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MushroomTrip
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Re: Forgiving [Re: Veritas]
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There ARE stuff which hurt us emotionally even if we chose not to. There are stuff which should hurt us.
I asked you for further explanation of this statement, which you made on THIS thread. You have not given any.
What subject did I avoid?
If I'd give further explanation regarding WHAT, I should get in personal details, thing which I won't do. I think I stated pretty clear my idea but I guess there's always room for assumptions
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at this point I must ask you all for foggiviness and I havetogotobed
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OrgoneConclusion said: Don't make me invoke the Icelander Rule!
How much mourning is non-neurotic? Specific amount of time, please.
It would depend on the interior workings of the person. Their motives of course.:p
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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MushroomTrip said:
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Veritas said:
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There ARE stuff which hurt us emotionally even if we chose not to. There are stuff which should hurt us.
I asked you for further explanation of this statement, which you made on THIS thread. You have not given any.
What subject did I avoid?
If I'd give further explanation regarding WHAT, I should get in personal details, thing which I won't do. I think I stated pretty clear my idea but I guess there's always room for assumptions
OK, it is your option to refuse to back up your blanket statement regarding emotional "hurt" being caused without our consent.
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Re: Forgiving [Re: Veritas]
#6842915 - 04/27/07 08:48 PM (16 years, 9 months ago) |
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Indeed it is
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Good debate technique. B)
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Icelander said: Good debate technique. B)
Thank you, I had good role models
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Sarchasm is a better debate technique.
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Icelander said: Good debate technique. B)
Thank you, I had good role models
Which means?
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I'm not giving names
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Is it that Fireworksgod guy? I think he does that a lot.
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Icelander said: Is it that Fireworksgod guy? I think he does that a lot.
I knew I felt that my spirit was being summoned. 
It sounds like you want a debate, partner. Well, I tell you what, let's begin by substantiating your claim that I avoid backing up my statements "a lot".
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Icelander said: How does that change my point? It's always a choice. I have chosen a new behavior and repeated it over time until past memories of different choices now have no impact whatsoever.
When did I mention now past experiences? I stated that when you're hurt you can learn from that particular experience. Just like you can learn from anything else if you keep your eyes open. I think no book could teach me better then life.
This is a good point. Through an experience of suffering, we learn more about what has caused us to suffer (recognizing the external situation that brought us to the experience, and much more importantly our mental activity that associated the experience with the need to suffer).
Sometimes it isn't a conscious choice that we make until after it happens. We learn and we grow as a result. Through the process, we evolve and transcend those aspects of ourselves that inflicted the suffering upon ourselves. Its a question of removing the association between the external situation and our subsequent emotional state of being.
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Re: Forgiving [Re: Veritas]
#6843171 - 04/27/07 09:57 PM (16 years, 9 months ago) |
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sometimes...
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Exactly, I think and feel like no experience is bad experience as long as we understand the process. It takes time and patience,, but I think it's definitely worth it, when one learns to "get along" we realize that we didn't lose any time
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