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blackroselove
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So the only thing left to do now is...?
#7428738 - 09/19/07 03:36 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I anticipated an opportunity and then realized , in a few moments of clarity that it was just a figment of my imagination. And it just wasn't going to happen. (boy do I feel like a dumbass ) At the sake of keeping a great friendship, how does one make them self fall out of interest with someone? I just mostly wanted to say it out loud. But any input would be of great help.And hell, lets hear some stories.Thanks.
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Re: So the only thing left to do now is...? [Re: blackroselove]
#7428779 - 09/19/07 03:43 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you figure that one out, get back to me
I've only been able to temporarily suspend feelings for others, but they usually creep back fairly quickly...sometimes within just one event of hanging out with them
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SneezingPenis
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Re: So the only thing left to do now is...? [Re: demiu5]
#7429026 - 09/19/07 04:58 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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picture them with explosive diarrhea every time you see them.
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blackroselove
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Re: So the only thing left to do now is...? [Re: SneezingPenis]
#7429458 - 09/19/07 06:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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will do.
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PSiFr33k
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Re: So the only thing left to do now is...? [Re: blackroselove]
#7429626 - 09/19/07 07:25 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just try to realize the joy of being together as just friends? Ive had similar situations , but if the feelings are there for you , and you have to try to cease these feelings or intrest in this person then WTF is wrong with you , your heart doesnt lie so fuckin tell em how you feel.. if they dont feel the same way the friendship isnt ruined , in a few weeks things will be back to normal so give it a shot
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donkers5257
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Re: So the only thing left to do now is...? [Re: PSiFr33k]
#7430213 - 09/19/07 09:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I can tell ya loads of stories about how flirting with the friend/more barrier has ruined great things. And I'll tell you that even if THEY are the one pushing the barrier, the friendship gets mangled anyway because of hurt feelings. But a lot of friendships also fade regardless and risks sometime need to be taken. And I'll also tell you that sometimes crossing the barrier for one drunken night (don't ask) in a weird way can make a friendship stronger, depending on the personalities and maturity of the persons involved.
Though over the years, my conlcusion has come to this: We screw ourselves over by nitpicking over what constitutes a "friend" and arbitrating barriers. If you can't be honest about your feelings and trust the bond to remain, the friendship isn't the kind of bond that would have made a good involved relationship anyway. Be the best kind of friend you can be, and go wherever that leads you. Attraction is just that, attraction. It's the love that matters, learn to appreciate it regardless of attraction, thin of it as a growing exercise.
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