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enotake2
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I feel crap
#6990237 - 05/31/07 05:12 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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I just spoke to my ex for probably the last time. I feel crap because he wasn't very nice to me. I think the reason is because of this mutual friend we had who has been saying things about me behind my back since we stopped being friends. She has said something to a work colleage that is so big that he won't even acknowledge me anymore. I have no idea what it was but she is obviously pretty clever because I am a really benign person. Her brother told me of some outright and pretty damning lies she told her parents. I don't know what she has told my ex. He has only initiated contact with me once since we have broken up and a couple of time he has spoken to me with contempt. Because of other stuff this girl has done, I feel paranoid at what she might have said to my ex. I feel really sad that he would think badly of me, because we had a good relationship for 4 years that ended mutually. I worry that if she could convince my work colleage so well of something that he would ignore me, she might be able to do the same with my ex. It defies me what she could say to him. I can't imagine what someone would have to say to me to make me ignore someone, I have no idea. I think she must have made up some evidence. Anyway, I just wanted to vent.
I have tried to tell him not to trust stuff she says about me. I trusted most of what she said til we stopped being friends and uncovered a lot of lies about other people and me. I guess that is all I can do?
-------------------- Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music. "Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium "My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.
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browndustin
dustybuddy

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Re: I feel crap [Re: enotake2]
#6990242 - 05/31/07 05:19 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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If I wasn't DEAD tired from my 10 hour shift at the rock quarry... I'd say something a little more insightful.
But don't feel bad, man. Hopefully this quick little post helps somewhat, I noticed that I'm the first person to read it sooo... 
It's always reassuring to know that someone's out there. Whenever I have a serious anxiety attack or something, I visit the Shroomery till the clouds subside. The Shroomery makes everything better!
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makaveli8x8
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first go up to these peeps and ask what the fuck the hoe said.
then go up to da bitch and slap a hoe, tell her to keep her shit closed or you'll shove a playtex down her throat.
its simple really.
ask these peeps what it is she said and then ask them why they didn't confront you to find out if its true.....
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StickyWater
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Edited by StickyWater (04/29/08 12:53 PM)
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ChiefGreenLeaf

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Re: I feel crap [Re: enotake2]
#6993955 - 05/31/07 11:11 PM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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Don't worry, time heals all wounds. some wounds just take longer then others.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: I feel crap [Re: enotake2]
#6995607 - 06/01/07 01:11 PM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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No reason to feel crap. The reason I'm telling you this is because I used to feel really bad when these things were happening to me. Until I realized that I could spend that time enjoying life. Sure, you feel bad about it, but it's your choice to stop feeling bad, and it is easier then it looks. Your mutual friend obviously sucks and you should just avoid her company, and now, as for your ex... have you ever thought that maybe it's for the best? Now you obviously know who he is and what (pardon me saying) a shit instead of brain he has. A person (anybody) who just believes gossips and the like are to be avoided in the first place. So consider that this mutual "friend" did you a favor. Because even if she'll start spreading words about you, you'll only rid people that should never been around you in the first place .
And besides all that, the guy was your ex. Time to move on . Forget all about ex-partner ex-anything. There is a reason why this have this prefix, right? Move on and enjoy life, meet new people, go for walks and relax. Life can be so wonderful what you stop taking things so serious.
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FreakQlibrium
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Re: I feel crap [Re: enotake2]
#6999148 - 06/02/07 09:40 AM (16 years, 8 months ago) |
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Glad i came in! I think mushroom trip gave some pretty good advice I got the hat The grey bits are fine and i 3> the purple and black colour scheme! Thanks again
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