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OfflineLiFe_Trip
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Anyone got a parent like mine ?
    #7450861 - 09/25/07 08:28 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

Damn, my father can never tell me something positive, he's alway assling me to do something. I always try to keep him happy, or at least proud of me but he never let his guard down, he's just always negative. So I kind of let it go and he get more and more negative but I can't keep doing something with him cause he's always telling me discouraging things.

An example : I never wash the dishes but sometimes he washes them and then he tell me : You could have washed the dishes you know.

One time, I was feeling happy and all, I told myself, I'll wash the dishes for a week or so or I'll do it everything from now on. The first time I washed them, I was quite happy about what I had done but there are 2 things I washed that I didn't know where to put (see every thing has it's place and we have a really big kitchen.

So my dad acted all surprise then asked about the stuff left. I told him I didn't know where they should be and I asked to POINT IT TO ME. His answer was : You fucking live in this house for 7 years and you don't know where to put those things ? Damn it ...

WTF ! I don't cook, so I don't need cooking instruments, so I dont' open about the 3/4 of the drawers so I DON'T FUCKING KNOW WHERE THEY WERE !

And then he make me feel miserable. This is only an exemple, everything I do isn't good enough for him ! He asked me to get back to school to finish some maths I started and that I dropped because I didn't need them coze I changed my mind on which program to go. He told me how it is stupid to abandon something you started and all, then one day again feeling happy, I thought, I'll finish those Maths, the day I told him he said : How did that cost ? Damn 67$ that it wouldn't have cost you if you had realize that you can't drop something like how you did. Again all negative, no : congrats, you won't regret it or things like that.

Then he learned I smoked sometimes, he started getting insomniac because he cared for me so extreme reaction - extremen solution, I decided to stop smoking and hanging with my drugs buddys. So I stay home just interacting with them and stuff to show them I aint an alien or worse an addict. The other night, I wasn't really hungry and kind of playing with my food. He told me : Why aren't you hungry, did you restarted hiding and smoking ?

Fuck you, I did this for him and he don't even trust me ! And now since he know I smoke this is just worst than ever : Am I not only an idiot who can do anything, I'm also a druggie.

Ahhh Family problems ! I had to told this before I explod. Thx to those who read, anyone got a father (or a mother) like mine ?


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Re: Anyone got a parent like mine ? [Re: LiFe_Trip]
    #7450878 - 09/25/07 08:35 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

I had a girlfriend whose dad was exactly like that. He was incapable of saying anything positive. He viewed the world only in terms of what is wrong with everything. She told me about family vacations where he would do nothing but point out what everybody is doing to ruin the trip (packing things wrong, laughing too loud, sleeping too late, getting up too early)

My girl had serious trouble accepting herself, because her dad could not show her that he's proud of her. She still has not learned to love herself.

You have to learn to get by in life without his approval. You will never get it, because he doesn't know how to give it. His dad was probably the same or worse.


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Re: Anyone got a parent like mine ? [Re: LiFe_Trip]
    #7450897 - 09/25/07 08:40 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

I'm sorry, but with things like cleaning the house, I'm on his side

my roommate is like you, I guess, where she lives here too but doesn't take responsibility for cleaning anything, including the shit that she messes up. then when I ask her to actually do something, she takes offense to it and thinks I'm being an asshole about it.

Learn some fucking personal responsibility and then maybe your dad wouldn't be so negative.

I only read the first five lines/paragraphs of your post, so this isn't in reference to the other stuff.


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Re: Anyone got a parent like mine ? [Re: LiFe_Trip]
    #7450911 - 09/25/07 08:45 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

From what it sounds like, your dad just doesn't want you to turn into some lazy worthless piece of shit & he's parenting like his dad probably did to him. If I had to guess, you probably don't communicate too much with him and so when you guys talk everything just erupts because it's been bottled up inside.

Or just go on Dr. Phil


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Re: Anyone got a parent like mine ? [Re: Stizzle]
    #7450934 - 09/25/07 08:59 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

All I ask is something positive, that he tell me something positive when I do something positive like he does when he's negative. Why should I keep doing something for him if he still treats me like shit. Also he uses everything he do for me to remind me how I can't do a single thing. This is like a viscious circle, he treat me like shit so I do something for him, he treat me like shit for doing it so I stop it and so he treat me MORE like shit because I stopped.

He bought me a car (while I searched to buy one with my money) that was out of my reach, and now he tells me to watch for it more than I already do and he says I don't care for it since I didn't buy it. Wtf, This car was kind of a symbol to me coze I never thought he would buy me a car, I keep it clean and drive like an elder coze I don't want anything to happen to it and he tells me that.

Godamnit ... At least I know I'm not alone and there's also Whishkeyclone's ex-girlfriend.


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Re: Anyone got a parent like mine ? [Re: LiFe_Trip]
    #7450966 - 09/25/07 09:09 AM (16 years, 4 months ago)

maybe start doing things around the house just to do them, not expecting praise or anything. you live there, you should be doing them anyway. clean up after yourself FOR YOURSELF.

your dad might eventually see that you are being a responsible adult and react in a positive way. then again, he might not. but regardless you should be doing things like the dishes and such anyway.

do things for yourself and not for the praise of others.


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