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razmablues
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So Many Roads...
#7446277 - 09/23/07 11:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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well... college is starting, and things are just changing so fast...
in highschool i basically just hung out with 4 other people, the 5 of us were like the spokes on a wheel. we tripped together, went on actual trips together, did all the stupid highschool shit together. we had other friends and we sure as hell weren't hermits, but when it came down to it, the deep friendships were right there.
i can see how we're all going on our own paths now, two of us are going away for college and us three are going to stay. it's just shitty to know that things have to change. i wish people could just grow and flower together, but there always has to be so many roads...
i know this is something nearly everyone has to deal with it, and i knew that it would happen as well, but i didn't know it would all unravel so fast and unexpectedly...
i guess all one can do is sit and hope for a better tomorrow...
anyone else go through something like this? what was the outcome? have you kept in touch with those individuals?
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jewunit
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Re: So Many Roads... [Re: razmablues]
#7446287 - 09/23/07 11:52 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I thought so, but really I'm still best friends with everyone I was best friends with in high school. It's not like they fall off the face of the earth. You hang out on breaks, make road trips to their schools to visit (which is always a blast), talk to them online. It's really much easier to "deal with" than I expected.
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meatcakeman
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Re: So Many Roads... [Re: razmablues]
#7446288 - 09/23/07 11:52 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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depending on the location of their colleges they might be able to visit you every so often
because if you felt a deep friendship with all of them then they must have felt it too so it's not like you're the only person worrying about this
they'll think about you while they're gone but to be honest things will never be the same
it's hard but sometimes you just have to understand that life goes on
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Re: So Many Roads... [Re: razmablues]
#7446291 - 09/23/07 11:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I feel you bro. I went away to college and left it all behind. of course i see them in the summer but its not the same. time goes on you just have to live with it and dont dwell on the past. man now im gettin all depressed and shit.
just remember life doesn't stop because you do.
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Re: So Many Roads... [Re: razmablues]
#7446307 - 09/24/07 12:00 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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to be honest the 4 pretty close friends I had from highschool, I dont really talk to any more and its a year later basically I was the only one who went away to school, they stayed had girl friends who dominated them and one has a kid. they go to school part time
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