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Is it bad being single at 23 ??
    #5932670 - 08/04/06 08:41 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I haven't had a girl for awhile through my own issues, but i know i'm ok.
Is this like normal ?.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932682 - 08/04/06 08:43 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

what do you think?


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932686 - 08/04/06 08:44 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

If you are  to busey your to busey....... But hey what ever man  :nicekitty:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Corporal Kielbasa]
    #5932688 - 08/04/06 08:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Given my mates situations, probably not !.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Corporal Kielbasa]
    #5932694 - 08/04/06 08:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Dude who wants to be tied down in your mid 20's?? Best times of you life bro. Get out there drink beers flirt with girls have lots of sex and be merry. When you get to your later 20's say 26-29 then think about finding a girlfriend.

Live life my man. Enjoy this while you can.


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For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932696 - 08/04/06 08:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Just do not look at a man the wrong way.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: mikeownow]
    #5932706 - 08/04/06 08:50 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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mikeownow said:
Just do not look at a man the wrong way.




Lol, fook orff. Nar i just realized that all my friends are starting to settle, but i'm a long way off it.
At 23 i feel like i'm missing out on something.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: mikeownow]
    #5932712 - 08/04/06 08:51 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

yea what will you ever do by saveing your money and buying you shit when you could be buying someone ells shit and have them complain about dirty forks and fat and general bitching.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932713 - 08/04/06 08:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

as long as your getting laid its great being single at any age.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: sparks8]
    #5932743 - 08/04/06 09:01 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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sparks8 said:
as long as your getting laid its great being single at any age.




I feel like i'm beyond all that now, like ive been there and done it all..

But what's a normal age to settle down ?, all my friends seem to have connected up with women all at once.
I'm 3 years younger than they all are, i have nothing. Should i be worried really ?


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: sparks8]
    #5932745 - 08/04/06 09:01 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

That is the truth.

If your not getting laid.. time to look into your game my boy. Even the ugliest dude on the planet can get laid if you know how to talk the talk. Trust me.. I'm not the best looking guy in the world but I get laid regularly and, I always have women in my life. I dont get involved in relationships I'm still to young imo (24). Its all about how you lay it out from the get go. Its easy to get Fuck Buddies with out ever saying it. Its just something that happens between guy and girl friends.

Get out there and meet some chicks dam nit


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ToiletDuk said:
For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932753 - 08/04/06 09:04 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I run a lil deeper,, i used to play that game and i ruled it..
It all seemes so empty to me now.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932760 - 08/04/06 09:05 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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mikeyyork said:
I run a lil deeper,, i used to play that game and i ruled it..
It all seemes so empty to me now.




Then go get a damned girl friend. What are you waiting on?


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ToiletDuk said:
For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932773 - 08/04/06 09:10 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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mikeyyork said:
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sparks8 said:
as long as your getting laid its great being single at any age.




I feel like i'm beyond all that now, like ive been there and done it all..

But what's a normal age to settle down ?, all my friends seem to have connected up with women all at once.
I'm 3 years younger than they all are, i have nothing. Should i be worried really ?




Welcome to why there are so many divorces oh my friend got married fuck I best get married also.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932782 - 08/04/06 09:13 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Things are never that simple man. I know i'm ok to have a girl, question is, is a girl ok to have me..

I have some thick ass mates, they all pull women.. By rights ( as far as i know ) i'm a better looker, i'm definately brighter/more intelligent... still i don't have a girl tho..

WTF is up with this ?


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932792 - 08/04/06 09:15 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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mikeyyork said:
Things are never that simple man. I know i'm ok to have a girl, question is, is a girl ok to have me..

I have some thick ass mates, they all pull women.. By rights ( as far as i know ) i'm a better looker, i'm definately brighter/more intelligent... still i don't have a girl tho..

WTF is up with this ?




You have no game my friend. Youre not confident and you dont go out and get what you want. You fear rejection. Get over it. Girls should be the ones wanting to be with you not the other way around. Get that in your head. Chicks want a MAN ... so be a man about things for once and go up to a girl and talk to her damnit


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For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932838 - 08/04/06 09:24 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I have game !, i know what i want and i don't really fear rejection, not from people i don't really care about anyway.

Why would you ever think i was after a stereotypical girl ?

I do talk to girls,, i'm sick to death of all the bullshit involved.

My best female friend ( who i love to bits ) is a lesbian.. So yeah i'm sick of the games that are played.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932851 - 08/04/06 09:27 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

what bullshit? Thats your problem buddy. There is no bullshit involved. Just be yourself tell it like it is. Girls love it. If you a certin type of girl then go where that girl will be. Go do what you like and look for girls there. Its not hard man.. you are thinking way to hard on this. Just do it


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For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932903 - 08/04/06 09:43 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Generally there is bullshit involved, it's all bullshit start to finish.
No one who's out round town who acts their normal selves pulls a bird, that rarely happens.
It's all an act !
And girls buy into it, to the point that they won't go with a bloke unless he has his act on...

I don't want a girl who thinks like that.
What i was saying is,, is it normal to be single at 23..
I'm not bothered about finding women (plural). Honestly i'm beyond all that..

From what i hear already i guess 23 isn't such a bad age to be single,, reason i make this post is because all my friends are settling down already.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932904 - 08/04/06 09:44 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

To find a pearl, you have to go through a lot of oysters. I think he's just getting tired of going through so many oysters and finding no pearl.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932912 - 08/04/06 09:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Hey man thats what im trying to tell you!!!! If you dont want a gril that thinks like that don't do it. Try it. Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds. If they dont like you then guess what you dont want to be with her anyways. If your just looking to fuck then yeah you play the game. You tell be what they want you to be and in the morning you tell them everything you hate about them.

Youre not looking for that right? Ok then... be yourself and that chick will come. Dont rush it man...


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For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932917 - 08/04/06 09:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

alright.. i dont think its bad.. but shit.. im almost 19 and have a lovely gf.. ne wayz..

if ur really that worried about it check out eharmony.. idk if u guys have that overseas.. or something similar.. but idk.. my mom has tried and it idk.. shes met up with a couple guys from it.. seems to work for dating


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: special_k]
    #5932919 - 08/04/06 09:48 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

special_k said:
To find a pearl, you have to go through a lot of oysters. I think he's just getting tired of going through so many oysters and finding no pearl.




Yep,, i find pearls, but my job is more to help them then for them to be with me..
That's how things turn i guess


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932947 - 08/04/06 09:55 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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TrippinTeddy said:
Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds.





Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now.
I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932980 - 08/04/06 10:03 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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mikeyyork said:
Quote:

TrippinTeddy said:
Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds. 





Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now.
I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..




Well I guess if who you are is non attractive then that may be the case. Couldn't say i dont know you. I never put on a act for a girl im always myself. Never had a problem yet
You will figure it out someday my friend trust me.  :thumbup:


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ToiletDuk said:
For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



Edited by TrippinTeddy (08/04/06 10:04 PM)


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5932990 - 08/04/06 10:07 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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TrippinTeddy said:
Quote:

mikeyyork said:
Quote:

TrippinTeddy said:
Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds. 





Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now.
I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..




Well I guess if who you are is non attractive then that may be the case. Couldn't say i dont know you. I never put on a act for a girl im always myself. Never had a problem yet
You will figure it out someday my friend trust me.  :thumbup:




I'm ok man, i'm not ugly or anything.

"I never put on a act for a girl im always myself.", i find that very hard to believe !


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5932992 - 08/04/06 10:08 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

settling in my opinion is simply a culturally sanctioned ideal that you do not have to follow if you don't want to. If you do want to, take your time. Its better to wait and get it right than rush in and get it wrong. Who's to say that maybe your friends didn't get it right? But than than again maybe they got lucky.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: special_k]
    #5932994 - 08/04/06 10:09 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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settling in my opinion is simply a culturally sanctioned ideal that you do not have to follow if you don't want to. If you do want to, take your time. Its better to wait and get it right than rush in and get it wrong. Who's to say that maybe your friends didn't get it right? But than than again maybe they got lucky.


:congrats:  :congrats:


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For the record, I would show you my butthole but you would fall down and worship it as a God and you would give up everything to roam the land converting the heathens by fire and sword. Millions would die. No, no the cost is too great. I cannot.



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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
    #5933000 - 08/04/06 10:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Yep.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933014 - 08/04/06 10:19 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

23 and you're not married?! Are you a homosexual?


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
    #5933041 - 08/04/06 10:27 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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23 and you're not married?! Are you a homosexual?




I'm Sensible,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i guess.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933050 - 08/04/06 10:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Like others have said, there's nothing wrong with being single. Don't ever feel that you need to be in a realationship to be normal. Get in that shit too soon in life and you'll have a fat wife and kids before you have a career and home. Keep your priorities in order.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
    #5933109 - 08/04/06 10:51 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

they say if the shoe fits, wear it.
but somedays, i think i would rather reach the end barefoot.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933133 - 08/04/06 11:02 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

never get married


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933168 - 08/04/06 11:12 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I am single and broke.. but happy to be single and not married and no child support, I am 35.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Skunk420]
    #5933170 - 08/04/06 11:13 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Not at all I'm a happy single female at 23, havin too much fun!! And, very focused and busy with my career and home. So that itself takes up a lot of time.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933207 - 08/04/06 11:30 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

the bad thing is as the years go by the pickings get less and less desirable, so then you might have to do the thing you are avoiding and settle with what is the best that is left. just imagine ou want to buy a box of chocolates the day after valentines, sure you can get a sale but all the good ones have already been taken.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933214 - 08/04/06 11:33 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I'm single and 24. I don't think it's something to be ashamed of. I would definitely prefer to be in a good relationship, but I'm in no rush.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: lemon_lw]
    #5933230 - 08/04/06 11:42 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: princestoadstool]
    #5933234 - 08/04/06 11:44 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

yes i can understand and agree with that 100%. but my way of thinking is applied to attitude along with just about every favorable trait that humans display.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: princestoadstool]
    #5933245 - 08/04/06 11:48 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.




True statement.

My close friend (chick I've known since 7th grade) was talking about "needing" to have a child. I tried to talk her down. I have no idea what the fuck happened...she came back down off that hormonal high a couple of weeks later.

DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN UNLESS YOU CAN PROVIDE FOR THEM.

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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: lemon_lw]
    #5933246 - 08/04/06 11:49 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

You do have a point though...the pickings are less desirable because by the time your 30's come around - all the chicks are either married, divorced, have children, or have just let themselves go.  :grin:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: princestoadstool]
    #5933258 - 08/04/06 11:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

thank you for seeing my viewpoint. it also applies to guys, i guess its just simply baggage comes as the older you get.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: princestoadstool]
    #5933856 - 08/05/06 07:14 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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GnuBobo said:
True statement. 

My close friend (chick I've known since 7th grade) was talking about "needing" to have a child.  I tried to talk her down.  I have no idea what the fuck happened...she came back down off that hormonal high a couple of weeks later. 

DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN UNLESS YOU CAN PROVIDE FOR THEM. 

Otherwise--that's child abuse, IMHO.



Man, a couple I know is set on having kids just so the man's parents can hold their grandkids before they die.  No career, no home, nothing.  I try and talk sense into them all the time.

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You do have a point though...the pickings are less desirable because by the time your 30's come around - all the chicks are either married, divorced, have children, or have just let themselves go.  :grin:



Bullshit.  Unless people stop fucking there's always gonna be a supply of women 18+.  If you're 30 with a home, a good career and a future then it will be way easier, and less stressful, to bag whichever you want.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933860 - 08/05/06 07:18 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

no it's not normal at ALL!!!!

I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I'm 24.  jsut go with the flow, if the time is right it'll happen.  just keep bettering yourself as a person and evolving mentally and spiritually, and take life as it comes.  Better to be the right person first rather than find the right person. 

cheers  :heart:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
    #5933914 - 08/05/06 08:27 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

A couple that iam friends with is the same way. Their parents are willing to support them and let them live in their vacation home for free as long as they pump out some grandkids asap.

I am 24 been w/ my girl for liek 4 and a 1/2 years and I am not ready for kids and wont' be for at least for another couple years.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933927 - 08/05/06 08:37 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Who the fuck cares what "normal" is?  Do what makes you happy, not because it makes others happy or because others are doing it that way.  Come on man, think about it :sun:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: princestoadstool]
    #5933940 - 08/05/06 08:45 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.




This is kinda where i fall short, i have attitude but i don't like to use it.
It always feels like it's something i'm putting on, i went for years 'playin' then i suddenly realized how fake i was being.
After that point i don't want a girl who's looking for people with their attitudes on, i want someone who's exempt from all that bullshit.
That way if i do meet someone, we're not going to be together for 4 weeks then decide we don't like each other.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TODAY]
    #5933952 - 08/05/06 08:53 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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Who the fuck cares what "normal" is?  Do what makes you happy, not because it makes others happy or because others are doing it that way.  Come on man, think about it :sun:




I know, your right man. It's just strange that all of my mates are settling down, i used to think they were all mad.
These days i'm not so sure.

Alot of them are together thru convenience and kids though.
They all slag each others relationships off behind their backs, but they're all doing the same thing really.

Maybe i'm better off out of that for now,, :smile:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933979 - 08/05/06 09:08 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

It doesn't sound like a big deal to me.. it's normal. :shrug:


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5933981 - 08/05/06 09:09 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I can see this happening to my friends in the near future too though.  We're all still "kids" (21 give or take a year) so we have fun but I can see them beginning to go their own ways into relationships and careers and such, giving less and less time to their friends...as will I some day.

Personally, I'm in no way ready, willing, wanting to give up my freedom to a settled life.  I've got money to make, people to fuck, irresponsibile living, and adventures in my future...not a white picket fence and a wifey making a pitcher of lemonade for me and TODAY JR :lol: maybe someday, but not now or in the near future. 

It does seem like the natural progression for most folks to settle down and start raising a family yadayadyada, but most folks aren't all folks!


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TODAY]
    #5934465 - 08/05/06 12:36 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I think its stupid to get married/settle and unless you have approached the 30 year old mark.

I'm 22 and I regret that I had a serious relationship for 3 years. Had loads of sex but only with one person. I dind't party much, didn't travel much.

Basically while I was at uni I did the worst moves:
I studied instead of partying
I had a long term relationship instead of fucking around

Now I'm pretty useless at the game, so I need all the tips that you guys can offer!


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
    #5934485 - 08/05/06 12:41 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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Now I'm pretty useless at the game




strange, I've been in several long term relationships, got married and I'm still at the top of my game


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #5934515 - 08/05/06 12:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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trunksan said:
Now I'm pretty useless at the game




strange, I've been in several long term relationships, got married and I'm still at the top of my game




I was never good at it in the first place!


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
    #5934519 - 08/05/06 12:53 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

well, cant blame that on the relationship then


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #5934535 - 08/05/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

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well, cant blame that on the relationship then




True! I just never got to practice it much!


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
    #5934551 - 08/05/06 01:01 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Well now is your chance!

get out there and talk to girls, maybe touch a boobie or two


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #5934604 - 08/05/06 01:16 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Hey you know having a gf isnt alwys the best thing in the world. YOU dont even think about it, but you have all your time to yourself now you can do what you want. THat all will change, and sure there will be alot of good things that will come. But remmeber, you will have alot less time doing anything you like. And even those things you like that may seem annoying now cuz you do them too much, will no longer seem that way once all your time is taken up by a girl.


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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #5934607 - 08/05/06 01:17 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Or 3 or 4... shit, touch every one you see. :hehehe:


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