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Adom
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: ajdaak]
#7471648 - 09/30/07 07:58 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I believe that, but in my job you don't trust snakes or you will loose your ass. I don't mind, I can always pull up porn, haha.
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471686 - 09/30/07 08:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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There was that one line from the 3rd jethro tull album Benefit~~I'm going to go back to the friends that i know with who i can be what i want to be*~
Yo're so right Bom, we all need someone to love.......
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Just make sure you love yourself too. Yourself is who needs the most love of all...
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: ajdaak]
#7471716 - 09/30/07 08:12 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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ajdaak said: there are certain people that you can open up to and there are people that don't need to know how your feeling but you will have to figure that out
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471739 - 09/30/07 08:18 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I do love myself hun and yes it was fun exchanging high fives with you It's just too bad though, i meet the first woman in 6 years tht i would ever consider having a serious relationship with and she's been so physically assaulted amd abused by older men.......she would just freeze up being around me, we're still friends though.....
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471748 - 09/30/07 08:19 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: Just make sure you love yourself too. Yourself is who needs the most love of all...
I'm pretty hard on myself a lot of the time. this is something I recognize and that has also been pointed out to me by others (some who know me well and others not so well). Sometimes loving yourself is the hardest thing to do, even if you know that this love is all one truly needs. Sometimes loving yourself means accepting you are a "good", "kind", "intelligent" individual/person, which for me means I become less productive temporarily and more vulnerable. Vulnerable is a place no animal generally tries to put itself into. But in the absence of vulnerability to others, one seems to be vulnerable to themselves...maybe there's no way to metaphorically win
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: demiu5]
#7471760 - 09/30/07 08:22 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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The phrase: What doesn't kill us will only make us stronger....comes to mind.
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471774 - 09/30/07 08:25 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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maybe, but I can think of lots of exceptions
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471795 - 09/30/07 08:29 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well, until you're ready to re-enter the real world the Shroomery and your internet buddies are here for you.
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Adom
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The geh is coming back
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471871 - 09/30/07 08:43 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: I guess there is also a fear that if that vulnerability is exposed, people will think less of you. Or me. Defintely me.
But, think about it for a second...when somebody exposes weakness and makes a cry for help have you noticed that sometimes you think of them as weak and such? Especially men.
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Adom
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Are you attempting your first point?
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: Adom]
#7471909 - 09/30/07 08:50 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think people tend to judge what they see in themselves.
If I say, I am weak and hurting, and you judge me for it...you are probably weak and hurting yourself and you despise yourself for your own weakness. It's easier to see our own faults in others.
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471923 - 09/30/07 08:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Kinda like how hardcore Christian conservatives are sometimes closet homos?
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Adom
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471926 - 09/30/07 08:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sweet cheeks, we have met, I am real, I know your pain well. I know suffering even better, do you need to let it all hang out? I am smiling and I really appreciate a place you can do this in this manner, I am making no judgements.
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Adom
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Pull that shit out on me, mother fucker
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: CherryBom]
#7471963 - 09/30/07 09:00 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: I think people tend to judge what they see in themselves.
If I say, I am weak and hurting, and you judge me for it...you are probably weak and hurting yourself and you despise yourself for your own weakness. It's easier to see our own faults in others.
The universe is a total illusion, you put it as well as anyome could have.....
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Edited by CherryBom (09/30/07 09:23 PM)
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: Adom]
#7471971 - 09/30/07 09:02 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Edited by CherryBom (09/30/07 09:24 PM)
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Re: Vulnerability [Re: Adom]
#7471975 - 09/30/07 09:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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That was very angry. I'm not sure how to deal with that right now.
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