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 what's ur thought on casual sex???? 
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ok so u know we all have casual sex nowadays....well most all. i was talkin to some today about fakin it...and (this is a guy of course) of course u guys hate that right?? well i asked him this would u wrather have no reaction?? or u know...what u dont know wont hurt u. he said he would want to know so he could fix the problem and get better which yea is tru but this lead me to this thought....
this is just my opinion: if its just casual sex then is it really worth spendin the time to teach each other or one of the two, what does it for u?? i would think that if u take the time to teach or learn what each other likes and dislikes wouldnt that be more leaning twrd a relationship feel??? i mean i would think if u were to have casual sex with someone wouldnt that be just it just sex?? and if they do it right u go back and if they dont well then u move on, the reason for casual sex is b/c u dont want a g/f or b/f at the time but everyone has needs ya kno?? or is casual sex just wrong altogether?? i mean i could be completely off on this topic but like i said, this is just my opinion....id like to know what ya'll think about it.
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 Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918032 - 05/14/07 11:43 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm pro casual sex, and against faking it. Constructive criticism means you'll end up with an overall better sex life.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918034 - 05/14/07 11:44 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Rumor has it you're a puppet 
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: AlCapwn]
#6918040 - 05/14/07 11:45 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I just don't like that STD, that starts with a K....
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Brainiac]
#6918044 - 05/14/07 11:46 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well then make sure you stop dating hookers.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: AlCapwn]
#6918049 - 05/14/07 11:46 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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as in Kids
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918055 - 05/14/07 11:49 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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In general I'm for casual sex, but it has always led to something more, and there's only been one time I've been okay with that
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Brainiac]
#6918080 - 05/14/07 11:54 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Good one Brainiac! You're SO right for where you're at in life. Don't get "clapped" with that one...LOL
Committed safe sex w/o head trips like: What did she mean by that? Is she really hinting that she wants a commitment? etc. is such a freedom man! It's much easier to just let go and enjoy when you have no fears and mental baggage attached.
I never have to worry. I've got a good relationship with my honey and yes we still experiment. I thought after a bunch of years the best happened already but not so. The past two years, year 21 ans 22 of our marriage has had the best sex yet.
I just make sure to stay in shape (pear shaped is a shape right lol) and be looking to make him happy. Sometimes we're even spontaneous in the aft. if we're able. Is that casual? Ha!
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 Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918097 - 05/14/07 11:58 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Rumor has it you're a puppet
and where is that commin from?? lol a puppet i aint nobody's puppet   so whos puppet am i supposed to be??
enthuse me some more after u drug me along for nothing today
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918100 - 05/14/07 11:59 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ask Gumby, not me.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918117 - 05/15/07 12:03 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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well i just like them to be good at it already i dont like havin to teach b/c then i feel like im hurtin their pride as a man u kno how that male pride thing goes....their always the best at what they do ya kno what i mean lol 9x out of ten everytime a guy says he can eat some good pussy he cant  and that sux ive gotten good head one time to where i actually climaxed
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918122 - 05/15/07 12:04 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I like sex.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6918131 - 05/15/07 12:06 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I like money, too.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6918136 - 05/15/07 12:08 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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im down with teh casual sex...never participated though. But im down.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Tangerines]
#6918154 - 05/15/07 12:13 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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u've never had casual sex?? not once?? just have sex wit someone b/c u both wanted it??? im not talkin about anybody just walkin down the street but like friend girls that uve known and u both have attraction but dont want the strings and ties of a relationship???
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918161 - 05/15/07 12:15 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I haven't 
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918178 - 05/15/07 12:19 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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i think i need more of it in my life
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: adasafa]
#6918188 - 05/15/07 12:22 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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as I said I havent. It'll come I'm sure. I can't relate to alot of the girls here its hard to find ones I can so in turn I do not have alot of girls as friends.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918194 - 05/15/07 12:23 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't think it's about direct teaching it's about experience.. You do your learning in relationships..
So faking on a one night stand is a bad thing,, if you have to fake maybe you shouldn't be in that situation..
Casual sex is ok in the right hands..
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918200 - 05/15/07 12:24 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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u havent had casual sex either?? well thats pretty cool for both of u being ur both men and u kno most guys only have casual sex.
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918203 - 05/15/07 12:26 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I mean its not by choice.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918217 - 05/15/07 12:31 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
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u kno most guys only have casual sex.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918220 - 05/15/07 12:32 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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In fact, I haven't had any kind of sex.
Abstinence FTW!
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918225 - 05/15/07 12:36 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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u lie!!!! j/k i dont know if u have or not but if its by choice then more power to ya
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918226 - 05/15/07 12:36 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I would just like to say fantaslndvictm, that I enjoy casual sex. My wife and I do it almost every day.
Little sex here, casual sex there, little casual sex everywhere, ol' Mc Snypa had a farm. E I E I O
And on my farm I had some ...kids. E I E I O
Little kid here, another kid there, eventually kids everywhere, Ol' Mc Snypa had a farm. E I E I O
I have two boys. one is almost three years old and the other is 6 months old. Best damn thing that has ever happened to me.
Oh wiiifffeeeee!  sexytime!
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918236 - 05/15/07 12:38 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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It's not by choice or by not choice really.
But of course I'm not lying, who would lie about being a virgin?
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918238 - 05/15/07 12:39 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol...sorry
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Snypa187]
#6918245 - 05/15/07 12:40 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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What are you apologizing for?
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918252 - 05/15/07 12:41 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Not making fun of you or anything, just thought it was funny. "not by choice"
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Snypa187]
#6918258 - 05/15/07 12:43 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Oh.
I meant I ain't exactly a ladies man. But at the same time I don't really care. If I did I would go do something about it.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918264 - 05/15/07 12:44 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ha ha my wife was just doing an impression of "the ladies man" from SNL.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Snypa187]
#6918266 - 05/15/07 12:45 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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haha
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918268 - 05/15/07 12:46 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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goodnight man. see ya in the mornin'.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Snypa187]
#6918272 - 05/15/07 12:47 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Peace out
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: jewunit]
#6918292 - 05/15/07 12:50 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I think if two people know each other well, are friends, and respect each other, then it is ok to have sex, I do not think LOVE must be necessary. In english we refer to infatuation, obsession, but there are MANY kinds of LOVE, in french there are 50 ways to say love... in asian languages, different inflections and intonations...
anyways, I would be ok with a woman and I having relations and fun if we both liked each other and respected each other and wanted to make each other feel good, but not necessarily in love or obsessed with each other, perhaps we had alot of other things going in, right now I would prefer respect AND love, at least enough to have a steady relationshio.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Snypa187]
#6918293 - 05/15/07 12:50 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I would just like to say fantaslndvictm, that I enjoy casual sex. My wife and I do it almost every day.
Little sex here, casual sex there, little casual sex everywhere, ol' Mc Snypa had a farm. E I E I O
And on my farm I had some ...kids. E I E I O
Little kid here, another kid there, eventually kids everywhere, Ol' Mc Snypa had a farm. E I E I O
I have two boys. one is almost three years old and the other is 6 months old. Best damn thing that has ever happened to me.
Oh wiiifffeeeee! sexytime!
well congrats that post made me happy....sounds like ur blessed ur a lucky one +5 for u but i think i rated u already
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: WildLASER]
#6918298 - 05/15/07 12:51 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Eventually I do plan on having children, I would do this with strong intent and energies focused into her/ each other, not just "accidentally"
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: WildLASER]
#6918317 - 05/15/07 12:58 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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oh i feel the same i wouldnt want a kid by accident i would want it with someone i love. ive only loved one person still do and always will life and situations makes things so hard for us though oh well the trouble times will be over soon.
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"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: WildLASER]
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I have only had 2 serious girlfriends in my day. 1 lasting 4 years, the other 1 year. Besides those two, I have had nothing but casual sex. One night stands, casual dating, and the rare but beautiful fuck buddy. I have only had two of those in my day too, but one lasted for over a year.
She lived around the corner from me when I lived in Queens and we used to call each other on the way home from work to let off some stress. Her best friend was my roommate, and she never wanted her to know, so I always had to sneak her in when we were at my place. We taught each other a lot since we experimented a lot. No emotions EVER crept in, unlike my college FB experience. It was a beautiful thing. Last thing I heard, she was engaged. HA She had a boyfriend half the time I was messing with her. It wasn't until I got a girlfriend did I cut off contact with her completely. God bless her. She was a trooper. The only woman I have ever known who literally treats sex like a man does.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6918367 - 05/15/07 01:19 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I think casual sex is an oxymoron.
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6918655 - 05/15/07 04:08 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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ok so u know we all have casual sex nowadays....well most all. i was talkin to some today about fakin it...and (this is a guy of course) of course u guys hate that right?? well i asked him this would u wrather have no reaction?? or u know...what u dont know wont hurt u. he said he would want to know so he could fix the problem and get better which yea is tru but this lead me to this thought....
this is just my opinion: if its just casual sex then is it really worth spendin the time to teach each other or one of the two, what does it for u?? i would think that if u take the time to teach or learn what each other likes and dislikes wouldnt that be more leaning twrd a relationship feel??? i mean i would think if u were to have casual sex with someone wouldnt that be just it just sex?? and if they do it right u go back and if they dont well then u move on, the reason for casual sex is b/c u dont want a g/f or b/f at the time but everyone has needs ya kno?? or is casual sex just wrong altogether?? i mean i could be completely off on this topic but like i said, this is just my opinion....id like to know what ya'll think about it.
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i have nothing against casual sex, even though i've only ever had 3 partners and they were all very close to me(2 very long term relationships and the other was my best friend since elementary school, lol). i'm not sure that i would ever engage in the whole bar scene one night stand thing, it's just not really appealing to me... but if i were not in a relationship i could possibly see myself having a friend with benefits kind of situation. i guess i prefer to have some type of connection with the person.
and i would never 'fake it'. either in a relationship or casual, you should be able tell your partner what feels good. everyone is an individual, we all have our own likes and dislikes. something that works for some girls may not work for me... what's the point in fucking if it doesnt feel good for you?
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Uleev
Feel Like aStranger
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It has always lead to a relationship. But maybe that means I'm doing something right....
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"This is all a dream we dreamed one afternoon long ago."
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fantasylndvictm
yup
Registered: 03/19/07
Posts: 2,388
Loc: usa
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6920246 - 05/15/07 02:29 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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i love fukk buddies and i had one that lasted for 2yrs and no feelins got invovled i mean close companion ship but not like a ralationship. id rather have a fukk buddy than a b/f
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"How do we know whether the life of any creature has fulfilled its destiny? I have known the very old to die in bitterness and despair. I have seen young children die before their time but leave behind such a legacy of love and joy that grief for their passing was tempered by the knowledge that their brief lives had given much to others."
"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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blood4blood
Calmer Than You Are
Registered: 04/25/07
Posts: 6,029
Loc: The Valley
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6920267 - 05/15/07 02:34 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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i have it all the time now that i found out my wife cheated on me for over a year while she was in iraq
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trendal
J♠
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Loc: Ontario, Canada 
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6920268 - 05/15/07 02:34 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I say let everyone do what they will...
That being said, I'm not one to engage in casual sex. I like to get to know my women first, and don't like to have sex outside of a relationship.
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fantasylndvictm
yup
Registered: 03/19/07
Posts: 2,388
Loc: usa
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: trendal]
#6920300 - 05/15/07 02:42 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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god i wish i could find guys like u round here....but then again relationships hole me back
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"How do we know whether the life of any creature has fulfilled its destiny? I have known the very old to die in bitterness and despair. I have seen young children die before their time but leave behind such a legacy of love and joy that grief for their passing was tempered by the knowledge that their brief lives had given much to others."
"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Aninator
Flashtique
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Loc: Philadlephia, PA
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: trendal]
#6920316 - 05/15/07 02:46 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I personally hate casual sex. mostly becuase whenever i have had casual sex i didn't want it to be casual. but it was for the other person. So i guess i have this bitter thing towards casual sex. i just wish players would play each other instead of playing others.
For me casual sex just isn't fulfilling. mostly beucase i've never orgasmed from sex. and i feel used.
I think i'm gonna be a nun.
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trendal
J♠
Registered: 04/17/01
Posts: 20,815
Loc: Ontario, Canada
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6920320 - 05/15/07 02:48 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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There's a few of us around anywhere...my personality type is about 1% of the general population, so you just have to look harder 
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trendal
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Loc: Ontario, Canada
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Aninator]
#6920330 - 05/15/07 02:49 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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mostly beucase i've never orgasmed from sex.
Well then someone needs to tie you to a bed and get to work
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bluedolphin
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6920498 - 05/15/07 03:19 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
fantasylndvictm said:
u havent had casual sex either?? well thats pretty cool for both of u being ur both men and u kno most guys only have casual sex.
Wrong.
Think of it this way... if 2 out of 10 guys are having mad casual sex, chances are they will be the ones you fuck. So it will appear that "most" guys only have casual sex.
But really 8 out of 10 guys prefer a meaningful relationship (though most won't turn down casual sex with a hottie)
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TurntableJunky
Ethno Grower
Registered: 04/26/07
Posts: 4,742
Loc: Sydney
Last seen: 16 years, 4 days
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Brainiac]
#6920502 - 05/15/07 03:20 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol
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Cowgold
Bullshit
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You should really try and use sentences in your posts. [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6920607 - 05/15/07 03:46 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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My thoughts on casual sex?
Doesn't happen enough to be casual.
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fantasylndvictm
yup
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Posts: 2,388
Loc: usa
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: bluedolphin]
#6920672 - 05/15/07 04:04 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
bluedolphin said:
Quote:
fantasylndvictm said:
u havent had casual sex either?? well thats pretty cool for both of u being ur both men and u kno most guys only have casual sex.
Wrong.
Think of it this way... if 2 out of 10 guys are having mad casual sex, chances are they will be the ones you fuck. So it will appear that "most" guys only have casual sex.
But really 8 out of 10 guys prefer a meaningful relationship (though most won't turn down casual sex with a hottie)
i have found that now there are more guys that prefer relationship but u also kinda proved my point by sayin most wont turn down causual sex wit a hottie....thats all im sayin is hey guys are horny...but us women are just as horny we just have to hide it b/c of the fact if a girl bangs 20 guys shes a whore if a guy does hes the man. but no offense no those who dont have casual sex and prefer a relationship i didn't say it to generalize every male and im kinda babblin so this might not make much sense
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"How do we know whether the life of any creature has fulfilled its destiny? I have known the very old to die in bitterness and despair. I have seen young children die before their time but leave behind such a legacy of love and joy that grief for their passing was tempered by the knowledge that their brief lives had given much to others."
"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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Silversoul
Rhizome
Registered: 01/01/05
Posts: 23,576
Loc: The Barricades
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6921767 - 05/15/07 08:23 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have no objection to casual sex, but I prefer relationships.
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EllisDSox
King Hella!
Registered: 01/22/07
Posts: 25,730
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: Silversoul]
#6921815 - 05/15/07 08:38 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anyone stupid enough to fake is just depriving themselves of pleasure. Casual sex is fine, you just have to be careful not to mess with people's emotions.
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WildLASER
Infinity In AGrain Of Salt
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: EllisDSox]
#6922920 - 05/16/07 12:55 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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i don't believe in a double standard, i would judge man and woman equally for poor judgment or lack thereof.
on a subconscious level, there are connections that take place, whether you like it or not, me I am the minority perhaps who would rather a deep and persisting connection be present, and have in fact turned down opportunities that were too fake or fleeting...
and i think thats stupid saying relationships "hold you back", as opposed to a "fuck buddy", you are only holding yourself back from being real with yourself, your emotions, and reality, you are just practicing escapism, you know who you are
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theuser
DON'T LOOK
Registered: 08/04/05
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: AlCapwn]
#6922927 - 05/16/07 12:56 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
AlCapwn said:
I'm pro casual sex, and against faking it. Constructive criticism means you'll end up with an overall better sex life.
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eligal
Noobie
Registered: 05/25/05
Posts: 7,021
Loc: California
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: theuser]
#6922976 - 05/16/07 01:13 AM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
theuser said:
Quote:
AlCapwn said:
I'm pro casual sex, and against faking it. Constructive criticism means you'll end up with an overall better sex life.
Yep yep
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"do you have the freedom to do with your nervous system what you want?"
"MolokoMilkPlus said:
I'll respect you if you let me give you a blow job"
"tactik said:
respect the can."
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fantasylndvictm
yup
Registered: 03/19/07
Posts: 2,388
Loc: usa
Last seen: 8 years, 10 months
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: WildLASER]
#6930681 - 05/17/07 03:26 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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WildLASER said:
and i think thats stupid saying relationships "hold you back", as opposed to a "fuck buddy", you are only holding yourself back from being real with yourself, your emotions, and reality, you are just practicing escapism, you know who you are
yea ur probly right...i use escapism alot its a downfal of mine....im workin on it though 
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"How do we know whether the life of any creature has fulfilled its destiny? I have known the very old to die in bitterness and despair. I have seen young children die before their time but leave behind such a legacy of love and joy that grief for their passing was tempered by the knowledge that their brief lives had given much to others."
"You have answered your own question,Tanis Half-Elven, far better than I could," the Forestmaster said gravely. "Say that that our lives are measured not by gain but by giving." -Dragonlance "Dragons of Autumn Twilight"
If we lived in luxury we would grow soft.
No human being truely knows their full capacity to love until they become a parent.
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kaniz
That one, overthere.
Registered: 07/23/04
Posts: 4,166
Loc: Ontario
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Re: what's ur thought on casual sex???? [Re: fantasylndvictm]
#6930697 - 05/17/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well, one of the funnest parts about casual sex is exploring a new body, discovering what makes it tick, and hopefully having them find a few new ways to get you going.
If the sex is going to be 'meaningless', then it might as well be good - so yes, talk about whats working / not working and see who can make the other scream the loudest
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