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RandalFlagg
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: Liz]
#7406074 - 09/13/07 08:13 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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If she did it once she'll probably do it again.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7406082 - 09/13/07 08:15 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Probably, yeah. Especially if she won't even talk to her fiance about the fact that he's not pleasing her sexually, and would rather just go elsewhere for fun. That's not love.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: Liz]
#7406084 - 09/13/07 08:15 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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heres the deal:
1. wether your friend finds out or not, you are still "that guy" who will fuck your friends fiancee.
2. you can't say your a good person and you made a mistake. you can't seperate your actions from who you are. they are the same thing.
3. fuck the shit out of her. tell your friend his fiancee is a cheating slut, and pound that ass to him crying in the other room.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406119 - 09/13/07 08:20 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's amazing how you are NOT in this "loving relationship" and can justify your actions when you truly have no idea what goes on between them. People are selfish, hurt people, and think it's ok because of their jaded veiws.
Get some CONFIDENCE pal.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406225 - 09/13/07 08:37 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: shes not a slut or anything,this was the only time shes done anything like this..

On another note, out of curiosity who have you known longer the bitch or her fiance?
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: vandago]
#7406229 - 09/13/07 08:37 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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there's really nothing you can say to make me feel any worse than i do. talk shit and make assumptions all you want
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406251 - 09/13/07 08:40 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ok, let's get serious here:
1. Do you think she would cheat again (with you or someone else)? If so, is that fair to the fiance?
2. If you told him...what would he do?
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7406276 - 09/13/07 08:44 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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1.she would never cheat on him with anyone else, but she might have the desire to with me... and i will stop her
2. he would go completely psycho and beat the life out of us
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406298 - 09/13/07 08:48 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well if you've known him longer than her and he's supposed to be your friend then you should man up and tell him what happened.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406299 - 09/13/07 08:48 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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In all seriousness, you're an idiot if you honestly think that she won't do this again with someone else.
He has a right to know what happened. I'm pretty sure that you would want to know if you were in his shoes.
Despite you thinking that their relationship is a "loving" one, it's clearly not, and you'd be doing them both a freakin favor by telling him. Maybe it will bring some things that need to be talked about to the surface and they can work out their issues, or maybe you're right and he'll freak out. Either way, at least you told him and let him make an informed decision after knowing all of the facts.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406346 - 09/13/07 08:58 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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there's really nothing you can say to make me feel any worse than i do. talk shit and make assumptions all you want
I'm pretty sure you posted this on the internet. In a forum where people general care about things from time to time. What you did was outrageous and terrible and you are defending it. What did you expect people to say? Of course you knew people would say you are an asshole, jees.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: Liz]
#7406370 - 09/13/07 09:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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like i said, she isn't a slut. shes had 2 boyfriends in the past 10 years and never cheated once. the reason for me was because of our emotional attachment. we became really close during the 3-4 years we've known each other. she admitted to me today thats shes been attracted to me through most of our friendship. there's lots of things she sees in me that her fiance doesn't have. we share many things in common... and yes maybe she shouldn't marry this guy, but its not up to me what she wants to do.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406401 - 09/13/07 09:10 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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No, but it is up to YOU what you want to do.
Be a man and tell your 'friend' what you did.
Or be a pussy and keep making excuses.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: CherryBom]
#7406412 - 09/13/07 09:13 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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so what is the better thing to do? to make the "right" decision to lead to very shitty consequences on many levels or to let it be and cause absolutely no problems?
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406419 - 09/13/07 09:15 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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The truth will come out. If not by you, then her. If not her...your buddy will soon start asking questions.
Trust me. Sometimes it takes longer...but the truth ALWAYS comes out.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406427 - 09/13/07 09:16 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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You ALREADY caused the goddamn problem, why cant you see that? It's not something you can just forget happened. her fiance will see it in her eyes, he will know she's got something to hide.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: vandago]
#7406476 - 09/13/07 09:27 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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obviously i can see I'm the one who caused the problem... i got the entire shroomery telling me how shitty of a person I am for the wrong decision I made. i live my entire life fucking life trying to help and love other people...spent my entire life not thinking of myself and thinking about others. I made one stupid decision, i was thinking with my dick.. for once in my life i thought about my own pleasures... i was selfish yes, but should i be labeled as bad person because i made a mistake?
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406525 - 09/13/07 09:34 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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No you should man up, and tell him.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406670 - 09/13/07 10:02 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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seriously. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. This isn't for you to feel bad about yourself. You got to have sex and your friends relationship just fell apart at the seams. Why do you get to feel bad about yourself?
Be a friend.
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Re: Boy do I feel good... or guilty [Re: danlennon3]
#7406685 - 09/13/07 10:05 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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don't listen to anyone man do what you want to do it's your life
there's many logical reasons why you should and should not tell your friend all that matters is that you make a decision only when you are completely confident in it
and it's life dude shit happens you can't live in Disney World forever people get hurt and people get blowjobs
so all of you who are bagging on him just because you don't like what he did he just made a mistake and he already admitted feeling bad about it and no i don't support what he did but i don't think it's something to get angry at someone about especially if you've never even met the guy
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