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My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay?
#7413707 - 09/15/07 04:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have a cousin who HATES gay people. He's 16 years old. His father is kinda redneck and my cousin has always lived a fairly redneck lifestyle. He calls them fagots all the time and has stated on several occasions that he wishes that he could personally kill every single homosexual on earth. My sister and I think that he must be a repressed homosexual or bi-sexual because only someone repressing their homosexual tendencies would hate gay people that much.
But on the other hand, he HATES minorities too and I'm certain that he's not one of those. So is my theory about his possible repressed homosexuality valid considering that he hates minorities as much as he hates gay people?
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413715 - 09/15/07 04:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hah... what the fuck dude... how the hell should we know?
If you want to fathom a guess, I think your own knowledge of his personality traits and your experiences with him thus far in life would give you an advantage over us internet cohorts...
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413723 - 09/15/07 04:09 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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He sounds more like a predictable product of his home environment. 
While it might be true that some people deal with homosexual attractions by expressing extreme homophobia, bigotry and hatred have nothing to do with sexual orientation.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413736 - 09/15/07 04:11 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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He sounds like an ignorant homophobe, if you ask me. He better hope he never gets in any big trouble and gets locked up. People with this kind of mentality always catch hell in the clink.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: JacquesCousteau]
#7413738 - 09/15/07 04:12 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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My sister and I think that he must be a repressed homosexual or bi-sexual because only someone repressing their homosexual tendencies would hate gay people that much.
Thats not true at all. I dont know how this myth got started, but I suspect that it started as a joke and then people started to believe it.
Bieng hateful to a group in no way implies you are secretly part of that group. Hating gay in no way implies you are gay.
The bottom line is your cousin is a hateful bigot. There doesnt have to be more to it than that does there?
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413742 - 09/15/07 04:12 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Wouldn't hurt to spread this theory around to those he knows, though
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: DirtMcgirt]
#7413808 - 09/15/07 04:32 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks guys. I was hoping that you'd set me straight on this issue. It's fun to think that people who hate gay people are secretly gay (ala the next door neighbor father in "American Beauty") but it just doesn't seem factual, considering the fact that my cousin hates black people but obviously isn't black.
I just always hear people site some study or studies that suggest that homophobes get turned on by men more than people who aren't homophobic. You've probably heard about that.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: DieCommie]
#7413809 - 09/15/07 04:32 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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yea but think of those 2 (at least)republican senators who vehemently lobbied against gay rights, only to find out theyre flamingly gay. and like it in public bathrooms or with little boys.. same with that minister (haggert) .. absolutely hated gays, and he liked taking meth and getting it in the ass.
im not saying thats always the case, but there is some truth to that statement
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413815 - 09/15/07 04:34 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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well yea its always the people that are blatantly against gays and always talking shit about them that actually are secretly gay. but theres no way we could tell. he may just be a total asshole. either way hes an asshole so... yep.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Infrared]
#7413846 - 09/15/07 04:44 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's true that Republican politicians seem to really hate gay people and yet they always seem to get outed as being gay but it's true that you're not always what you hate. Remember, my cousin hates black people but he is not black.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Veritas]
#7413848 - 09/15/07 04:44 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think its very likely. I once read an article about a preacher who was completely against the acceptance of gays. It was in some himan rights magazine that covered hate groups, so I geuss he just went ranting about gay people. He would talk about "beating" homosexuality and his personal struggle with it, which made it clear that he himself actually was gay, but somehow he saw it as just another form of temptation.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Quarryman]
#7413895 - 09/15/07 05:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think the reason you hear about those cases is they are rare. There are millions of people who do not like gays and are not in fact gay.
I think its very likely. Yea, Learyfan's little redneck cousin must be gay... All the evidence points to it
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Quarryman]
#7413901 - 09/15/07 05:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Your cousin's hatred of minorities is irrelevant. There is nothing to the notion that he has to be part of a group to hate it. There are plenty of people who lash out at gays to cover their own insecurity about wanting the cock. Ted Haggard comes to mind.
Give your cousin the benefit of the doubt, though: he's gay.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7413906 - 09/15/07 05:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would say that there is a good chance that your cousin is gay. A better chance than someone who is indifferent or positive towards gays, definitely.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: robbyberto]
#7413942 - 09/15/07 05:16 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's pretty obvious that he is possessed by a gay black person.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: TripityDooDaDay]
#7414236 - 09/15/07 07:15 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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He's a fucking nazi-redneck-piece-of-shit. There's a few of them on these boards so you can study their behaviors and see if they are trully gay. But hey, he might be a faggot on the inside and he might even want to fuck black men...
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: downforpot]
#7414252 - 09/15/07 07:22 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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havent you noticed, the only people who join anti-semetic organizations like the KKK, or hate groups in general are poor, low-class rednecks who just want to hate to be a part of something? they're fucking frustrated with life, because theyre too stupid to do anything else with themselves.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Crystal G]
#7414563 - 09/15/07 09:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well yea... prolly why the south which is poor is known for being full of redneck cocksuckers.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7414567 - 09/15/07 09:08 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yah he probably is
Just my experience that the most hateful homophobes are often the deepest in the closet
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO]
#7414641 - 09/15/07 09:28 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hyper_Panda_GO said: Yah he probably is
Just my experience that the most hateful homophobes are often the deepest in the closet
My experience is that there's no logic to that reasoning. I'm not just saying that, I'm serious. Vegetarians don't secretly love meat, and people who express hatred for muslims, or "diaper-heads" don't secretly want to marry one. Bush didn't secretly love Sadam and I don't secretly agree with that false reasoning. Thinking that hating gays is a sign of being gay is a sign of being unintelligent.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Disco Cat]
#7414654 - 09/15/07 09:31 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thinking that hating gays is a sign of being gay is a sign of being unintelligent. Awesome 
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Disco Cat]
#7414659 - 09/15/07 09:31 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well it makes sense. They act like they hate gays so nobody suspects them of being gay.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Disco Cat]
#7414669 - 09/15/07 09:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I theorize it''s because they're so frightened of "becoming" gay they do everything they can to prove they're not, and that isn't unintelligent at all, some people are like that, and I wasn't generalizing either, that's just the way I've experienced it with people who bash gays
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: robbyberto]
#7414671 - 09/15/07 09:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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That doesnt make sense at all dude
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7414678 - 09/15/07 09:35 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Disco Cat]
#7414685 - 09/15/07 09:36 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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there is logic to it, its because they hate themselves and they dont want anyone to know that they are gay, its pretty common.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Locus]
#7414751 - 09/15/07 09:56 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Why would they hate themselves, because they're gay? Then they must hate gays. Why would they hate gays, because they hate themselves? That's a paradox. If they hate gays for a different reason than that they're one of them, then I suppose they genuinely hate gays, regardless of whether they're one or not.
I know enough genuinely straight people who find homosexuality disgusting and seriously do not believe it's the result of anything positive. I've known a guy who hated them with a passion, and he also hated many other minority groups with a passion. He was misdirecting his anger for sure, but it had nothing to do with being gay.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Disco Cat]
#7414777 - 09/15/07 10:01 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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i dont really understand it completely, other than what ive already said... because im not one of those people. but i can still understand it to some degree. and from your replies you clearly cannot understand. i dont know what else to say about it.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7414781 - 09/15/07 10:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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They pretend to hate gay people because of the fear of being ostracized because they themselves are gay. Because their parents, friends, siblings, class mates, and community may dislike gay people. We aren't saying that everyone who hates gays or is vocal about their negative gay views are definitely gay just that they may have a greater chance of being homosexual.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Locus]
#7414794 - 09/15/07 10:06 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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that shit makes no sense because it's wrong.
Here's the deal. Sometimes, sure, it's accurate. Usually with older folks than anyone here. They were gay, but forced to conform, and had to repress their desires somehow. Hatred's pretty strong, works well. Even that I wouldn't say was common.
The REAL reason that bullshit myth gets so much playtime is simple. How do you get a homophobe to shut the hell up? Tell him he only hates gay people because he is secretly gay. All of a sudden the argument turns completely into a "OH HELL NO I'M NOT!".. you repeat that magic phrase, it goes on and on... it's dumb, it confuses the direction of dumb people, there ARE examples of the gay/hate/gay but fuck.. are people who hate jews secretly jewish? OMG ADOLF HITLER WAS! IT MUST BE TRUE FOR EVERYONE THEN!
No. No, that's wrong, and that's dumb, and there's no reason to believe it. Don't be dumb, Billy.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7414803 - 09/15/07 10:09 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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He sounds more like a redneck than anything. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree and all that, you know.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Locus]
#7414808 - 09/15/07 10:10 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know being gay while having a distaste for it can exasperate a person's negative emotions, but so do a billion other personal issues, and the amount of hot headed gay-bashers out there whose hate is fueled by their happening to be gay, rather than one of the other billion possible factors, is incredibly small.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Mushmonkey]
#7414810 - 09/15/07 10:10 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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NO, no... youre wrong. wtf, this is stupid.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Locus]
#7414928 - 09/15/07 10:59 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I agree, this is fucking stupid.
Just because he hates everything homosexual doesn't mean hes gay, it just means hes been prejudice against homosexuals. Trying to make bullshit connections gets you no where.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Mushmonkey]
#7414931 - 09/15/07 11:00 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ok, your a moron.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: Learyfan]
#7414965 - 09/15/07 11:13 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Remember, my cousin hates black people but he is not black.
Can't really say that, there is a difference. He might secretly want to screw the hell out of a hot black chick.
Remember that he is a product of his upbringing, and very often people try to mentaly 'fight' the rules their parents set forward. Breaking rules is naughty.
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Re: My little cousin HATES gay people. Is he gay? [Re: RuNE]
#7414981 - 09/15/07 11:20 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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You might be right. Maybe he does want to fuck some minority women. Hell, maybe he wants to fuck a guy. But it's definitely not true that you are whatever you hate. I just hadn't really thought it out completely.
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