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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442746 - 09/23/07 03:13 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm talking about the initial beginning, where everything has to be handled lightly
Luckdoes have a role in guaging reactions as well as their initial response when you ask them about a relationship
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7442761 - 09/23/07 03:19 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Please elaborate.
Luck does not have a role in my gauging reactions. That comes from my personal experience and observations. Nor does luck have a role in somebody's response to any question I may ask them. It's all probability. Go through X amount of the human race and you'll find whatever traits are desirable to you in a certain percentage of them. It's simple statistics.
In my opinion the things that matter should not have to be handled lightly in the beginning of any relationship, especially an open one. Having to be careful not to "step on toes" stems from any insecurities one may have.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442765 - 09/23/07 03:20 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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There's luck in probability
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7442770 - 09/23/07 03:22 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Do you own a statistics textbook?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7442777 - 09/23/07 03:27 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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At home, but there are chances in statistics
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: DNKYD]
#7445689 - 09/23/07 08:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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DNKYD said: I don't think luck has anything to do with it. You either make your intentions clear at the get-go to make things easier for both parties, or you pussyfoot around because of immaturities, social hangups, etc., and bring disappointment to yourself and possibly others. From what I have read of the OP, which isn't much, he seems to be doing the latter.
I've done both of those, actually. More often than not I know what our intentions are and where we are in the relationship [acquaintances, friends, prospects, etc] - I'm just getting frustrated meeting women that I have perfect chemistry with and are taken. You guys went off on sort of a tangent, though it was definitely an interesting perspective [the non-exclusive relationship idea]. I have no problem being assertive with women, but I like to be smooth about things rather than blurting out some remark like, "SO ARE YOU TAKEN OR AM I WASTING MY TIME?!" Instead I try and take cues or pickup on hints they drop about their relationship status. Sometimes, I miss those cues, and am left feeling fucked that such good chemistry and intimacy is pushed to the side for what is, usually, an asshole boyfriend that cheats on them, treats them like shit, etc. Nice guys finish last right?  
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445703 - 09/23/07 08:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445820 - 09/23/07 09:32 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's okay
In the end, nice guys and mean guys are rotting piles of flesh
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7445850 - 09/23/07 09:39 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
Right, then you have a completely different idea of what chemistry is than I do. People can "get along" and respect eachothers differences, but when you find someone you have everything in common with, in my mind, you have good chemistry. I can get along with a lot of girls, that doesn't mean we'd make a good couple.
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7445855 - 09/23/07 09:41 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: It's okay
In the end, nice guys and mean guys are rotting piles of flesh
True, we're all walking corpses. But while I'm here, I don't want to spend my days alone wondering how the fuck I missed out ya know?
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7445904 - 09/23/07 09:55 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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blkjkrabbit said:
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Crystal G said: what makes you think you had such great chemistry with them in the first place? your definition of chemistry i call simply getting along with people
Right, then you have a completely different idea of what chemistry is than I do. People can "get along" and respect eachothers differences, but when you find someone you have everything in common with, in my mind, you have good chemistry. I can get along with a lot of girls, that doesn't mean we'd make a good couple.
no, YOU have a completely different idea of what chemistry is if you are feigning for a magical bond that doesn't exist in her mind.
im sorry, i am very grumpy, i just had my privacy completely invaded again and will have to put up with this shit for another week
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Re: god send some fucking single girls [Re: Crystal G]
#7445919 - 09/23/07 09:59 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It;s a bitch ain't it?
Try craigslist, for a change
Could work
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