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sublimistri
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So like my dad
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He thinks he might die soon (in the next few years) im thinking. last night he asked me what I want him to put on his will for me. I feel kind of fuckedup/greedy answering that question. For the past few days hes been waking up with blood soaking his boxers.. Says he has a hemroid thats bleeding and its lighter colored red blood. <-- Whats this mean, cancer maybe? He told me hes giving me the house (he has 4 kids, im the youngest).. He wont go back to the hospital because he lived in one for about 9 months after a bad motocycle accident in his teens, hes 56 right now. His dad made it to 62. I can tell hes getting weaker and he lives with alot of pain and tries not to show it. I feel to young for this
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Walter1496211
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Hang in there brother Death is a part of life. You might suffer through this but there is a greek saying that i hold to. Pathemata Mathemata google it you will understand.
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sublimistri
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Im wondering what that kind of bleeding means?
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Walter1496211
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Colon Cancer
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Alion



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give him some company, and smoke him up.
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SneezingPenis
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Re: So like my dad [Re: Alion]
#7432249 - 09/20/07 01:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Alion said: give him some company, and smoke him up.
I know it sounds immature, but if my dad was dying, I would try to smoke him out.... even though he is a Rush Limbaugh, republican fanatic.
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Walter1496211
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Take him to the desert and munch on some peyote.
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Thin White Duke
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Just try to spend as much time with him as you can now, make some new memories. You'll be so glad you did when he's gone.
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PSiFr33k
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Its part of life brother , im sorry things have turned out that way for ya tho , i could possibly imagine what i would do if i lost my father , hes 60 now, worrying the shit outta me , but as far as i know hes fairly healthy despite him smoking for 50 years, doesnt seem to have any shortness of breath or anything , just spend as much time as you can with em , how old are you btw ? im 21 and both of my grandparents have passed away already , i sat in the hospital and watched my g-pa pass , now im starting to realize my mother and father arent going to be around forever and that reality is starting to work at me , pretty bad , but ill survive and we always move on , thats the beauty of life, youll learn to accept these things.
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paulie_walnuts1
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Jesus Christ. Can't you force him to at least get diagnosed? It could be something that's curable for fuck's sake. Punch your dad in the face and drag his ass to a doctor. If it's bad he could always go back home. You're not living on the fucking frontier with no one for miles.
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