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 Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis!  [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7040794 - 06/13/07 04:37 AM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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MyInnerChild said:
So many things "clicked" between us. It's funny that one of those things was us both being Canadian, (eh?).
Christ on a crack binge! She wants to fuck Toadie!!!!
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7040812 - 06/13/07 04:52 AM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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soul mate? ...... nehhhhh not on the internet anyways...... you can find a soul mate in many places... the internet are words...
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#7041045 - 06/13/07 07:23 AM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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you're definitely right. i've only ever been in two relationships.
although he was good, damn good. i actually think you might know who it is. but i'm not gonna say anything here.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
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ahem....What about your husband? How would he feel about all of this?
P.S. If you need to just get drilled then fly down and hang out with me. I love MILF's.
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 Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: Wysefool]
#7042714 - 06/13/07 04:06 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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good guess, but no.
Sheepish and i aren't 'dating' we just love each other.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7042793 - 06/13/07 04:27 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Interesting story...
I guess you did what you needed to do. I hope you don't leave though; I finally like you.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7042914 - 06/13/07 04:58 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea dont leave that would just suck. 
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#7043207 - 06/13/07 06:40 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks for the kudos. I try to be a supportive informative friend and I feel that because of that these good vibes surround me right back just when I need it...!
The whole thing started during the tension-filled time before I started my ADD medication. I was full of anxiety over what would happen....I heard about hands shaking, ticks etc. but since I don't have any of the disorders that often accompany ADD ie: depression, bi-polar, paranoia, or schizophrenia I knew it would be a mild dose but I was still on edge. Parenthetically, I told the shrink: "I'm not paranoid. When I think people are talking about me...they really are!". He laughed.
Okay, so both my husband and I thought I was engaging in a little diversion in the chat room. I wrote something provocative and asked if anyone would pm me for details. My Canadian (from B.C.) friend was the only one bold enough to take me up on it. Vive Les Canadiennes! I figured I'd give some nice young man some insights into the female psyche etc. and leave it at that. His future wife would thank me later...Then it happened....
He turned out to have a lot of similar interests to mine, always "spoke" kindly using terms that were supportive, well thought out and seeing more than one side to the issues we discussed. We are both sensuous, meaning cuddly, into camping and non addictive drugs. We both believe that we have a soul. All this came with humour and warmth mixed in. What female with a brain and a heart wouldn't go for that?
I was vulnerable and felt understood. I was curious and felt my adventure expanding...till it got to the point where I thought about him during the day, pictured meeting him and both being shy, it was overwhelming. I spent too much time late at night on the stupid computer and my husband, rightly so, took issue with it at that point.
I tried to end it but there were misunderstandings and hurt feelings back and forth.
Finally I asked to "speak" to him at a specific time and not just when we both happened to be on line. I thanked him for the quality enjoyable time we spent together, and yes, if well worded writing delivers vibes from honest like-minded individuals a person can discover a soul mate that way. One can have more than one and I recommend only following through with one at a time...less complicated, less painful all around that way.
We ended on a note of understanding. I apologized for teasing. I didn't want to hurt anyone and said that I saw that I was digging a hole for myself to fall into and creating a potential dead end for both of us. After all, when he'll be my age I'll be double that!
What I gained was a friend...even if I never "speak" to him again...some elevated self esteem as he appreciated my positive points and liked me even with my negative points, I had a feeling of adventure/discovery and I felt beautiful.
The medication is working...first I was only speeding, feeling anxious and a dry mouth. Sort of like the way up on a mushroom trip. Now I feel effective, more confident and I forgive myself for all those times I felt ineffectual, limited and clueless in the past much of which was due to my "disorder". If only I hadn't effected others in negative ways all that time...ah well...let's take it from here shall we?
Now the question remains....when I'm "down" from my dose...
Am I returning to normal...or abnormal? LOL!!!
UR the Bestest Bunch of Freaks I ever virtually met and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
virtual hugs and kisses all around...xxxooo MIC
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7044212 - 06/13/07 11:10 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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I thanked him for the quality enjoyable time we spent together, and yes, if well worded writing delivers vibes from honest like-minded individuals a person can discover a soul mate that way. One can have more than one and I recommend only following through with one at a time...less complicated, less painful all around that way.
I feel you there sister.
I too believe that we can have more than one soul-mate.
I believe that we can have MANY soul-mates, we are just searching for the one that best complements us, as we are now. I also believe we can have soul-mates of the same sex......friends who's friendship comes instantly.......like you knew them before.....yet you know that you've never met, not in this life anyway. Those instant friends are soul-mates to, a soul that you had a close relationship in a past life, who came to you in this life to help you.
My wife and I seem to be growing apart, rather than together. Divorce scares the SHIT out of me, but I'm truly not happy living with my wife. I think she may have ADD also and sent you a PM about it. If she DOES have ADD then there may be hope for our marriage........if not, then I may have to go seeking another soul-mate.
I'm not a big believer in coincidence, but I believe.....no I KNOW.....that I have found another soul-mate, who is in the same predicament as I am. I have known her for years, and have always gotten a different vibe from her.
I get butterflies in my tummy when I get near her.
Here within the last 2-3 weeks we have been talking (IM'ing) more and actually met over at a friends house after not seeing her for almost 4 years.......still got butterflies. After knowing her for over 10 years.........I still get butterflies in my tummy when I'm near her.
Maybe she is the one for me. I could easily see myself married to her.
Maybe my current marriage is meant to die, and I'm to meet up with my new soul-mate.
Only time will tell
 
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7045832 - 06/14/07 12:08 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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So, you want sex right?
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7045902 - 06/14/07 12:25 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't understand how a romance can be formed over the internet. No offense to anyone who met their love online, I just can't see falling "in love" with someone I meet through just words on a screen. I need that spark that nite owl talked about. That unexplainable attraction you feel when you are near them, and just know in your gut something is special. I don't think I could experience that this way. I can make friends online, but when it comes to romance, I just don't see how that is possible. For me.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: DrCamacho89]
#7045935 - 06/14/07 12:35 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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The internet was invented for people who don't have lives.
Hence my eleven thousand posts.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7046514 - 06/14/07 03:05 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
The internet was invented for people who don't have lives.
Hence my eleven thousand posts.
It's closer to 12000, no-life.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7047397 - 06/14/07 07:33 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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I just want to share the type of "verbal" exchange we had. My ADD makes it hard for me to make myself understood to others not just the more typical symptom of not understanding/grasping what is being communicated by someone else....so when I find someone who's intellectual enough to satisfy my wants there, yet freaky enough to "get" some of the slightly off-beat ideas and thoughts from my mind, I can't help but feel a connection to a person like that.
Here's one of my favorite examples but there were lots. Please note that I have 'fun' exchanges with my ADD husband too...though I 'get' his humour more often that he 'gets' mine. (Kind of Monty Python meets B. Kliban)
Okay, with that said, here it is...
My friend D.S. asked: What are U wearing?
MIC: A bathrobe
D.S.: Aw, disappointing
MIC: Do you want me to lie to you?
D.S.: No
MIC: You'll find me very direct and honest
D.S.: What if I reach over and
D.S.: untie the robe?
MIC: You'll find a nightgown HAAAaaaaa (He divided it up to tease...cute ploy...works!)
he actually asked to see a pic of me but specified that he didn't mean undressed, that he just wanted to see who he was "speaking to". I said a head n'shoulders shot would be all I would send but that I couldn't because it didn't sit right with me. He expressed disappointment but said he understood under the circumstances. Is that a mature understanding response or what?
MIC: If we ever met, it would have to be in public.
MIC: I don't think you're an axe murderer or anything lol
D.S. Maybe you're an ax murderer jj just joking (He always wrote his short forms out for me knowing I'm new at this..very thoughtful)
MIC: Maybe I'm a stalker
MIC: or a guy! lol
D.S. I don't think you're a guy
MIC: I menstruate and I breast fed my children
D.S. uh, that's enough of that
MIC: I use all the correct words for things...I say penis, not cock
D.S.: Too bad...I have cock pics to show you
MIC: No thanks
D.S.: I own a rooster, get your head out of the gutter mam
MIC: You got me that time!
The way he delivered his writing was as important as what he said...it showed he is a creative thinker. He thought about what he wanted to say before blurting stuff out. He only used 'off colour' language to underline a point. He didn't use it all the time. I appreciate that too. He knows what patchouli oil is...so cool...even corrected my spelling on it...I left out the 't'. I enjoyed an exchange with someone who knew what je mapelle, cesque cest?, and je nes ces quoi mean. I've lived in the States for 2 decades now. I LIKE talking to someone who knows the city I came from. (He lived there a while). He was honest about his "flaws" which became his positive points in my mind b/c he was willing to admit to them, willing to admit he was nervous about stuff and last but not least to prove he's the "prefect" guy....
He puts the toilet seat down!!! Whatta guy! LOL.
I laughed, I cried, I got angry, I apologized. We went through real "courting" in but a few days of exchanges, sometimes provocative, always honest. I miss him. I wish him a great life as he's aiming towards one already and I told him I'd love to attend his wedding whenever it happens just to tell his wife in the nicest way, how jealous I am of her!  He said I'm invited whenever it happens...
Even if I won't ever see him I told him that my good vibes will be "there" for him...warming his heart just as he needs it most at any stage in life that he needs it. I'm dramatic, I'm romantic, I'm silly etc....but I still feel it wasn't just a game but rather that we gained something from each other without having done damage. Only because we stopped it when we did.
Life goes on....
Good night one and all...MIC
Edited by MyInnerChild (06/14/07 07:37 PM)
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7047419 - 06/14/07 07:40 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like a dude trying to get a married woman to send him naked pictures over the internet.
Cute, though. Good night. Turn off your computer and go cuddle with your husband, will ya?
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7047421 - 06/14/07 07:41 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Not trying to be mean, but that guy has you hook-line-sinker.
If you were my sister I would have to tell you to get the hell away from this guy 'cause it sounds like he's playing you like an X-box.
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7047491 - 06/14/07 07:58 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dark_Star?
I love him too haha
MIC: I menstruate and I breast fed my children
D.S. uh, that's enough of that
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7047507 - 06/14/07 08:02 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oops I'm wrong... I just figured it out.
Hey where has Dark_Star been anyway?
EDIT: Oh there he is
Edited by WhiskeyClone (06/14/07 08:40 PM)
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7048172 - 06/14/07 11:55 PM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're all very sweet for being concerned and putting it into perspective. I'm fully aware that D.S. is a healthy red-blooded Canadian boy with jump'in hormones just like the rest of you...my point was that he was both honest and a gentleman about it. A rare find these days, and very appealing to chicks of quality y'all should know, so polish up those fine points and see what it get's ya!
I've made a deal with my husband...regardless of if we're going for a roll in the hay as they (used to) say, I need a hug every day...I NEED hugs or something inside me dries up! He's being very agreeable...I think he's grateful for my cooperation in getting on the focus stuff...Aderall it's called.
For a comprehensive user friendly book on ADD read driven to distraction by Edward M. Hallowell or go to his website drhaollowell.com and the best of everything to you!
P.S. Whiskey: Dark Star is a great site name...you got it wrong again though..lol He doesn't frequent this part of the site...
I prefer Not Fade Away...very powerful music, very cool lyrics...
The Dead in 72'-'73 were wail'in man....for real! I was just a little kid then. Never saw them live like me mate did...just as well, I probably wouldn't have been a virgin when I got married.
Dr. C. you need the love of a good woman sir...she's out there somewhere...
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink, say no more!-Monty Python.
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Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in
Edited by MyInnerChild (06/15/07 12:46 PM)
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Re: Alice Cooper said: Welcome to my nightmare...I say: Welcome to my mid-life crisis! [Re: MyInnerChild]
#7048208 - 06/15/07 12:06 AM (17 years, 3 months ago) |
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MyInnerChild said:
You're all very sweet for being concerned and putting it into perspective. I'm fully aware that D.S. is a healthy red-blooded Canadian boy with jump'in hormones just like the rest of you...my point was that he was both honest and a gentleman about it. A rare find these days, and very appealing to chicks of quality y'all should know, so polish up those fine points and see what it get's ya!
Sorry, if you want us to buy that BS, you shouldn't have posted your conversations. I am glad for him that his lines have had an effect on you, but A. I tend to save my A game for flesh and blood woman, not for 0's and 1's on a computer screen. and B. he's trying to scam you to send him naked pics and he is doing so in an "honest" and "gentlemen-like way". That's how we should learn to woo women? I think I'll buy Dr. Phil's next book while brushing up on DS' Art of Online Seduction 101.
This is a really odd thread. I like it.  Did you two have cybersex? Be honest now. And if so, you know you have to post it.
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