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makaveli8x8
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date idea's
#7464431 - 09/28/07 01:49 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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just give me some general dating idea's/tips.
this includes where to take her, this is the second meeting, first was a blind date so it kinda doesn't count. It was a small diner before.
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local ball game (maybe you have AAA in the area) or a outdoor concert or something along those lines...
after wahtevr the main thing is - head to a nice outdoor spot for some drinks/food
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As a girl, I would recommend taking her to see a play, preferably a comedy. You'll both laugh a lot (if it's a good play, check it out in the reviews first), which will relax you, and it'll give you something to talk a lot about afterwards. Plus, being in a nice area a night in an urban area is fun for a walk or coffeehouse visit. DONT go see a movie, those things are pointless date ruining awkwardfests, and DONT, under any circumstances go bowling. Unless she's super into bowling.
As alternatives, I would opt for a hookah bar or sushi...
I don't know what kind of girl this is, but whenever anyone takes me to a sports game and expects me to sit there for three hours, I resent them for the rest of my damn life.
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Edited by kriminalelement (09/28/07 01:59 PM)
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Re: date idea's [Re: memes]
#7464482 - 09/28/07 02:02 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Take her to a hibachi bar
Smoke a blunt
Then go to a movie/back to house
Costs 60 -80 bucks for the whole night. (depending on if you got dessert)
Ive done this many a time and it never fails to produce a good night for both of ya.
Edited by Binx0101 (09/28/07 02:03 PM)
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Re: date idea's [Re: memes]
#7464493 - 09/28/07 02:05 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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meams said: local ball game (maybe you have AAA in the area)
Noooooooo
Anything but baseball. I am a huge sports fan but I'd rather file my kneecaps off than sit through a goddamn AAA game.
Nothing wrong with an outdoor concert though.
Sushi is a great idea, especially if she's never tried it.
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Doesn't matter, AAA is done by now I'm pretty sure.
I like the play idea. Concerts are always good but not necessarily easy to find. Knowing where you live (not an exact location, but if it's a big city, smaller city, town, suburb, farm land etc.) would definitely help you get some better suggestions (not that these suggestions have been bad, but it would be helpful.)
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kriminalelement said: I don't know what kind of girl this is, but whenever anyone takes me to a sports game and expects me to sit there for three hours, I resent them for the rest of my damn life.
i resent that... i would love it if a guy took me to see a hockey, baseball, or football game!!
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ShroomieGirl said:
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kriminalelement said: I don't know what kind of girl this is, but whenever anyone takes me to a sports game and expects me to sit there for three hours, I resent them for the rest of my damn life.
i resent that... i would love it if a guy took me to see a hockey, baseball, or football game!!
You are special
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i second the comedy club, concerts are cool too, try indoor rock climbing its super fun & you get to check each other out when the other persons climbing. go to a farmers market street fair together, buy some healthy shit & cook dinner for her at your place. dont forget the wine  take her snowboarding. go to the beach. find a botanical garden & go hiking. go dancing. none of that booty shakin club shit, but classy shit like swing dancing. go rent a jet ski.
these are things that i do often, whats available to you depends on your location tho. look online for public events that might peak interest.
interaction & stimulation are key.
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Re: date idea's [Re: 40oz]
#7464690 - 09/28/07 03:22 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Go with her to a lake and feed some ducks. Tempt a duck to come really close with a trail of breadcrumbs then give an Indian war cry and pounce on the duck, twisting its neck in your bare hands. Proceed to gut the duck right there at the bench then take her in your bloody hands and get smoochy for a minute or two. Afterwards, BBQ the duck in a vacant lot downtown in the city over a trashcan fire.
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Re: date idea's [Re: TODAY]
#7464703 - 09/28/07 03:29 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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TODAY said: Go with her to a lake and feed some ducks. Tempt a duck to come really close with a trail of breadcrumbs then give an Indian war cry and pounce on the duck, twisting its neck in your bare hands. Proceed to gut the duck right there at the bench then take her in your bloody hands and get smoochy for a minute or two. Afterwards, BBQ the duck in a vacant lot downtown in the city over a trashcan fire.
Sounds like the perfect date to me ...
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Re: date idea's [Re: gcdc14]
#7464708 - 09/28/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ahh, young love. What among the stars radiates more beauty?
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ShroomieGirl said:
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kriminalelement said: I don't know what kind of girl this is, but whenever anyone takes me to a sports game and expects me to sit there for three hours, I resent them for the rest of my damn life.
i resent that... i would love it if a guy took me to see a hockey, baseball, or football game!!
Same. I actually demanded that my fiance become a sports fan, or it would have been a deal breaker!!
Some of the best dates I've ever been on were at Red Sox games, Pats games, etc.
The bottom line is that if this girl likes you, she should just appreciate going on a 2nd date with you, regardless of where you take her. But buying tickets to an event shows some thought into the matter, and that will make her happy, that you're putting effort into it.
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Re: date idea's [Re: Liz]
#7465143 - 09/28/07 06:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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apparently i fucked up somehow, unless some maraicle their will not be a second date. All i did was clean up all day....i was all worrying about the second date where i would take her what we would do and say, all for nothing now. Guess I'll just melt back into the hole i was in prob sink a little deeper this time.
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no reason to have this posted here i guess
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Edited by makaveli8x8 (09/28/07 10:18 PM)
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Social etiquette, ahh the bain of my existence...
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Re: date idea's [Re: Ego Death]
#7465278 - 09/28/07 06:55 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stick it in her pooper too
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Re: date idea's [Re: gcdc14]
#7465307 - 09/28/07 07:05 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anal rape
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Re: date idea's [Re: Ego Death]
#7465320 - 09/28/07 07:09 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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u gotta meet girls on your own man, they dont like that kiddy shit
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Re: date idea's [Re: gcdc14]
#7465325 - 09/28/07 07:10 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I vote treat her like a friend for a while. I always like feeling that I'm friends with someone first before we start dating. So call her up if something sounds like a really cool thing to go to and treat her like a buddy. This will make her more comfortable with you and it will allow her to get to know your real personality. If she's interested you romantically after you get to know each other, fine. If she's not, then hey! you have another friend! Friends are nice, right?
Remember to keep things casual at this stage. Don't assume anything until you both feel comfortable enough with each other to have a mature conversation about it. Most of the time taking things slowly is the best approach, but if you're interested in her then be proactive about hanging out. Remember to be confident.
BTW girls say non-committal things all the time like "if he wants to" even if they're interested in you. This is because girls are just as afraid of feeling rejected as guys are. If you don't call her on your own pretty soon she might feel rejected, even as just a friend. And the whole waiter thing is probably just her being polite. Girls tend to be overpolite and friendly in common social interaction, like with a waiter, to try and make the other person feel valued. Her reaction doesn't mean a thing.
And I wasn't making a stab at girls who like sports. I just personally find it incomprehensible why people like to watch a ball/puck getting tossed around. Unless I'm tripping. Then it's all like, whoa man, those people were trying really hard to get that ball over there. They must really care about that ball getting to that side of the court. I like colors......
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dont overanalyze shit either, just take life as it comes. all you can do is show interest then leave it be, if she wants it she will let u know.
dont act desperate....like you sound in this thread lol.
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Leanin's on the ball here. There is no "general rule" when it comes to persuing a romantic relationship. You be who you are, express your personal interests as well as your interest in her as best you can, and see if she reciprocates. It may be nerve-wracking and sweaty-palmed to begin with, but with time and experience under your belt it'll all begin to make sense. If it doesn't work with this one girl, that's fine, there's plenty more out there. Just don't go into this expecting it not to work, that's putting yourself at an immediate disadvantage. Good luck, have fun, and treat her well!
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maybe u should have got the waiter,s # for her, hah! anyway she seems like 1 of those girls that likes to play games and isnt a "real" person, pretty common in the states, check out some girls from south america or australia
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all the hot girls will either be all over you, or show you nothing.....she doesnt seem interested.
they know what they want and have guys approach them daily.
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Re: date idea's [Re: Leanin]
#7466664 - 09/29/07 08:43 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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all the hot girls will either be all over you, or show you nothing.....she doesnt seem interested.
they know what they want and have guys approach them daily.
That's the most sexist thing i've heard today. So just because a girl is pretty, she's automatically emotionally super-confident and also romantically polarlized??????
NEWSFLASH: most young girls, unless they're cows, are pretty. And not all of them are superconfident. They're just ordinary people in a temporarily pretty body, we're all very aware of that.
I consider myself to be a pretty girl. And yeah, I do get approached often. But a lot of it is weirdos. Creeps. Old men. Guys that don't talk to me and surreptitiously follow me to class in the morning. One time someone in high school told me that he wanted to fuck me until my eyeballs exploded out of my face. I also get appraoched by "normal" guys, which totally aren't my type. Actually, if you don't know me and approach me anyway, I'm generally sort of creeped.
So being approached hasn't made me confident. If anything, it's made me kinda scared of strange men. I carry a knife now. Men need to stop stereotyping women into all the preppy bitches they knew in high school. Most pretty girls are normal humans that you're just ascribing all these qualities to without knowing them.
Treat her like a person.
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im just sayin.....if a girl is really hot, like he says she is, MANY have tremendous egos.
certain guys worship them, and you cant be that guy if you want a chance with her. just be normal and dont sweat it. keep contact with her but dont act tremendously interested, when you are around her flirt alot and see how she responds.
Edited by Leanin (09/29/07 11:24 AM)
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Re: date idea's [Re: Leanin]
#7467108 - 09/29/07 11:52 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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dude. most hot chicks have more issues than time life magazine. i should know, i date them.
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