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laska
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FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work!
#7392586 - 09/10/07 04:29 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I work at the cafe in a bookstore.
It's relatively fun - we get our psychos. A regular (woman) always tells me about wanting to shoot her boyfriend because he pees in her house. She's become slightly attached to me because i guess i feed her need for attention, so she stares at me and lingers around me whenever possible.
But then there the weird ass men who worry me a little more. I'm not talking about just one type of guy either. There's several men who come to my work EVERY SINGLE DAY. They spend almost an entire work shift of mine (8 hours) sitting at the tables, getting coffee or tea refills.
Staring at me while i work. Pretending to read their stupid ass science fiction or fantasy books and never seeming to get much further in their reading as the hours go bye. I feel like one day I'm just going to snap and scream "Stop staring at me while I'm working you crazy, pathetic fucks!"
Some of the girls i work with talk more to these guys, even sitting at a table with them during their breaks. I just don't trust them. I think it's stupid.
At my old job, i also worked mainly in the cafe, there were a couple psychos too. I had a surgeon always talking to me, always alone, every single night. Sure he's probably lonely, but when he asks me when i get off and i lie, saying my boyfriend (Suimush) is going to pick me up , he says "Oh well, i thought i saw you get out of your car alone."
He came to watch a movie at 10 pm. I started work at 5pm. Why the fuck would he know this. He also didn't watch a movie earlier in the day, i checked because i didn't want to be disgusted by nothing.
If your a 40+ auto mechanic, NO I DON'T WANT TO FUCK YOU! - your old enough to be my father.
If your a business man, with a wedding ring on, NO I DON'T WANT TO FUCK YOU. - for some reason home wreaking has never appealed to me.
If you wear hooters shirts with holes in them and sandal in the winter , NO I DON'T WANT TO FUCK YOU. if you cant even dress yourself in relatively clean smelling cloths, don't bother.
you guys are defiantly luck in many aspects, for not having to deal with this in such a degree.
Why? Why the fuck do these guys feel like it's perfectly fine to do this? They don't hide it, in fact they draw it out. Saying my first name with a smile on their faces. I wish we didn't have to wear name tags.
WOW, i feel allot better.
/end rant.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392591 - 09/10/07 04:31 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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40?
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392605 - 09/10/07 04:34 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you don't like it, quit. Get a job where you're not going to be ogled by customers all day. Its not that hard to find one. Otherwise, just ignore them, but don't be afraid to tell your manager (or even the cops) if you think one of these guys is ACTUALLY stalking you. Somehow I think you're reading too much into it.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: adrug]
#7392630 - 09/10/07 04:40 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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easy solution:
put x-lax in their coffee, theyll stop coming.
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laska
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: adrug]
#7392652 - 09/10/07 04:43 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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adrug said: If you don't like it, quit. Get a job where you're not going to be ogled by customers all day. Its not that hard to find one. Otherwise, just ignore them, but don't be afraid to tell your manager (or even the cops) if you think one of these guys is ACTUALLY stalking you. Somehow I think you're reading too much into it.
yeah, i don't think it's as serious as actually stalkers but it's just annoying. In general my job is pretty relaxed. The number one reason I'm staying there is because by working a min. of 30 hours a week i get awesome benefits. Which i need while going through college.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: memes]
#7392657 - 09/10/07 04:44 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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if only....
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: memes]
#7392663 - 09/10/07 04:44 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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damn, being a pretty girl must be really fucking hard. i don't know how you do it.
sorry.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392676 - 09/10/07 04:46 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: mushroomplume]
#7392688 - 09/10/07 04:48 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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with one foot in front of the other.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7392696 - 09/10/07 04:49 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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if the girls at the cafe actually wore this, i think we'd meet our goals (money) every single night.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392701 - 09/10/07 04:50 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Like some other guy said, they are probably harmless. They just don't have a life and choose to spend their time reading spiderman and looking at Starbuck women.
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laska
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: mushroomplume]
#7392724 - 09/10/07 04:55 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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oliveplume said:

Like some other guy said, they are probably harmless. They just don't have a life and choose to spend their time reading spiderman and looking at Starbuck women.
i guess. It seems to bring them some joy to their lives so i guess i shouldn't complain.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392736 - 09/10/07 04:58 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Instead of lying and saying your boyfriend is picking you up to blow guys off, just flat out tell the guys that you're not interested, because you have a boyfriend and they're too old for you.
If they stare at you and make you uncomfortable, tell them to kindly stop staring at you.
If they hang around and creep you out, tell your manager.
Maybe if you're just blunt and direct about it, they won't continue to hang around and check you out? Or maybe they will.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: memes]
#7392739 - 09/10/07 04:59 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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LOL You sound like my wife. She is a hot petite blond who though she is 34, doesn't even look 25. She works as a waitress and catches the same crap all the time.
We ran a store of our own for a while and I had left one day for a few minutes. When I got back there where a few Mexicans there that had been standing around laughing and speaking in Spanish. Talking nasty as usual. I walked in and said "hola amigos, com esta?" They looked embarrassed as hell and asked her if she spoke Spanish to. She doesn't but she looked at them and said "si" anyway. lol They left quickly. I probably lost a good sale but it was too funny.
Being a pretty female and working in public can be funny but can also be dangerous. There are some sick people in this world.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392747 - 09/10/07 05:01 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Why? Why the fuck do these guys feel like it's perfectly fine to do this? They don't hide it, in fact they draw it out. Saying my first name with a smile on their faces. I wish we didn't have to wear name tags.
Because they are male and you are female. Lonely, socially inept imbeciles think that women want their attention. Practically every girl I know gets similar things. Personally, I think it's time for mr testes to be introduced to mr sanding machine, but you do what you want.
Horny men act like spastics. It's a fact of life.
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laska
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: Liz]
#7392752 - 09/10/07 05:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Liz said: Instead of lying and saying your boyfriend is picking you up to blow guys off, just flat out tell the guys that you're not interested, because you have a boyfriend and they're too old for you.
If they stare at you and make you uncomfortable, tell them to kindly stop staring at you.
If they hang around and creep you out, tell your manager.
Maybe if you're just blunt and direct about it, they won't continue to hang around and check you out? Or maybe they will.
I lied that one time, but usually i just i have a boyfriend already. I have problems telling people off, i guess i should just practice at it.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: EllisDSox]
#7392761 - 09/10/07 05:05 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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EllisDSox said:
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Why? Why the fuck do these guys feel like it's perfectly fine to do this? They don't hide it, in fact they draw it out. Saying my first name with a smile on their faces. I wish we didn't have to wear name tags.
Because they are male and you are female. Lonely, socially inept imbeciles think that women want their attention. Practically every girl I know gets similar things. Personally, I think it's time for mr testes to be introduced to mr sanding machine, but you do what you want.
Horny men act like spastics. It's a fact of life.
I do have sharp objects around my station. Knives, boiling water... your giving me ideas!
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: TripityDooDaDay]
#7392774 - 09/10/07 05:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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TripityDooDaDay said: LOL You sound like my wife. She is a hot petite blond who though she is 34, doesn't even look 25. She works as a waitress and catches the same crap all the time.
We ran a store of our own for a while and I had left one day for a few minutes. When I got back there where a few Mexicans there that had been standing around laughing and speaking in Spanish. Talking nasty as usual. I walked in and said "hola amigos, com esta?" They looked embarrassed as hell and asked her if she spoke Spanish to. She doesn't but she looked at them and said "si" anyway. lol They left quickly. I probably lost a good sale but it was too funny.
Being a pretty female and working in public can be funny but can also be dangerous. There are some sick people in this world.
the same thing happened to me at my last job, my friend/co-worker is from El Salvador and she spoke English to the Mexican guys, they were saying all these nasty things about me and her in front of us, then when they were leaving she said something along the lines of "thanks for being so nice, i'm sure your girlfriends are very proud you" in Spanish. They walked alway with straight faces.
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: laska]
#7392812 - 09/10/07 05:17 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's a tightrope, you have to be nice to the customers but you shouldn't have to feel creeped out.
I have been known to act like a total airhead and just not "get" their innuendos, it seemed easier than confronting them. Plus you have to flirt a little to get the great tips.
But I get burned out on waitressing really fast. Even though the money's so good.
BTW for a pretty girl, the airhead thing works GREAT with cops!
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Re: FUCK OFF to the crazy men who come to my work! [Re: EllisDSox]
#7392818 - 09/10/07 05:18 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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EllisDSox said: Lonely, socially inept imbeciles think that women want their attention.
Not true. I'm lonely and socially inept and I know that women don't want me. ...so there!
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