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Anonymous #1
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what is your greatest fear?
#7440362 - 09/22/07 12:25 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I fear that I may not be able to have children - other then through a lab or something - and that I will never even have that opportunity
and I fear even more that I may have already had my one solitary 'miricle baby' and that it was to a mother that didn't want the child (read: abortion)
I have no way of finding out if that ever was the case or not...it's just a sort of 'sixth sense' of mine that once upon a time - my child was there (and that I'll never be lucky enough to have something like this happen for me again...and I'll never have the opportunity for invitro)
I guess my biggest fear is that I only had ONE chance for a child...and that chance was taken from me
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Anonymous #2
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7440427 - 09/22/07 12:59 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like you are feeling guilty for making a decision you cannot change. If you got pregnant once chances are you will be able to again. Unless there were complications from your decision.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7440516 - 09/22/07 01:23 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I wasn't the one that got pregnant...nor do I even know one way or another if the person I thought *might have been* pregnant actually was
I am certain that no child ever came of it though...and I suspect that the reason why wasn't because there never could have been, but rather - that a child came, and was unwanted (though, this is just a feeling on my part)
and I'm worried now that I may not ever have another opportunity like this again
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Anonymous #3
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7440584 - 09/22/07 01:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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granite countertops
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Anonymous #4
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7440615 - 09/22/07 02:01 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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what is your greatest fear?
That something terrible awaits after death, for all eternity.
I don't believe it will, but its quite a scary thought.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#7440709 - 09/22/07 02:40 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's my greatest fear as well, that this life is a kind of lucky refuge from a nonsensical eternity
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Anonymous #6
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7440790 - 09/22/07 03:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I fear I'll knock some chick up some day. I fucking hate kids and never want them.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#7440943 - 09/22/07 04:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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what is your greatest fear?
That something terrible awaits after death, for all eternity.
I don't believe it will, but its quite a scary thought.
Thats what all those fucking religious turds tell you from birth. You have been brainwashed and beaten in to submission. Might as well go to church from now on instead of paying lip service like the compromising son of a bitch you are.
Go be a good sheep.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#7440962 - 09/22/07 04:14 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's bad news man, but life doesn't have to revolve around having kids. I personally wouldn't be so badly affected by the same situation but i guess everyone's different. And if there really was a miracle baby, it still came from your nuts so it could happen again...
My greatest fear is having to watch a family member or a close friend die, while not being able to help. My mom has a terminal lung disease. I gave her a cold last year and it nearly killed her. Watching someone slowly suffocate to death, while they're pleading for help is not a good thing, so i guess that's my biggest fear at the moment.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#7441020 - 09/22/07 04:32 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dunno...I guess in my mind procreation is simply THE purpose of life, and that I'm somehow a failure to society as a whole if I can't even contribute to the proliferation of our species
but I've never been officially tested on this one (it's really more of a phobia of mine based off of past failed attempts, really) so I'm beginning to think that maybe getting this shit looked into once and for all may just come with the pleasant surprise that it's all just in my head
I'm just worried that I may in fact be right in what I assume though
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Anonymous #1
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7441023 - 09/22/07 04:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I appreciate the encouragement though
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Anonymous #8
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7441088 - 09/22/07 04:53 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dunno...I guess in my mind procreation is simply THE purpose of life
The world's already over crowded man. If you can imagine a day where population reaches a crisis point, then your purpose for living may need re-evaluating,, .
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but I've never been officially tested on this one (it's really more of a phobia of mine based off of past failed attempts, really) so I'm beginning to think that maybe getting this shit looked into once and for all may just come with the pleasant surprise that it's all just in my head
I've had AIDs tests, heart scans, BP machines strapped to me for 24 hours. Every time i'd convinced myself i was fucked. Everything always came out fine. In those situations you tend to reason more with why the problem might exist, instead of why it may not. The negative side has a bigger impact and you think way too deep into it. Before you know it you're mentally trying to come to terms with something you don't even know exists..
Get checked as soon as you can, no point waiting around,, .
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Anonymous #3
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#7441214 - 09/22/07 05:28 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: That's my greatest fear as well, that this life is a kind of lucky refuge from a nonsensical eternity
I believe that's sobriety in the fore or wake of a mushroom trip.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7441232 - 09/22/07 05:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I dunno...I guess in my mind procreation is simply THE purpose of life, and that I'm somehow a failure to society as a whole if I can't even contribute to the proliferation of our species
Bad attitude to have. There are already too many people in this world.
You ever see people with kids? They look all stressed out and miserable.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#7441438 - 09/22/07 06:39 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Might as well go to church from now on instead of paying lip service like the compromising son of a bitch you are.
Do you know me?
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Anonymous #5
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#7441442 - 09/22/07 06:40 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: That's my greatest fear as well, that this life is a kind of lucky refuge from a nonsensical eternity
I believe that's sobriety in the fore or wake of a mushroom trip.
What do you mean? I was planning on tripping soon, haven't tripped in months.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7441676 - 09/22/07 08:02 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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what is your greatest fear?
that something will happen to one of my children...
that someone might hurt or kill one of them...
and that I'll go insane and hunt down the sick fuck, like an animal and kill them.
yeah...
that about covers it.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#7441713 - 09/22/07 08:21 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know its stupid but seriously my worst fear is zombies ,you know like in dawn of the dead ,i guess i should consider myself lucky that my biggest fear is something that will never come to pass ,huh ,i feel a whole lot better now.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#7441739 - 09/22/07 08:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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what is your greatest fear?
that something will happen to one of my children...
that someone might hurt or kill one of them...
and that I'll go insane and hunt down the sick fuck, like an animal and kill them.
yeah...
that about covers it.
QFT
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Anonymous #12
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Re: what is your greatest fear? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7441807 - 09/22/07 08:56 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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having my eyes pecked out by buzzards.
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