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Lion
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Why do guys in college
#7435582 - 09/21/07 07:46 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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always joke about being gay, raping each other, and being abusive to their girlfriends?
Last night I had meditated for an hour and was in such a peaceful mood, planning on watching Baraka, and my friend called me to go to a party. I went and as I was drinking and playing Kings I was overwhelmed that the only topics of conversation were being gay, raping one another, and yelling at the girls who were playing to drink more.
It's sad. It's like everyone goes to these parties to bounce off one another - little chance of a meaningful conversation unless it's a drunken 'heart-to-heart' that you won't remember half of the next day.
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skydog
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7435590 - 09/21/07 07:53 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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New friends?
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7435591 - 09/21/07 07:53 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like you are maturing a little faster than your friends. Some will never outgrow it.
My guess is you were sober and they were drunk?
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Lion
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: mushbaby]
#7435603 - 09/21/07 08:04 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Naw, actually by the end of the night I was really, really drunk. For the first time in a while. When I'm drunk I talk about the same things though as I do when I'm sober, I just do it more incoherently.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7435615 - 09/21/07 08:11 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Some people have deep thoughts and ponder the meaning of life. Others just worry about getting laid and/or wasted. Not saying you can't be deep and worry about getting laid just that it's not all you think about.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: mushbaby]
#7435624 - 09/21/07 08:15 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ive felt like that since I was 18, it has its ups and downs. People end up thinking you arent having fun most the time, which is kinda true. Dont get me wrong, I love my booze!
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: 2end4]
#7435637 - 09/21/07 08:23 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah well I wouldn't even be on this site if I didn't like to party a little myself. But I have definitely come to understand that there's alot of people in this world that just aren't tuned in to the "more" (for lack of a better word to encompass everyone's beliefs) that's obviously a part of existence. At least it's obvious to some of us.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7435651 - 09/21/07 08:35 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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bug said: always joke about being gay, raping each other, and being abusive to their girlfriends?
maybe because they'd rather raise themselves above the issue instead of leveling with the reality of such subjects directly..
at the bottomline, it is the child ego expressing itself.
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Quote:
AlteredAgain said:
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bug said: always joke about being gay, raping each other, and being abusive to their girlfriends?
maybe because they'd rather raise themselves above the issue instead of leveling with the reality of such subjects directly..
at the bottomline, it is the child ego expressing itself.
What if it was the same scenario, however it is just really intelligent people making vile jokes; They are able to make those jokes because they HAVE leveled with the reality of subjects directly. In a way, that is how my friends and I are. This doesn't seem to be the case though:-)
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I think i have a theory as to why this is , you see if a guy doesnt feel that he could be a brute and wrestle the weaker to the ground and force sex upon his victim , then he really isnt a man , i think its the testosterone , that and the fact that he has the intelligence of a monkey and has nothing better to talk about lol ?
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: PSiFr33k]
#7435853 - 09/21/07 09:38 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
PSiFr33k said: I think i have a theory as to why this is , you see if a guy doesnt feel that he could be a brute and wrestle the weaker to the ground and force sex upon his victim , then he really isnt a man , i think its the testosterone , that and the fact that he has the intelligence of a monkey and has nothing better to talk about lol ?
I can see see that narrated on some nature show ;p Showing some dude crawling through the woods lol.
I know thats how i feel very often. If you step back and look at many of our social traits and customs that people never question, they are no different from other species.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: The_Ghost]
#7435859 - 09/21/07 09:42 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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i think TurntableJunky summed it up pretty good
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7435936 - 09/21/07 10:12 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
bug said: Why do guys in college always joke about being gay, raping each other, and being abusive to their girlfriends?
To fit in I guess
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Good one Turntable, that shit had me rolling! 
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: D4NK]
#7436214 - 09/21/07 11:36 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nothing is more funny than homosexuality and rape. Well, maybe old people having sex and other people's misfortunes, but they are all pretty close. Some people take life too seriously, who the fuck gets drunk and talks about the meaning of life? Drinking isn't a good time to use your brain IMO, its not like you ate acid or something.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: D4NK]
#7436216 - 09/21/07 11:36 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: D4NK]
#7436250 - 09/21/07 11:45 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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hahaha... that bro rape video is great... nice find.
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Re: Why do guys in college [Re: Lion]
#7436296 - 09/21/07 11:58 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stop going to Frat parties.
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moon_glue
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your friends sound like loosers. find some musicians or people who's "party" is centered around actually doing something while fucked up. not just getting fucked up to do nothing.
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