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onlynow
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Re: Family and Friends [Re: Syle]
#7212074 - 07/22/07 10:21 PM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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lol, i feel like i am the butt of some cosmic joke right now! what gives...
hey, just stating what i truly feel
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Syle
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Re: Family and Friends [Re: onlynow]
#7212124 - 07/22/07 10:36 PM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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lol, i feel like i am the butt of some cosmic joke right now! what gives...
hey, just stating what i truly feel
aren't we all!
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choongaloonga
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Re: Family and Friends [Re: Icelander]
#7212780 - 07/23/07 01:49 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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choongaloonga said: Mom's a mom,maybe it just seems Evil sometimes.(maybe just on saturdays or fridays.)But all she wants is all the best,I'm sure.
What makes you sure? Mothers sometimes kill their children. Does Mom still want only the best here?
Well,she 's alive,isn't she?So she couldn't be that bad.As for the moms that kill their children,they also don't think they are doing something evil,they are just scared and ignorant,so you must understand that too.I don't say that doesn't deserves a punishment or something,but it is not an evil act.
Hating your mother will only help you to become like her,Hate Brings More Hate and the circle never ends.So be smarter than that.Be a human being and forgive her because your life will be marked with things she did you wrong and you will never move on,instead you will become the trauma you carry.I hope you have the power to do that.
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MushroomTrip said: The people that we choose to spend time with are indeed special because we know why we want to be with them, we love each moment we have their company and can be the opener of incredible deep experiences. And living in that conscious experience with the one you love and shaping reality together is the most marvelous things that can happen to a human being.
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Re: Family and Friends [Re: Syle]
#7213108 - 07/23/07 07:45 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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casseopeia00 said: i'm too drunk to read lal that, but yay for all of the people in our lives!!!!
you are a detriment to this discussion and this section of the shroomery forums. you refuse to read or accept any advice anyone is giving you. and then you turn around and get defensive yourself...
either go away, or try to contribute in a constructive manner. not everyone in the world is out to get you, ya know? you have to trust people sometimes, or you will always be unhappy (yes, this is an assumption made off of nothing, but from the tone in your posts, you seem like a relatively negative soul).
what are you talking about?! I was being serious. Yay for the people in our lives. I don't think everyone is out to get me. Where do you and mushroomtrip come up with all this BS? You 2 need therapy.
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casseopeia00
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and you wonder why i reply with a negative tone...
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I don't wonder, I know.
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You already replied in a negative tone before she posted that. Telling others in this forum that they need therapy in such a manner is agansit the forum rules, and syle, speculating that others are "negative souls" has no place either.
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casseopeia00
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the only person i said something negative about was mushroomtrip b/c she's been insensitive this whole time. Everyone one else was understanding and offered great advice to me.
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MushroomTrip
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Again, I am not obliged to agree with you. It seems to me that this is what you're looking for and it's futile. If you consider that telling you to get over it and get on with your life, because it's only up to you whether you feel happy or not is a bad advice, then so be it, but stop trying to push me into feeling pity for you.
Now can we please get to the original subject?
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casseopeia00
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you've completely misunderstood anything that I've said to you in this thread, and i'm tired of trying to explain myself to a complete stranger...
so agreed, onto the original subject...
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Icelander
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casseopeia00 said: i know it sounds cheesy, but only time can heal these wounds. i'm allowed to be angry with my mom, regardless of what anyone else thinks. in time, i can learn to forgive her for what she's done but i'm not ready to. it's ok to be angry at something that's worth being angry at, IMO. it's not like i'm angry at everyone for what my mother did. i only feel anger towards her.
i saw my mother for the first time in 2 1/2 yrs last week. it was really uncomfortable, but i told her exactly what i thought of her and exactly how i felt. she cried and said she didn't mean it... blah blah blah. she hasn't changed any b/c i see the way she treats my younger brother. i don't think she realizes that she's being that way. she does it without knowing it. it's a really fucked up situation. i think when my dad left, she went nuts. she did everything to make sure she had complete control over her kids so we wouldn't leave her. she wouldn't let us have jobs or go out with friends and i think it's because she was lonely. i think it's fucked up to beat your kids for attention and steal their money so they can't leave or go out, but that was her way of letting us know that she wanted us around.
doesn't make it right. i'm still mad her. i'll get over it one day, just not today. probably not tomorrow, either. or the next day.
I agree. It's good to experience your true feelings about things. You will change things whenever you are really ready. Then the change will be a real one. Just be aware that you are making choices on how you will feel and these things do not necessarily have anything to do with what is real. They are just your feelings and they determine your experience.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Icelander
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choongaloonga said: Mom's a mom,maybe it just seems Evil sometimes.(maybe just on saturdays or fridays.)But all she wants is all the best,I'm sure.
What makes you sure? Mothers sometimes kill their children. Does Mom still want only the best here?
Well,she 's alive,isn't she?So she couldn't be that bad.As for the moms that kill their children,they also don't think they are doing something evil,they are just scared and ignorant,so you must understand that too.I don't say that doesn't deserves a punishment or something,but it is not an evil act.
Hating your mother will only help you to become like her,Hate Brings More Hate and the circle never ends.So be smarter than that.Be a human being and forgive her because your life will be marked with things she did you wrong and you will never move on,instead you will become the trauma you carry.I hope you have the power to do that.
Experiencing what you feel (skillful or unskillful) is a necessary step along any spiritual path. I agree that it is ignorance and fear that causes what is commonly called evil. But as part of a growth process it's OK IMO to call it that. Especially if you are calling the acts evil and not the person. To tell oneself that one shouldn't feel something is the height of folly IMO.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Family and Friends [Re: Syle]
#7213593 - 07/23/07 11:24 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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To whomever, Its better to know one's enemies One hasn't have to do something with them until one is ready. If it's unavoidable to be in contact with them, stop letting them hurt you, by all means and let them live their lifes, as like you wish them to let you live yours.
Choosing those to be together with is great, no questions
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Syle
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fireworks_god said: You already replied in a negative tone before she posted that. Telling others in this forum that they need therapy in such a manner is agansit the forum rules, and syle, speculating that others are "negative souls" has no place either.
true, i was out of line to say that. my emotions got a hold of me. i take back what i said and apologize to cas.
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