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Jackattack
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List your problems here
#5957615 - 08/12/06 09:11 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anxiety depression Low sex drive no confidence
I fear that I will never have a girlfriend because I feel like I cannot connect with people. I don't even have a biological drive to get myself a girlfriend but in my mind I know that It would be awesome to have one. Since a couple weeks ago I sometimes wake up with a vertigo(dizziness) but I don't know if it's from medication(stablon) or from a bigger problem rearing it's head like some type of disease. I am secretly hoping that it is a disease like Parkinson's disease then I will have an excuse to why I am so pathetic.
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Jackattack]
#5958135 - 08/13/06 12:31 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Jackattack said: Anxiety depression Low sex drive no confidence
I fear that I will never have a girlfriend because I feel like I cannot connect with people. I don't even have a biological drive to get myself a girlfriend but in my mind I know that It would be awesome to have one. Since a couple weeks ago I sometimes wake up with a vertigo(dizziness) but I don't know if it's from medication(stablon) or from a bigger problem rearing it's head like some type of disease. I am secretly hoping that it is a disease like Parkinson's disease then I will have an excuse to why I am so pathetic.
Just wait for the right girl. Be patient and it will happen.
I don't know what's up with the vertigo, but I wouldn't worry about it. There's all types of things that happen to everyone's body that seem odd or problematic. Realize that you are not perfect. You are supposed to have dings and scratches, as it were. =)
It may indeed be a real problem, but considering that many people complain about vertigo at specific times or after specific events, it doesn't seem like one to me. Just deal with it. Get up and get going and enjoy the show. Monitor the symptoms and decide if you need to go to a doctor or not.
As far as everything else is concerned, stop it. Stop being a cry baby and being a scaredy cat about all of those labels. Get out and do stuff. Live your life. Focus on the solutions rather than the problems. It's on you to decide what you will make of yourself. Aim high and shoot straight. You won't always hit your target, but you will get close most of the time if you're good at it.
It's fun to go for it, in any case. That is, if you think it is.
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Jackattack]
#5958142 - 08/13/06 12:33 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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you make "problems" sound like it is an accessory, something you put on before you go outside.
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The_Hobbit
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Re: List your problems here [Re: The_Hobbit]
#5958143 - 08/13/06 12:33 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Btw, this whole forum section is created for people to get help with their problems. This thread is about you.
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Re: List your problems here [Re: The_Hobbit]
#5961445 - 08/14/06 01:14 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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i think all of my problems can be summed up by laziness.
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Gomp
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Jackattack]
#5975238 - 08/18/06 06:02 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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"`MY´ only problem, [if any], is that I got no problems! I see solution(S)..." -Unknown :p
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Gomp]
#5975407 - 08/18/06 08:56 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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This should be fun:
I'm 23 years old and i'm still at home looking after my ill mom, in a situation that's going to go from bad to worse to fuckin awful. Because i do that i don't have much of a life, i still have friends and all that but i'm not allowed to work and the money i get is shit.
Eventually i'm going to be as housebound as my mum is.
My childhood was pretty fucked up and i'm still trying to deal with it all, we have major rifts in the family and i don't talk to my brother. My mum is devastated because she knows i'm not going to stay in contact with him after she dies, she blames herself because she did the same thing with her brother.
I just found out my uncle has cancer, that means just about everyone on my mums side has died from cancer so statistically i'm fucked.
My dad fucked me off when i was a kid and that still bothers me.
I'm under constant stress so that shows itself as symptoms, i was getting severe panic attacks but ive got them under control. I still get attacks i just don't panic about them anymore.
I'm depressed and i'm convinced i'm going to die young so my drive is suffering alot.
I haven't had a girlfriend in ages ( like 4 years or something ), i miss being that close to someone and it hurts. I can't have a girl in my situation anyway really.
My sleeping pattern is a nightmare. I'm starting to go bald. My cat is going to die very soon, he's been around for the last 17 years.
Just to top it off i think i'm in love with a lesbian.
FUCK !
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Mike_yy]
#5975467 - 08/18/06 09:38 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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"Just to top it off i think i'm in love with a lesbian."
Oh, I can top that, I think I AM a lesbian. 
But seriously, dude, that's a lot of problems but I admit I did laugh at the lesbian one. Maybe you'll be lucky and she is bisexual with friends.
As for my problems, they are all in my head and mostly I try to leave them there. I can't change them so they are better off left alone.
I think my childhood while good in many ways has left me rather cold towards wanting to go out and seek intimacy with strangers. Or maybe I am just getting old enough where looking is better than getting laid while getting herpes like my friend just did. See, I am being negative again about the intimacy thing but let's be real STDs are out there. Guess he should have known when she had the rash. Ouch, talk about problems...
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Edited by LunarEclipse (08/18/06 09:40 AM)
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Re: List your problems here [Re: LunarEclipse]
#5975741 - 08/18/06 12:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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i am not lviing up to my fullest potentials.
being motivated to excel is challenging and i enjoy sloth/sleep/inactivity.
i am kind of afraid of intimacy and yet lack of intimacy is the one thing that causes the most suffering in my life.
i ruptured my ear drum.
i see through the illusions of samsara but don't know what to do now that the entire spectrum of human living is pointless unless you use human living to be enlightened. hence i seek enlightenment.
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Edited by leery11 (08/18/06 12:16 PM)
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Re: List your problems here [Re: leery11]
#5975819 - 08/18/06 12:54 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hhmm... my problems... let me think for a few on that....
Well, for one thing, my posture isn't as great as it should be. Of course, I have been working on it, and it has been improving quite nicely. I am conscious of how I am holding myself more, and that alone helps. I'm not as concerned about it as I used to be, since it has been improving. Its just simply that my lower back isn't as pulled back as it should be, and my neck isn't really in line with my shoulders, sorta has a curve to it.
Sometimes I wonder if my analytical mind is too active. I don't necessarily think it is, just that it sometimes seems like I'm thinking too much.
At home, it seems difficult to motivate myself to keep my surroundings well-kept. I am naturally very lazy, a great procrastinator when I wish to be, so that is mostly responsible. That, and the fact that I am a work horse while at work. Being at home, especially on my days off, is more like going into a state of hibernation than anything.
Of course, I work on these things, and I improve. Another thing that is probably to be considered a problem is that I do not seem to have a sense of need to go to sleep. I can be really tired and I just don't go to sleep. I don't know if my body/mind has no concept of a daily cycle, but, for instance, I should have been to sleep a couple of hours ago, in order to get nine hours of sleep.
Of course, I usually get around seven/eight/nine hours of sleep, but its never enough for me to wake up feeling refreshed, bright-eyed, and aware. I am not sure if this is a lack of nutrition, or the simple fact that I really exert myself at work (it pays off, in more ways than one ).
Which brings me to another thing, lack of nutrition. I don't really eat a balanced diet. We get home from work and its a frozen pizza, or something. I'm lucky if I eat cereal when I wake up in the morning/night (right now I'm back on overnights for a month). I am deeply interested in eating a balanced, nutritious diet, but I simply have not begun the planning and upkeep/management of my house in order to provide the opportunity for me to eat right.
Which means, ultimately, we haven't actually shopped for food in a long time, and my kitchen is always behind, so it becomes more difficult to prepare a meal, which means I buy a frozen pizza, and end up scrubbing the pizza cutter "clean" when its almost done. 
But, as I said, I work on these things. I am becoming more organized, doing more planning, forecasting more. I carry a notebook at work and plan out tasks that need to be completed, and I have started doing the same at home. I'm focused on finances at the moment, planning out our usage of money, and that will bring us to naturally branch out to upkeep of the house and etc.
I don't think would really seem like "real" problems to most, but then, they are, relative to my own experience, I guess.
 Peace.
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the trick to waking up refreshed might be refusing to look at a clock, ever.
i did that today since i didn't have work. and got up after about 12 hours of sleep at roughly 11.... and roughly 11 is my default time of getting up, but usually i don't "want" to get up at 11..... i want to sleep more.
well i did look at it after my first REM, and only an hour or so had passed, but most of the night I refused to look at it every time I woke up.
so doing this, plus getting your rhythmn to wake you up on time would be good. you can set the alarm but REFUSE to ever look at it, then you might just get up and decide to stay up before it even goes off.
also sunlight is a must. the first time i woke up refreshed in ages was when i was in a room that was just bathed with sun in the morning. i was like man it must be 10 am., and it was only 6.... which shocked me. this was like 8 years ago.
-------------------- I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo! ....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human...... Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Mike_yy]
#5976233 - 08/18/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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mikeyyork said: This should be fun:
I'm 23 years old and i'm still at home looking after my ill mom, in a situation that's going to go from bad to worse to fuckin awful. Because i do that i don't have much of a life, i still have friends and all that but i'm not allowed to work and the money i get is shit.
Eventually i'm going to be as housebound as my mum is.
My childhood was pretty fucked up and i'm still trying to deal with it all, we have major rifts in the family and i don't talk to my brother. My mum is devastated because she knows i'm not going to stay in contact with him after she dies, she blames herself because she did the same thing with her brother.
I just found out my uncle has cancer, that means just about everyone on my mums side has died from cancer so statistically i'm fucked.
My dad fucked me off when i was a kid and that still bothers me.
I'm under constant stress so that shows itself as symptoms, i was getting severe panic attacks but ive got them under control. I still get attacks i just don't panic about them anymore.
I'm depressed and i'm convinced i'm going to die young so my drive is suffering alot.
I haven't had a girlfriend in ages ( like 4 years or something ), i miss being that close to someone and it hurts. I can't have a girl in my situation anyway really.
My sleeping pattern is a nightmare. I'm starting to go bald. My cat is going to die very soon, he's been around for the last 17 years.
Just to top it off i think i'm in love with a lesbian.
FUCK !
Dude.. I must ask..
Do you wash your own cloths?
DO you?
BTW: I'm .. I have... *fucking
A lot...
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Re: List your problems here [Re: Jackattack]
#5977485 - 08/18/06 11:38 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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My cock is too fat and too short
My truck has a broken tail light
My grand son is a blind retard
My new boss is insane
My Dog has a broken tooth
My time on earth is short
I lost 3 grand last night playing no-limit poker
I got's a few problems
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