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Re: Anybody ever recovered from porn? [Re: wolfiexiii]
#7464071 - 09/28/07 11:48 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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wolfiexiii said: no, discipline is staying with society and not viewing porn, and not undressing women with your eyes on the bus... moving to a cave and not seeing another person for a few months is several steps above on that in phycological impact.
Go and live in some religious and prudish country if it really bothers you. I can't say porn is erotic, but if it entertains people, then good, it wasn't made in vain. Not all of us think sex is a terrible, sinful thing. After all, you would not be here unless your parents fucked.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: Mike_yy]
#7468284 - 09/29/07 08:22 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Taoist secrets of love: cultivating male sexual energy by mantak chia.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7514427 - 10/14/07 01:17 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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the only porn i like to watch now is bj porn. I have no interest in sex porn anymore.
it has definitely desensitized me. I have little interest in having sex with my girlfriend right now, I just want her to give me a blowjob. Its one of those, cant have it so you want it more than anything mindfucks.
Really sucks. I feel like i am disrespecting her and our relationship a bit, but at the same time, blame her for it. My apologies for taking this off topic.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: ManianFH]
#7515122 - 10/14/07 09:26 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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mickdawg666 said: the only porn i like to watch now is bj porn. I have no interest in sex porn anymore.
All I've ever looked at is BJ porn. I've always found watching penetration to be disgusting. Unfortunatley, that's what desensitized me. Softcore only!
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7521607 - 10/15/07 11:04 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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You may think this is extreme and, hey with all the type - A personalities around here I think it's acceptable right? 
Seriously, my prescrip for porn overload is: (and you're not gonna like this)
Don't ogle any immodestly dressed women in public or in the media where you can take all the time you like, right?
Feel free to gaze appreciatively in public and just glance over the media pics but only read mags that show em clothed even though according to Hollywood standards, nearly-nude is clothed! lol
Try to even, now this is a biggie...not touch a woman for two weeks and that's even being careful not to bump anyone on the bus/subway and be careful when paying a female cash register attendant.
The longer you carry out my instructions the faster you'll regain your sensitivity.
Good luck.
Oh, and BTW....the first time you get a live girl naked...even if you're de-sensitized...you'll wake up anyway, believe me. Be sure to give her a little appreciative gasp and then smile like your b-day came early. Hopefully you won't. 
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mikeyyork said: Do i remember you talking about depression not long since ?
You probably already know depression can affect your sex drive badly. If you're feeling stuck in a rut, relying on porn, maybe you don't feel like you have the thirst for life you once had when you were younger.
I could be way off but i get the feeling porn's not the whole problem, but i don't think abstaining for a short time would hurt.
You are NOT way off...I couldn't agree with you more. Now, if I'm way off then we're in trouble..lol but weriously, I think you've given sound advice that can easily be understood. Very important.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7521629 - 10/15/07 11:09 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hopefully I won't what?
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7521687 - 10/15/07 11:32 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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rotfl!
Just gasp and sigh and you'll be fine...!
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7521693 - 10/15/07 11:35 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm really confused: You're giving me advice and then you say hopefully I won't follow that advice...
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7521708 - 10/15/07 11:42 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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No...I said "come quickly" and then made a JOKE out of it...sorry I was confusing...this pixel stuff makes it hard to get a tongue in cheek comment over. Tongue in cheek. Hey that sounds like a nice exercise! lol Chill and be chilled...and lay off the junk food or the chicks will too.... (JOKE!)
Be well...MIC
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7521718 - 10/15/07 11:47 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ohh, heh.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7521745 - 10/15/07 11:55 PM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7521770 - 10/16/07 12:02 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks for the advice, but I think not looking at hot girls is insignificant. For one thing, I don't really even have the desire to look at hot girls because of my desensitization. Right now, I'm just waiting to do acid.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#7521800 - 10/16/07 12:18 AM (16 years, 3 months ago) |
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whatever dude... you got a lot of gr8 advice here and not just from me. It's up to you to take it...or not.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#14546590 - 06/01/11 04:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I use to actually produce porn for several years, so I had my fill of it.
Porn actually ruins your life, either you get desensitized to it all or you can never get your fill.
It leaves a scar, I've been porn free a little over a year and I don't miss it now, just press the delete key, throw some DVDs and hard drives in a fire and your all set!
I myself wound up finding Jesus and am a Christian now, so porn doesn't go well with that, so I dropped it for THE LORD and it def helped me out now.
plp think I'm more than strange tho, I don't watch TV or have one, but man I get a good show on caps hehehe
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: JunkFood]
#14546684 - 06/01/11 04:33 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I think thats a good thing though it makes it harder for you to get off which means longer sex...which means happy partner.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: thodub]
#14547762 - 06/01/11 08:15 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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thodub said: I think thats a good thing though it makes it harder for you to get off which means longer sex...which means happy partner.
for some it's a curse and for others a blessing. for those who want to get off as fast as possible without paying (much) attention to the intimate aspects of sex are unaware of the potential of our sexual energies. those who can go for hours and fully enjoy it cultivate sexual energy and it grows inside. the physical bodies actually produce more heat, similarly in a state of deep meditation. I've heard that in sexual kung fu, a couple can become so submerged in these energies that it feels as though they aren't separated by body but are harmonically attuned to circulating male and female energies.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: deranger]
#14547771 - 06/01/11 08:17 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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And wow, just noticed how old this thread is.
Mum, wish you were still around.
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: deranger]
#14548381 - 06/01/11 10:22 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I like u
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Re: Anybody ever recover from porn? [Re: deranger]
#14548660 - 06/01/11 11:37 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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