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 sucklesworth
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 off my chest 
#6694749 - 03/21/07 09:51 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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well this is always a risky business letting folks on these boards know about your personal life
well as many of you who know me already know, I got married 7 months ago
despite what I think are my best efforts, it failed
let me tell you right now kids - it doesn't feel that great
its been an extremely emotion roller coaster
i wouldn't take back anything as its part of my life and part of my path and i have to deal with it to the best of my abilities
that being said - i would like to stress the importance of communicating with your significant other
had we been able to communicate, we would have both avoided a lot of heart ache and emotional stress
its not a lack of love for each other, its a lack of wanting the same things in life
make sure you are compatible and hold on for the ride
enjoy kids
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 Rono
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I've always held the belief that love /marriage is only as strong as what you are willing to tolerate.
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sucklesworth
Lick me where Ipee
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Re: off my chest [Re: Rono]
#6694767 - 03/21/07 09:59 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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its a hard thing to learn to live with someone else and it take a hell of a lot of commitment from both parties involved
I guess it wouldn't be that big of a thing but I made that commitment to the big fella (whoever that may be) and I failed
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Thin White Duke
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This is the first serious post I've ever seen you make.
Sorry to hear it didn't work out. Love can be the best thing to ever happen to you, and also the worst.
It's ALWAYS worth it though.
Better to have loved and lost, than not loved at all.
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vinsue
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My marriage lasted 7 years, then divorce. I've been happily living in sin with the same woman for over 10 years now. Good luck with your situation. Things will work out, one way or another...
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sucklesworth
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agreed
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Rono
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Quote:
I guess it wouldn't be that big of a thing but I made that commitment to the big fella (whoever that may be) and I failed
No offense to your beliefs, I don't think the 'big fella' cares...
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sucklesworth
Lick me where Ipee
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Re: off my chest [Re: Rono]
#6694805 - 03/21/07 10:18 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can appreciate that
I guess what I'm saying its it is a big deal to me and I don't take the promise I made lightly
thats all
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Rono
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Fair enough, and that's the way it should be...but in all fairness, would you have made the same promise if you had known all the facts before the marriage?
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sucklesworth
Lick me where Ipee
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Re: off my chest [Re: Rono]
#6694811 - 03/21/07 10:23 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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No
But could anyone honestly answer differently when they already know it didn't work?
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HB
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I never even knew you got married ...
sorry to hear it didn't work out, but you already seem to understand it wasn't what you thought it would be. marriage is only good, if it's good!
maybe Rono will give you a hug?
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QuantumMeltdown
Space Monkey
Registered: 10/31/01
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Re: off my chest [Re: HB]
#6694815 - 03/21/07 10:26 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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time for some butt secks with hanky.
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Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself.
-Mark Twain
"The time has come the walrus said, little oysters hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome
Be lonesome and you will be free
Live a lie and you will live to regret it
That's what livin' is to me
That's what livin' is to me"
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Redstorm
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HB can help with those lonely nights.
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AroundtheSon
Learning to See
Registered: 01/11/07
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Loc: Midwest.
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No wonder your such a dick on here; your life has been a shit-hole.
Still though, sorry to hear it didn't work out. However, the big fella said its all good, and He's got a surprise waiting for you in the weeks ahead. Brace yoself nigga. 
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demiu5
humans, lol
Registered: 08/18/05
Posts: 43,948
Loc: the popcorn stadium
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Quote:
You_Suck said:
well this is always a risky business letting folks on these boards know about your personal life
well as many of you who know me already know, I got married 7 months ago
despite what I think are my best efforts, it failed
let me tell you right now kids - it doesn't feel that great
its been an extremely emotion roller coaster
i wouldn't take back anything as its part of my life and part of my path and i have to deal with it to the best of my abilities
that being said - i would like to stress the importance of communicating with your significant other
had we been able to communicate, we would have both avoided a lot of heart ache and emotional stress
its not a lack of love for each other, its a lack of wanting the same things in life
make sure you are compatible and hold on for the ride
enjoy kids
much love to you brother, and I hope your pain eases.
this is something I've always felt strongly about. My path, or at least the place I'm trying to get to, is so far off from what others are seeking it's hard to find another person (especially a female) who is going there. I think that's another reason why I have virtually no desire to date people...because I know they don't want to be where I do therefore I see no reason/use to become involved.
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sucklesworth
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things are not always what they appear to be online.....
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demiu5
humans, lol
Registered: 08/18/05
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Quote:
You_Suck said:
its a hard thing to learn to live with someone else and it take a hell of a lot of commitment from both parties involved
I guess it wouldn't be that big of a thing but I made that commitment to the big fella (whoever that may be) and I failed
I have to ask...did the two of you live together previously or did you marry and move in?
I'm down with no sex before love/marriage (and I don't believe in marriage) even if living together, but I think it is extremely important for people to live together before taking it to the next (or final) level to make sure the compatibility is there and that the little things don't get to the other
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blissedout
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Sorry to hear of your shit, Sucky, but maybe it's for the best. I don't know. I'm just trying to make you feel better. You have your whole life ahead of you.
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THE KRAT BARON
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You'll be alright man. You didn't make that promise alone. The promise was a two party deal and it's not your fault things didn't work out as planned. Try to keep your head up. 
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goobler
Reanimated
Registered: 02/24/03
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Quote:
You_Suck said:
its a hard thing to learn to live with someone else and it take a hell of a lot of commitment from both parties involved
I guess it wouldn't be that big of a thing but I made that commitment to the big fella (whoever that may be) and I failed
its really not failure if you both ended it amicably and realized you wanted different things..just be glad there are no children involved, it gets difficult then
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WhiskeyClone
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You have the right attitude. Take what you can get from it.
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Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.
~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
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