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Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space
#7347065 - 08/29/07 02:13 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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And I really don't wanna call someone to get pity. My girl is sleeping so I cant get her to help .
Any ideas how to help myself?
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: Psy Baba]
#7347082 - 08/29/07 02:27 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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create stuff
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Psy Baba
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: munter1234]
#7347084 - 08/29/07 02:29 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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I always get super frustrated and feel like no matter how creative I feel about what I am doing it is just shit.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: Psy Baba]
#7347321 - 08/29/07 06:31 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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Since when do you feel like that?
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: MushroomTrip]
#7347605 - 08/29/07 08:52 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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if its not too cold, go for a midnight bikeride. Go to barnes and noble and pick up a book, a fiction, and turn to that as well whenever you're feeling bored and depressed.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: Psy Baba]
#7347919 - 08/29/07 10:37 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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DuNeRaVeR said: I always get super frustrated and feel like no matter how creative I feel about what I am doing it is just shit.
I know what you mean, about this and about feeling in that way. I think we feel like that because we fear being useless, unimportant, wasted space. Of course, we cannot experience fear unless it is associated with a pattern - we have to have a conception of what we fear in order to feel that fear.
I think something is triggering that fear, and feeling that fear invokes the experience itself. It is not reality judging you, even if it feels that way.
I think simply realizing this is the first step towards breaking free of that feeling when it shows up. What we tell ourselves is very important. Tell yourself that it isn't true, even if the mental program still makes it feel very real. These thought processes build up momentum and it takes effort and intention to get the right wheels spinning up there.
This is the only moment in which we live. Trust me, you have a use and space is never wasted. We're here right now, and that alone means so much.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: MushroomTrip]
#7348546 - 08/29/07 01:41 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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MushroomTrip said: Since when do you feel like that?
bout 13 when my parents divorced.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: fireworks_god]
#7348549 - 08/29/07 01:43 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks a lot firework. Helps quite a bit to hear a different side of things.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: Psy Baba]
#7348822 - 08/29/07 03:09 PM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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It is quite obvious that you feel this way because because of that event. I am not you and I don't know what you felt and what you've been through when your parents got divorced, and also I don't have specific details on how it happened so I can tell you what I think. If you feel like providing with more details, then please do. The way you feel like that has a reason and it's good to know what exactly caused it and in which manner. It is important first of all because it helps you know yourself better and the way you react in certain circumstances. That way, not only that you will be able to understand yourself and organize your thoughts and feelings, coming to new realizations and eventually solving your present issue, but it could and will also help you in the future because you will be able to get an understanding on how you will react in situations that are not easy for you, as well as finding clues on how to successfully get over it.
Also I think that FWG( ) is right and that now you feel this way because you created a pattern on how to react. What you have to realize now is that, this pattern you formed might have been very helpful to you somewhere in the past, and this is exactly why you subconsciously became so attached to it. It doesn't mean that it will keep serving you well every time you feel vulnerable. We are changing each moment of our lives and so do our circumstances. What once worked perfectly for creating a desired mind set, in the future it could become inefficient or even toxic. Becoming aware of the fact that you are constantly changing will trigger for you what it's called self actualizing. Which is the next step after becoming aware that you're constantly changing and which will have as effect making you able to find the optimum measures and actions that you can take in different new circumstances of your life, without having to invoke the old and less efficient ones. What you also have to understand is that it is pretty normal and explainable for any of us to feel depressed, useless and lonely. Because what happens when you feel like that, besides the harshness of the situation you're already confronting yourself with, you also start to feel guilty or mad at yourself for feeling this way. And this only makes things worse and harder. In fact, in many cases, this is what is really holding us back from getting out of depression, not the depression itself. So what I suggest you to do with yourself, is understand your depression and be as patient and understanding towards yourself. For everything that you feel there is a natural course, and obstructing it with feeling guilty is what's stopping you from becoming more aware in a touch with life. However, it doesn't mean that you have to become so relaxed about your state that you reach a dangerous and harmless form of self indulgence, because you still have to act prompt and with efficiency when the circumstances require. Being able to stand up for yourself, start feeling good about life and about yourself is the desirable outcome and it's what you what you consciously have to work on reaching and improving.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: MushroomTrip]
#7350745 - 08/30/07 04:36 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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I will def think about all you said. There is alot of content involved that will all take time as you well know. I am just glad there are still caring people in the world, sometimes I give up on the hope of mankind being on the positive side of teh scale. Seems more and more evil is unearthing everyday and there is nothign we can do about it.
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Re: Feeling useless/unimportant/like wasted space [Re: Psy Baba]
#7361068 - 09/02/07 08:15 AM (16 years, 5 months ago) |
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until you help a person you dont know, and get that "good' feeling back.
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