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 Re: life?  [Re: munchi]
#724061 - 07/05/02 02:28 AM (21 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey man i love you! Truly, don't worry, be happy man.
A problem is only a problem if you say so. You are the god of you.
Wanna talk? 
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Amoeba665
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That is what scares me about death is the possibility that I might not get to see my girlfriend again...this is no fly by night relationship, I have actually know her 25% of my entire life! I am NOT comfortable in a world without her. Some view love as a weakness, some as a strength, I have not decided...but weakness or strength I have got it, for better or worse:)
love is a strength, dependency is a weakness. this has been said before and i'll say it again... the most important thing is attachment, or identification, or clinging, whatever you want to call it. if there's one thing you can be sure about, it's that everything you experience will come and go. if you attach yourself to something that is inevitably going to end, it'll hurt you in the end. it'll be like tearing away a part of yourself. if you can somehow manage to rise above this life you can enjoy the good things when they happen and just wait for the bad things to pass. live in your mind, not in your body, if that makes sense. you also have to have real faith that there is something more than what we've been exposed to. i only truly realized this after i fell in love with someone and then lost her to circumstances out of our control. unfortunately it seems like in order for people to be able to live this way they first have to experience certain events in their life...
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 Re: life? [Re: tjc1027]
#724481 - 07/05/02 09:37 AM (21 years, 5 months ago) |
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something i've always wondered about.. people that hate everything and have no hope, why are they still here? it seems to be that everyone who is alive is alive either because they think life is peachy, or because they expect something to happen when they die, they feel they have to "prove themself" to some unknown force(s). if the only reason you're alive is because you don't want to "give up", then why don't you want to "give up"? who are you trying to prove something to? if there's nothing when you die, things like guilt and pride and weakness shouldn't make a difference, right?
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tjc1027
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OK I have not had BAD experiences with love I have had NO experience with love except for my mom. who has just recently turned into a BITCH. She always bitches about how I am not doing anyhing with my life how I am up all night and sleep all day and pretty much EVERYTHING. My experience with GIRLS is that they all want a conformist who looks acts and lives like everyone else. I hate to break it to them but I am NOT everyone else I live my life the way I want to I live my life for myself and God. If I had a girlfriend I would treat her 100 times better then all these pricks that get all the girls and cheat on them, and only care about fucking all the time. Relationships that are based on SEX and DISHONESTY are going to lead to nothing but heartache. The reason I havent ever had anything that I would consider a relationship is because most of the women I have met expect me to change., which I am not willing to do. they all want a guy who looks good. Which I will admit I do not. I weigh 240 lbs I am only 5' 10". so... any girl who looks at a guy by how he looks is not going to choose me. also I would rather not even have a girl if that is what she wants. I pray every day that eventually I will find a girl who likes me for what I am. I know that life will not be like this forever THAT is why I am still here. although I would rather not live through the shittyness of what life is to me right now. I know it will EVENTUALLY change. to answer you ameoba, I Do expect something when I die. And I wil tell you who I have to prove myself to. It is GOD. and although the so called "unknown forces" may be unknown there are forces higher than us. and if you dont believe in a higher power then maybe you should not be in the spirituality and philosophy forum. Also I was very pissed last night so anything I said that offended anyone I appologize and I normally do not feel the way I felt last night. I am bipolar. so... sometimes I just flip out.
anyway
c ya tjc1027
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 Re: life? [Re: tjc1027]
#725532 - 07/05/02 08:08 PM (21 years, 5 months ago) |
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tjc1027-
Bitches is grief.
When the pickin's are slim I usually opt for temporary celibacy rather than sexual gratification via some ignorant, feeble-minded, emotional wreck with a nice rack and a pretty smile. But, hey, that's just me. I'm guessing that if your mom is still bitching at you, then you must still be young... you'll find someone - just stay true to yourself.
Unfortunately, I have some bad news...
and if you dont believe in a higher power then maybe you should not be in the spirituality and philosophy forum.
Last time I checked, existentialism was under the philosophy section of most bookstores. I don't think a "higher power" is a prerequisite for spiritual maturity.
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Shroomalicious
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 Re: life? [Re: tjc1027]
#725756 - 07/06/02 12:01 AM (21 years, 5 months ago) |
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tjc1027 - In all honesty you COMPLETELY echo me from not so long ago. 100%.
Your problems are very real and very justified, but not unual. I don't think you are bipolar, your just a teen. A "normal" teen in that regard.
Trust me, things get better. You only have to meet ONE girl before everything changes. Also, I think that people can learn to be internally peaceful regradless of their external world. Perhaps you would have some success at this...if you wanna talk about absolutely anything shoot me an e-mail subdivisions@yahoo.com
My e-mail is named after a song I heard when I was very young that stopped me from commiting suicide, so "teen related angst" as they call it, is not unfamiliar to me  I may not know everything but hopefully I know something 
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