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darklcd
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: CherryBom]
#7136423 - 07/06/07 08:49 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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C'mon don't you randomly key cars every Wednesday like I do?
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trendal
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7136440 - 07/06/07 08:52 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said: Ok...bad scenario.
Let's say you loan someone money. They say they'll pay you back but never do. Wouldn't that get you pissed off? It would piss me off and I would have to do something about it.
I'd be pissed at myself for lending a shady person money 
Live and learn! Don't lend that person money again
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CherryBom
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7136447 - 07/06/07 08:54 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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That is your choice to be mad.
Getting mad isn't going to get your money back...which is the operative here. Getting mad is just going to put dickhole on the defensive and you're going to be even less likely to get your money back.
The right thing to do would be to take thier ass to court with legitimate evidence and sue thier pants off and get your money back. Now the problem is solved.
Getting mad doesn't solve anything....action does.
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: CherryBom]
#7136452 - 07/06/07 08:55 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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Getting mad doesn't solve anything....action does.
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: ZippoZ]
#7136464 - 07/06/07 08:58 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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i've definately got buttons that can be pushed..
it's pretty rare that I get really angry about anything.. emotions like that come in ever-escalating waves, and it is a matter of knowing myself and controlling how far along i'll let myself go... but, sometimes someone will just keep on testing me after i've given ample notice that i'm done laughing it off..
I've been in a few fights because of people like that over the years.. it hasn't really turned out well for the receiver.. but, luckily, I don't really associate with people like that any more...
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RandalFlagg
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: CherryBom]
#7136470 - 07/06/07 08:59 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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Getting mad pumps you up to take action:
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: Booby]
#7136479 - 07/06/07 09:01 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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Booby said: It's different with women tho, right? because their emotions get the best of them?
Maybe it's because I was raised by three women, but my emotions always get the best of me. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and it definitely works against me sometimes.
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: ZippoZ]
#7136487 - 07/06/07 09:03 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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About to go to bed (yay graveyard shift) so I didn't read the replies but to me, getting angry due to something someone else said or did is to completely surrender control to that person. I deal with crazy/angry people all the time at my job and even if they're literally screaming obscenities at me, I don't get fazed. I actually have to be careful about making sure I don't laugh at them. It's great fun to kill them with kindness.
Now if someone was physically attacking me that'd be a bit different probably, but really I suck at holding grudges or staying mad long.
Also I think two of the biggest things that make people angry are confusion and fear. 
peace out, nappy time.
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CherryBom
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: Yoschie99]
#7136491 - 07/06/07 09:04 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yoschie99 said: it's pretty rare that I get really angry about anything.. emotions like that come in ever-escalating waves, and it is a matter of knowing myself and controlling how far along i'll let myself go... yos-
See this is a good point too. As the situation escalates, you get more and more angry...so don't let it escalate. Take control. If you can take control of a situation and neutralize it, you can do the same with your anger and come out on top.
Booya.
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Re: So Can Someone Make you get mad?? [Re: CherryBom]
#7136632 - 07/06/07 09:42 AM (16 years, 7 months ago) |
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I rarely get mad. Just lost my wallet with 120 bills in it + ID, but I'm not angry. I am fine with it, and I'm moving on. I haven't gotten mad in 5 years; the most is only varying degrees of fustration and confusion. Perhaps anger is a combination of the two?
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