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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: Bridgeburner]
    #7199158 - 07/19/07 06:35 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

that was kind of harsh.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: LeftyBurnz]
    #7199201 - 07/19/07 06:44 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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that was kind of harsh.




just the sort of a man she needs :cool:


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7199249 - 07/19/07 06:51 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

sounds like she got a real man...and thats probably why she isn't interested in this guy anymore


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: Bridgeburner]
    #7199307 - 07/19/07 07:03 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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leftysurprise said:
that was kind of harsh.




just the sort of a man she needs :cool:




haha. yeah many of them do prefer a dickhead i suppose.... why is that?


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7199314 - 07/19/07 07:04 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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sounds like she got a real man...and thats probably why she isn't interested in this guy anymore




thats what i was thinking when i first read this the other day.... but i didnt want to be the one to say it.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7199327 - 07/19/07 07:07 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

yeah...sounds to me like shes enjoying herself some chocolate


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7199396 - 07/19/07 07:18 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

Judging from your sex life, it sounds like you've been married for quite some time now...... or wait, your just dating?

Unless you really love this chick, drop her ass

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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7199426 - 07/19/07 07:24 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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sounds like she got a real man...and thats probably why she isn't interested in this guy anymore




Yeah, she has one, and a damn good one from the posts I've read. Others would have kicked her out of the picture a loooong time ago. He's trying what a lot of guys don't even start with. Even if your opinion is that's he's fighting against wind mills, at least give him respect for his choice.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7199470 - 07/19/07 07:32 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

rofl....


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7199499 - 07/19/07 07:37 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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sounds like she got a real man...and thats probably why she isn't interested in this guy anymore




I'd bet money on it that this is the case.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7199511 - 07/19/07 07:40 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

i'm never wrong


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7199604 - 07/19/07 08:07 PM (16 years, 7 months ago)

Prozac IS a well-known sexual-inhibitor, so I wouldn't count that out ... at the same time, however, I can't imagine the medicine could COMPLETELY obliterate a sex-drive to the extent that it sounds like, and so that wouldn't be my first culprit ...

She MAY have found another guy ... very possible, but also very hard to figure out. You either call her out on it and piss her off (if it isn't the case) or you just sit in a state of paranoia about the possibility, slowly destroying any possibility of further attachment to one another. Either way, if this IS a concern of yours, I'd recommend facing it fast and asking her right away. The paranoia option is really not an option, it'll destroy you and the relationship in a horrible way ... relationships ARE based on trust, after all ...

That all being said, I think the most obvious and likely culprit is that she's just no longer interested in the relationship. This could go hand in hand with the "having found somebody else", or it could be the sole issue altogether. Having been the "nice guy" that you obviously appear to be (which is NOT a bad quality, and will benefit you later in life), I can tell you that it's unfortunate but true ... most [younger] girls are just looking for action and excitement and confidence, and the reason they go for "bad guys" is because these guys tend to have all three of these qualities.

It's not their badness specifically, but rather their alpha-male I-take-no-shit-from-nobody attitude which attracts the girls, who want a POWERFUL and confident, domineering male figure to be able to show off as their boyfriend and domineer even them, even (and maybe especially) when they say they don't want it. Whether he's smart or not, he EXCITES them, and even if he does stupid shit, he does it with confidence, and then he still goes home and confidently fucks his girl after all his stupid shit. She's following him because he APPEARS to be a leader, and she wants to be the queen next to the king ...

to sum it all up, my guess is really that she's just no longer interested. whatever the case, I'd directly address all the issues concerning you and avoid playing any games, even the game of "I won't do anything until she does it" ... because she won't ... girls usually wait for a guy to make moves, whether it's the first time their eyes met or late into the relationship ... she wants the guy to be a GUY, just to satisfy the image and contrast. so be assertive, whether you want to have sex or want to break up or just want to find out what's going on, be confident and forward and that will impress her and take her off guard, if that's not the kind of guy you usually are. that actually would be good. catching her off guard likely means that you will get all the information you really need to know out of her ... she won't be able to be devious if she feels on the spot in the presence of a real MAN.

honestly. and good luck.

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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: HB]
    #7201102 - 07/20/07 02:52 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

well i dont really know what to say about these last couple posts.

ok ok i get the cracks that im not being man enough for her or that she has found someone else whos more confident and all that bullshit.. wtf is wrong with you guys? is there like seriously no trust in the world?

this is exactly the kind of tom lykus mentality that totally fucks over relationships, causes paranoia and ill communication in a relationship.

i have no doubt in my mind that she is not cheating on me with someone else.. and if she were, it wouldnt affect me that much.. ive been down those roads before, and to be honest with you, a relationship is not the most important thing in my life... in fact, its pretty fucking low on the totem pole. fuck if she actually was cheating on me, it would probably be with another chick, which totally throws all your masculinity bullshit out the window anyways.

I will admit women like to be taken charge of from time to time, but to say that androgyny in a relationship is relegated by the whole macho superiority complex brute personality is a waste of time, and a waste of my time at that. shut the fuck up with that shit. jesus.

truthfully if thats what a woman wants all the time, then count me out mother fucker. I dont want to be that way, ill fuckin go homosexual before i play in your little masculinity games, that shits for douchebags who cant get a grasp on a decent personality that other people can actually respect, admire, and have love for. you know what we call them where i come from? Bros.. and you all look the same with your fuckin nice clean whitesox hats and rapper lookin gangster wanna be clothes, and your pimped out fuckin rides blastin fuckin eminem, or kfed of whatever the fucken shit you listen to.

I have no fuckin problem with the possibility that my girl might have lost interest for some reason.. if so ill work to rekindle that. but dont tell me act like a fucken douche bag.. this girl actually has a brain. save that shit for those skanky witches you wish you prowl upon and muster up the confidence to hit on at your little nightclubs.

stop wasting peoples time with that shit, i would like to think that people can actually learn something useful from my situation, not your little two bit attempts at comedy. give me a fucken break you losers

now if youll excuse me im covered in fucking fleas. thank you to the posts that actually had some content


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7201110 - 07/20/07 02:56 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

masturbate yourself into a happy state of mind.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7201266 - 07/20/07 05:16 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

nice post.

have you seen the movie "american beauty"?
has she seen it?
watch it together.
during the beginning,
where he beats off in the shower & says "this is the highlight of my day"
say outloud WOW MINE TOO!

then proceed to live your life just like he does.

god i love that movie. :yesnod:


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7201324 - 07/20/07 06:02 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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well i dont really know what to say about these last couple posts.

ok ok i get the cracks that im not being man enough for her or that she has found someone else whos more confident and all that bullshit.. wtf is wrong with you guys? is there like seriously no trust in the world?

this is exactly the kind of tom lykus mentality that totally fucks over relationships, causes paranoia and ill communication in a relationship.

i have no doubt in my mind that she is not cheating on me with someone else.. and if she were, it wouldnt affect me that much.. ive been down those roads before, and to be honest with you, a relationship is not the most important thing in my life... in fact, its pretty fucking low on the totem pole. fuck if she actually was cheating on me, it would probably be with another chick, which totally throws all your masculinity bullshit out the window anyways.

I will admit women like to be taken charge of from time to time, but to say that androgyny in a relationship is relegated by the whole macho superiority complex brute personality is a waste of time, and a waste of my time at that. shut the fuck up with that shit. jesus.

truthfully if thats what a woman wants all the time, then count me out mother fucker. I dont want to be that way, I just want my cock sucked from time to time. what the fuck is wrong with that? ill fuckin go homosexual before i play in your little masculinity games, that shits for douchebags who cant get a grasp on a decent personality that other people can actually respect, admire, and have love for. you know what we call them where i come from? Bros.. and you all look the same with your fuckin nice clean whitesox hats and rapper lookin gangster wanna be clothes, and your pimped out fuckin rides blastin fuckin eminem, or kfed of whatever the fucken shit you listen to.

I have no fuckin problem with the possibility that my girl might have lost interest for some reason.. if so ill work to rekindle that. but dont tell me act like a fucken douche bag.. this girl actually has a brain. save that shit for those skanky witches you wish you prowl upon and muster up the confidence to hit on at your little nightclubs.

stop wasting peoples time with that shit, i would like to think that people can actually learn something useful from my situation, not your little two bit attempts at comedy. give me a fucken break you losers

now if youll excuse me im covered in fucking fleas. thank you to the posts that actually had some content




That (the text bolded in red) became extremely apparent after reading the full content of this reply, you didn't even have to say it. Sounds like you've caught your fair share of bullshit with women in the past. :crazy: I hope shit with this one works out for you dude.


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7201438 - 07/20/07 07:22 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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i'm never wrong




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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: BIGSWANG]
    #7201642 - 07/20/07 08:51 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

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sounds like you've got superpowers and/or clairvoyance and telepathy skills. have you tried to use them for evil?


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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7201687 - 07/20/07 09:06 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

if you were replying to me, you may have misinterpreted my post. I didn't mention that you shouldn't be yourself, or that you should try to be some macho guy that you're not, but you're allowing her too much room to do what she wants ... you're a MAN, at the very least a PERSON and you need to stand up for the fact that sex is naturally a part of a relationship and something needs to be done about it! Giving her room to do her thing while you sit around and wait to see what happens is highly commendable and honorable, but NOT going to fix the situation. This is called "walking on eggshells" and it destroys relationships. She almost certainly isn't going to one day wake up and say "honey, let's fuck!" and be all into it, if she has zero sex drive now.

There's definitely a specific reason she's not horny, and I'd take into consideration that, with all due respect and no offense intended whatsoever, people on anti-depressants are on them for a REASON ... I mean, that's why they take them, to fix mental upset. She may just be confused in her own head about the relationship, about her happinesses, her dissatisfactions, her confusion about things ... it may have nothing to do with you directly, but you ARE still a figure in the equation since you are both in a relationship, and so, what I meant by my last post, was that you should stand up for yourself! If you aren't satisfied, speak up, and don't sit around and wait. Your post clearly showed that you actually do care about her, to a GREAT extent, and that at heart you're a real gentleman where it counts. I have to unfortunately say that although it's commendable, again, it's not benefiting the current situation. I just really think you need to speak up and get to the source ... she's obviously confused and needs guidance, not more passive behavior. Light a fire, at least you'll see what's going on.

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Re: no more sex for me and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
    #7201887 - 07/20/07 10:11 AM (16 years, 7 months ago)

You are way out of line for attacking HB for his well thought out post that he put some time into to help you. This post is gonna be a little harsh but you need to hear it bro, I have been in your exact same shoes before.

I completely agree with everything HB said. Mick I totally understand your viewpoint here because you sound just like me when I was younger. I was different, I wasn't a macho guy, I didn't want to be one. Those are the assholes. I'm different, I'm nice, one day a girl will appreciate the good ways in which I'm different. Well sorry bud but they won't. No matter what a girl even thinks in her own mind, at some level she needs a guy with confidence. Someone who will fit the stereotype of a MAN in some way. This doesn't mean you have to be an asshole macho prick and start watching football and hitting your girlfriend, but it does mean you need to build a little backbone or GIRLS WILL CONTINUE LOSING INTEREST IN YOU AND LOOKING FOR A REAL MAN. You can be a man and still be different and caring and not an asshole, but you can't be the sort of pathetic guy who will hold onto a completely broken relationship and a girl who doesn't even WANT YOU.

This girl has lost interest in you. She is not interested in having sex with YOU.

You are way too attached to this girl. You can't see the big picture or see what is actually happening. You staying with her right now is MAKING HER EVEN LESS INTERESTED IN YOU. A man with some self respect and confidence would have left this girl by now. If you stand up for yourself by dumping her, she will instantly become more attracted to you once she has seen you have grown a pair of balls.

But no you are too attached. You love her. You can fix her! You can't leave her now, she needs your help! What if I can't find another girl? We've shared so many special times. I can't leave her just because of this, that isn't fair! I'd be an asshole to dump her just because of this, when she is such a special girl! <---- This is the kind of attitude a girl wants in her puppy, not her boyfriend.

Sorry my friend but you need to wake up to reality here. I am still adjusting to trying to become more of a real man, but I realized I needed to do it.

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