.
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