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RandalFlagg
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Need some girl advice
#7469768 - 09/30/07 10:01 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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There's this guy and girl who live like 50 feet away from me. I've always thought the girl was super-cute. But, it was obvious that her and the guy were together. I have never talked to or acknowledged them but I know that both would recognize me because we've been outside and such at the same time many times. I always tried to sneak looks at the girl. I don't know if she caught me or not. Once I caught her checking me out as I mowed my lawn. Or at least I think she was checking me out.
I just found out that she moved out and got her own apartment. So, I surmise that they have broken up. But, the weird thing is...they still hang out. I see them walking around and laughing and stuff. So, they're either still fucking or they're making an effort to remain friends.
Lately I have been running into this girl constantly and I know she recognizes me but we still don't say anything. She works at a local coffee shop where I buy biscotti all the time. Yesterday I bought some biscotti and she gave me this nervous and expectant look as I gave her my money. At that second I got the vibe that she might be digging me.
So, I am tempted to try to start conversation along the lines of, "Hey....do you live in blah blah street...you look familiar." and try to take it from there to see if I get a bite. And even if I don't get a bite I can pass it off as just trying to make friendly conversation. But, the fact that her ex-boyfriend whom she still hangs out with lives right next to me complicates things.
P.S. She's really cute. I know I'll fuck things up so I'm kind of thinking, "Why even bother?".
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469797 - 09/30/07 10:10 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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dude, you must think positive. because i totally got some last night from a girl i was really digging, so that means you can too! seriously, just strike up a conversation, what could it hurt? be playful.. like corny overly playful in an ironic manner when you say "i know you.." or "you come here often?" (because she works there.. and it'd be silly, chuno?).
i definitely say give it a shot man. i am living testament that even shy guys can get lucky every now and then.
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and if all else fails, wear tight pants.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469806 - 09/30/07 10:12 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quit being a wuss and talk to her.
If you guys are/were neighbors chances are, she knows EXACTLY who you are. If you go to her coffeeshop, you could ask her straight up if she moved out. That's not creepy at all. Neighbors, even old neighbors should be able to wave hello to each other without even knowing each others name or being awkward.
It's just small talk. "Hey, how are you doing today? Did you move out?" You don't have to bring up the boyfriend (ex?) or anything. That will come later. Just start with some easy stuff.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: CherryBom]
#7469814 - 09/30/07 10:16 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm such a little girl when it comes to this stuff.
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CherryBom
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tiny_rabid_birds said: and if all else fails, wear tight pants.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469845 - 09/30/07 10:28 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said: I always tried to sneak looks at the girl. I don't know if she caught me or not.
Lately I have been running into this girl constantly and I know she recognizes me but we still don't say anything.
Uh huh...
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469866 - 09/30/07 10:36 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just talk it up with her. Discuss the neighborhood. You already have things in common. This should be a piece of pie Randal.
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tiny_rabid_birds
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well when you take those quotes out of context, you make him sound like a stalker.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469921 - 09/30/07 10:55 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It gets easier with everytime you talk to a girl.
I purposely act like myself in front of girls now. Although I have little to no chance, I'm happy I can be me. And you don't want to bother with a girl that won't let you be yourself, in my experiences.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7469923 - 09/30/07 10:56 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bom has good advice.
stop being a baby, Randal!
but, regardless of if you're a baby or not, i still <3 you.
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Wow! It sounds like TRB got a boost of confidence from posting pics the other day. Good!
RF you should feel the same. She probably has been checking you out. THere's a saying about confidence, "Fake it until you make it". Just say "FUCK IT!" (in your head not outloud ) and ask her out.
Sounds kind of like she's shy too, so if you want this you gotta go for it.
Just keep in your mind what a special treat you have waiting for her if you can get things to go that far.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: mushbaby]
#7470027 - 09/30/07 11:24 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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mushbaby said: Just keep in your mind what a special treat you have waiting for her if you can get things to go that far.
yes, and hopefully it doesn't still have "A_S" written on it when that time comes.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: mushbaby]
#7470030 - 09/30/07 11:25 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Talk it up! Don't be like me, too pathetic to initiate conversation.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: gcdc14]
#7470043 - 09/30/07 11:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Be like: Yo bitch, you, me, my dick, your house, your mouth, my moth, the tick, walt witman, tankgirl rocks the house!"
She might think you are crazy though.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: gcdc14]
#7470046 - 09/30/07 11:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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yea regrets suck. I am too much of a pussy to do these things so you should do them. you don't want to regret not initiating the conversation like I do all the time.
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Acidic_Sloth
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dude, tankgirl totally rocks the house.
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Apollyphelion
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Well, you probably wouldn't think I'm crazy. You are one of "the good ones"
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Acidic_Sloth
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you? crazy? really?
never noticed.
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JaP: 30,000 lines of gay, cock, and fag can't be wrong Ped: only in #shroomery is "smuggle opium in her ass" followed by "i don't want shitty opium" which is followed by " *** Joins: PENISSQUAD" -- JaP: What would this place be without random sluts? JaP: Nothing, I tell you.
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Re: Need some girl advice [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7470097 - 09/30/07 11:42 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stop thinking so much.
But to be more realistic, maybe they're still together and just decided to not live together. It's very plausible. But you won't ever know til you stop thinking so much about every damn thing and just go talk to her as if she was an actual human being instead of potential pussy.
Good luck...
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Yes, that's also a good bit of advice. Stop thinking so much!
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Quote:
Apollyphelion said: Be like: Yo bitch, you, me, my dick, your house, your mouth, my moth, the tick, walt witman, tankgirl rocks the house!"
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