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truffleupagus


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The swinger lifestyle
#7384103 - 09/08/07 03:22 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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How all does that work?
Or doesn't it?
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aDoS
freedom lover



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you get aides and die
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OneMoreRobot3021



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Happy Birthday.
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aDoS
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: aDoS]
#7384107 - 09/08/07 03:23 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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and then you go to hell for being dirty
-------------------- "If we could sniff or swallow something that would, for five or six hours each day, abolish our solitude as individuals, atone us with our fellows in a glowing exaltation of affection and make life in all its aspects seem not only worth living, but divinely beautiful and significant, and if this heavenly, world-transfiguring drug were of such a kind that we could wake up next morning with a clear head and an undamaged constitution - then, it seems to me, all our problems (and not merely the one small problem of discovering a novel pleasure) would be wholly solved and earth would become paradise." - Aldous Huxley GIVE ME OPIATES OR GIVE ME DEATH
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sublimistri
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: aDoS]
#7384124 - 09/08/07 03:29 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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Relationship where they allow eachother to have sex with other people, from my understanding
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bukkake


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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: sublimistri]
#7384129 - 09/08/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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aka an open relationship, common in high schools.
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truffleupagus


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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: bukkake]
#7384217 - 09/08/07 03:52 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks OLF!
I know what the swinger lifestyle is.
I'm just wondering if anyone has any first hand experience and if it's possible to not let it screw up a serious relationship.
The reason I'm even curious is because I'm getting married next year and my fiance and I have only been with a couple people each (counting each other). I know this shouldn't bother me but it does. And it's not the low number that bothers me as much as it's the lack of variety.
I really want to spend my life with this girl, have kids and get old with her but I'm afraid that things could get incredibly hard later on if something isn't done sooner to deal with these feelings I'm having.
I think we're both really confident in our love making abilities so that's not a big concern for me. But how the hell do you let your girl go out on a date with another guy and not worry about her wellbeing, in the very least? That's what would get me.
And please don't anybody judge me for simply considering this. I don't know that it's something we would actually do.
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DieCommie


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I have never done it. I dont think its a good idea at all. If you do it you are going to risk one of the greatest blessings ever for 'variety'.
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Scarfmeister
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: DieCommie]
#7384626 - 09/08/07 05:04 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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*snip*
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Edited by coda (09/08/07 06:37 PM)
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CaRnAgECaNdY
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Happy birthday!
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WhiskeyClone
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You have to be ugly to be a swinger
Seriously
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coda
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it can work but it takes a lot of trust, id also suggest against getting involved with close personal friends. However i will say that i've seen it cause more problems then good in the long run, jealousy seems to get in the way in most cases.
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