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god send some fucking single girls
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Ok. I've taken girls on dates and had random one night stands and shit, but how come every time I invest fucking truckloads of time and attention on girls for a longer term relationship, I either a) discover their left ring finger is unhappily occupied by that gold ring of shit or b) they drop some line that always goes like "yeah blah blah blah my boyfriend blah blah blah" at which point I think "FUCK!, you should have said that shit EARLIER!" I think I'm not even aware of myself slowly entering their friend zone...Why are the best girls always taken? Fuck
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442374 - 09/23/07 12:20 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Awesome girls are usually taken. Are you surprised?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7442391 - 09/23/07 12:33 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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who usually just want some guy to talk to about how shitty their boyfriend treats them.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7442394 - 09/23/07 12:33 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm not surprised, but that doesn't mean I can't be pissed about it - because they're usually taken by assholes. The girls in turn find nice guys and have them soak up their baggage like an emotional tampon. I hate occupying this role so often - the guy you can always count on, your best friend, like a brother - but someone you could never go out with, never have sex with, never be more than just a fucking friend with.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: SneezingPenis]
#7442398 - 09/23/07 12:35 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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YawningAnus said: who usually just want some guy to talk to about how shitty their boyfriend treats them.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442405 - 09/23/07 12:39 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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the dick is smarter then the brain of course didnt u kno it gets to the point and never drags a story along
all in all who cares as long as theres a truckload which i could use again soon just do it and make this life look different from hell
and if yous looking for a relationship ....grow up if yous passed me in that area ....good luck
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442408 - 09/23/07 12:40 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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what is up with people wanting exclusive relationships? i just dont get it. if those are the only girls that you end up with, then make the best of the situation. take pride in being the hot fling on the side
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442411 - 09/23/07 12:42 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
granted you could get some street ho to do all this, but she will eventually steal everything you own to support her drug habit.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442413 - 09/23/07 12:43 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you can't work a "So you and your boyfriend must..." or the like into conversation early in your relationship to feel the waters then you deserve to waste all your time on befriending these taken girls.
Don't damn the women you come in contact with for not divulging every iota of their life story. Damn your own lack of observational and conversational skills.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: SneezingPenis]
#7442420 - 09/23/07 12:48 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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YawningAnus said: because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
^^what he said. killing 40s and smoking bowls with girlfriends, is fucking kickass. some of the most fun times i've ever had are tripping with a girl i'm involved with. random hookups just aren't fun, and neither are prissy bitches.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: SneezingPenis]
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YawningAnus said: because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
granted you could get some street ho to do all this, but she will eventually steal everything you own to support her drug habit.
now see, i prefer to abstain from all relationships unless no strings truly are attached (and no tricks come embedded in the "fine print" sneaking up on you later). additionally, the forming of this union will have to result in both parties' monetary, social, or educational benefit. i prefer to see relationships as a long-term investment or business transaction--similar to a legal marriage--except there would be absolutely no children, and both parties are open and free to be with other sexual partners as they please. no emotional commitment, no drama, no lies.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442442 - 09/23/07 12:56 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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God why do I not get a lot of girls? Arg
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442446 - 09/23/07 12:58 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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DNKYD said: If you can't work a "So you and your boyfriend must..." or the like into conversation early in your relationship to feel the waters then you deserve to waste all your time on befriending these taken girls.
Don't damn the women you come in contact with for not divulging every iota of their life story. Damn your own lack of observational and conversational skills.
that's a clever way of asking I never thought of that. I normally don't try to give my intentions away right away but I've found a rule that seems to apply to me at least. If you don't get a kiss on the second date minimum, shit isn't gonna happen.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
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YawningAnus said: because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
granted you could get some street ho to do all this, but she will eventually steal everything you own to support her drug habit.
now see, i prefer to abstain from all relationships unless no strings truly are attached (and no tricks come embedded in the "fine print" sneaking up on you later). additionally, the forming of this union will have to result in both parties' monetary, social, or educational benefit. i prefer to see relationships as a long-term investment or business transaction--similar to a legal marriage--except there would be absolutely no children, and both parties are open and free to be with other sexual partners as they please. no emotional commitment, no drama, no lies.
yeah, and those relationships last until she is a bridesmaid in some sluts wedding.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442451 - 09/23/07 12:59 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck i wish i knew that sooner
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: ShiVersblood]
#7442460 - 09/23/07 01:02 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: SneezingPenis]
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Crystal G said:
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YawningAnus said: because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
granted you could get some street ho to do all this, but she will eventually steal everything you own to support her drug habit.
now see, i prefer to abstain from all relationships unless no strings truly are attached (and no tricks come embedded in the "fine print" sneaking up on you later). additionally, the forming of this union will have to result in both parties' monetary, social, or educational benefit. i prefer to see relationships as a long-term investment or business transaction--similar to a legal marriage--except there would be absolutely no children, and both parties are open and free to be with other sexual partners as they please. no emotional commitment, no drama, no lies.
yeah, and those relationships last until she is a bridesmaid in some sluts wedding.
thats strange. marriage in western culture implies some kind of exclusive commitment that totally contradicts with the aforementioned. **note the ONLY exception that i might see is to acquire citizenship to a foreign country you stand no chance of living in
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
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YawningAnus said: because when you have a steady bitch you get perks like road head and she cleans your house and gives you a great excuse to bail on your friends when you need to.
granted you could get some street ho to do all this, but she will eventually steal everything you own to support her drug habit.
now see, i prefer to abstain from all relationships unless no strings truly are attached (and no tricks come embedded in the "fine print" sneaking up on you later). additionally, the forming of this union will have to result in both parties' monetary, social, or educational benefit. i prefer to see relationships as a long-term investment or business transaction--similar to a legal marriage--except there would be absolutely no children, and both parties are open and free to be with other sexual partners as they please. no emotional commitment, no drama, no lies.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7442481 - 09/23/07 01:12 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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no, i just really value my freedom and wouldnt exchange any bit of it out of mere obligation for an S/O.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442493 - 09/23/07 01:19 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Would it even be a relationship (with the definition of relationship pertaining to the topic creator's gripe) if there was no emotional commitment?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: Would it even be a relationship (with the definition of relationship pertaining to the topic creator's gripe) if there was no emotional commitment?
In reality yes and no, but there are certain ways that lovers act towards each other that friends do not (speaking intimately, sexually), so you present yourself to others as the title of "boyfriend & girlfriend," so as not to confuse the people's perception of you two. Exceptions apply, when you are attempting to pick somebody up--whether it be alone, or together.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442513 - 09/23/07 01:25 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I imagine it'd be tough to keep a relationship like that up for too long before jealousy sets in
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#7442520 - 09/23/07 01:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7442531 - 09/23/07 01:30 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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but jealousy is a rather frugal, almost frivolous emotion if you really get down to it, don't you think? "thats mine, this is mine." "this is mine, all mine." unless you are going to use bitter emotions to motivate you to attain something higher, they are just going to hinder you from being content.
besides, sometimes a *little* jealousy is what keeps the fire burning
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442548 - 09/23/07 01:37 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I agree with the second part, but not the first
Somehow the sex was ALWAYS better if we thought the other was cheating
I wouldn't call jealousy frugal, though
If used correctly, it can be a great motivator, and it's not necessarily always a bitter emotion
Actually jealousy is probably one of the most basic human reactions there is, and although the idea of sharing has its perks, an investment is something to be guarded about
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7442574 - 09/23/07 01:48 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: Actually jealousy is probably one of the most basic human reactions there is, and although the idea of sharing has its perks, an investment is something to be guarded about
I can see where this desire stems from, but one aspect that you forgot is self-preservation. By being mentally independent and exerting self-discipline with potentially negative emotions (IE jealousy, worry), you are also guarding your own stability better than ever before.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442596 - 09/23/07 01:59 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Very true, but it doesn't necessarily work for everyone
You could argue that self-preservation could include the desire for a monogamous relationship, with the narrowing of your emotional investment being the stabalizing point in your life
Jealousy wouldn't even crop up if you trust your partner completely, and even if it did, embrace it, and strive toward what you want
If you have to exert self-discipline, isn't there always the underlying negativity just beneath the surface anyway?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: Very true, but it doesn't necessarily work for everyone
Yes that is very true; however, for somebody who has a terrible streak of luck succeeding in relationships (e.g. the thread starter), I highly recommend this way of life. You can't go wrong with a good rationale.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442625 - 09/23/07 02:21 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dunno
It seems like he wants the emotional aspect of a relationship though, so it probably wouldn't work out for him, unless he trains himself not to be jealous
I somehow find that depressing
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: I imagine it'd be tough to keep a relationship like that up for too long before jealousy sets in
That is why relationships of this type only work with emotionally mature people who are respectful of another individual's free will. Crystal G has it right with jealously being such a waste of brainpower. In a relationship like this you won't get far once you start attaching possessives to it.
I am currently in a very open relationship and have had no problems so far. We know our paths in life may not follow the same line forever, which makes us even more grateful for the time we have together now. We realize that a relationship should benefit all parties emotionally, intellectually, as well as sexually. We are both bisexual and very adventurous, so many doors are open in that area.
I don't see how exerting self-discipline pertaining to jealousy or other destructive emotions is indicative of underlying negativity. Those emotions aren't inherently negative or positive the way I look at it. They are merely another chemical reaction in the brain that we must keep in check. The self-discipline learned from keeping them in check makes you a better person in the end.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7442638 - 09/23/07 02:26 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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more depressing than this? --> hey blkjkrabbit baby, have no fear my dear, for I CrystalG will take you under my wing cause me loves you to pieces, little pumpkin!!! asljfaljfo23315898135S!!! *molesterrs*
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442641 - 09/23/07 02:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you have to make an effort to ignore it must be worth noting
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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That's just it, though. Those with the emotional fortitude don't have to make a conscious effort at ignoring it. It's like tuning out your neighbor's lawnmower when you're trying to read a book on your deck. Yeah, it may take a few minutes of distraction to block it out. But once your mind has tuned out you are no longer making the conscious effort to not hear the mower.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: I imagine it'd be tough to keep a relationship like that up for too long before jealousy sets in
That is why relationships of this type only work with emotionally mature people who are respectful of another individual's free will. Crystal G has it right with jealously being such a waste of brainpower. In a relationship like this you won't get far once you start attaching possessives to it.
I am currently in a very open relationship and have had no problems so far. We know our paths in life may not follow the same line forever, which makes us even more grateful for the time we have together now. We realize that a relationship should benefit all parties emotionally, intellectually, as well as sexually. We are both bisexual and very adventurous, so many doors are open in that area.
I don't see how exerting self-discipline pertaining to jealousy or other destructive emotions is indicative of underlying negativity. Those emotions aren't inherently negative or positive the way I look at it. They are merely another chemical reaction in the brain that we must keep in check. The self-discipline learned from keeping them in check makes you a better person in the end.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7442690 - 09/23/07 02:45 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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How?
And I meant it'd depressing that he;s been rejected so much he'd have to make an effort not to care anymore
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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It would be depressing to have to make an effort not to care. That tells you it's not something you really want to be doing. Why bring unnecessary conflict into your life by trying to suppress emotions that you are not ready, or able, to handle maturely?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
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It seems like he is, it's just that his luck sucks
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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I don't think luck has anything to do with it. You either make your intentions clear at the get-go to make things easier for both parties, or you pussyfoot around because of immaturities, social hangups, etc., and bring disappointment to yourself and possibly others. From what I have read of the OP, which isn't much, he seems to be doing the latter.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442726 - 09/23/07 03:05 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hah, I just realized I completely read that wrong
I thought he was taking taken women on dates
Maybe he is side-stepping then, I have no clue
Luck does have a role in relationships
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Then I have yet to discover what that role is. Luck, to me, is just a way of saying "I don't know or cannot justify how this good thing happened to me."
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
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I'm talking about the initial beginning, where everything has to be handled lightly
Luckdoes have a role in guaging reactions as well as their initial response when you ask them about a relationship
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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Please elaborate.
Luck does not have a role in my gauging reactions. That comes from my personal experience and observations. Nor does luck have a role in somebody's response to any question I may ask them. It's all probability. Go through X amount of the human race and you'll find whatever traits are desirable to you in a certain percentage of them. It's simple statistics.
In my opinion the things that matter should not have to be handled lightly in the beginning of any relationship, especially an open one. Having to be careful not to "step on toes" stems from any insecurities one may have.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
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There's luck in probability
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
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Do you own a statistics textbook?
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#7442777 - 09/23/07 03:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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At home, but there are chances in statistics
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
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DNKYD said: I don't think luck has anything to do with it. You either make your intentions clear at the get-go to make things easier for both parties, or you pussyfoot around because of immaturities, social hangups, etc., and bring disappointment to yourself and possibly others. From what I have read of the OP, which isn't much, he seems to be doing the latter.
I've done both of those, actually. More often than not I know what our intentions are and where we are in the relationship [acquaintances, friends, prospects, etc] - I'm just getting frustrated meeting women that I have perfect chemistry with and are taken. You guys went off on sort of a tangent, though it was definitely an interesting perspective [the non-exclusive relationship idea]. I have no problem being assertive with women, but I like to be smooth about things rather than blurting out some remark like, "SO ARE YOU TAKEN OR AM I WASTING MY TIME?!" Instead I try and take cues or pickup on hints they drop about their relationship status. Sometimes, I miss those cues, and am left feeling fucked that such good chemistry and intimacy is pushed to the side for what is, usually, an asshole boyfriend that cheats on them, treats them like shit, etc. Nice guys finish last right?  
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445703 - 09/23/07 08:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445820 - 09/23/07 09:32 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's okay
In the end, nice guys and mean guys are rotting piles of flesh
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7445850 - 09/23/07 09:39 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
Right, then you have a completely different idea of what chemistry is than I do. People can "get along" and respect eachothers differences, but when you find someone you have everything in common with, in my mind, you have good chemistry. I can get along with a lot of girls, that doesn't mean we'd make a good couple.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7445855 - 09/23/07 09:41 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: It's okay
In the end, nice guys and mean guys are rotting piles of flesh
True, we're all walking corpses. But while I'm here, I don't want to spend my days alone wondering how the fuck I missed out ya know?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445904 - 09/23/07 09:55 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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blkjkrabbit said:
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Crystal G said: what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
Right, then you have a completely different idea of what chemistry is than I do. People can "get along" and respect eachothers differences, but when you find someone you have everything in common with, in my mind, you have good chemistry. I can get along with a lot of girls, that doesn't mean we'd make a good couple.
no, YOU have a completely different idea of what chemistry is if you are feigning for a magical bond that doesn't exist in her mind.
im sorry, i am very grumpy, i just had my privacy completely invaded again and will have to put up with this shit for another week
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7445919 - 09/23/07 09:59 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It;s a bitch ain't it?
Try craigslist, for a change
Could work
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