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GnuBobo
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princestoadstool said: From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.
True statement.
My close friend (chick I've known since 7th grade) was talking about "needing" to have a child. I tried to talk her down. I have no idea what the fuck happened...she came back down off that hormonal high a couple of weeks later.
DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN UNLESS YOU CAN PROVIDE FOR THEM.
Otherwise--that's child abuse, IMHO.
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princestoadstool
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5933246 - 08/04/06 11:49 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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You do have a point though...the pickings are less desirable because by the time your 30's come around - all the chicks are either married, divorced, have children, or have just let themselves go.
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lemon_lw
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thank you for seeing my viewpoint. it also applies to guys, i guess its just simply baggage comes as the older you get.
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daimyo
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GnuBobo said: True statement.
My close friend (chick I've known since 7th grade) was talking about "needing" to have a child. I tried to talk her down. I have no idea what the fuck happened...she came back down off that hormonal high a couple of weeks later.
DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN UNLESS YOU CAN PROVIDE FOR THEM.
Otherwise--that's child abuse, IMHO.
Man, a couple I know is set on having kids just so the man's parents can hold their grandkids before they die. No career, no home, nothing. I try and talk sense into them all the time.
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princestoadstool said: You do have a point though...the pickings are less desirable because by the time your 30's come around - all the chicks are either married, divorced, have children, or have just let themselves go.
Bullshit. Unless people stop fucking there's always gonna be a supply of women 18+. If you're 30 with a home, a good career and a future then it will be way easier, and less stressful, to bag whichever you want.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933860 - 08/05/06 07:18 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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no it's not normal at ALL!!!!
I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I'm 24. jsut go with the flow, if the time is right it'll happen. just keep bettering yourself as a person and evolving mentally and spiritually, and take life as it comes. Better to be the right person first rather than find the right person.
cheers
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
#5933914 - 08/05/06 08:27 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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A couple that iam friends with is the same way. Their parents are willing to support them and let them live in their vacation home for free as long as they pump out some grandkids asap.
I am 24 been w/ my girl for liek 4 and a 1/2 years and I am not ready for kids and wont' be for at least for another couple years.
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TODAY
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933927 - 08/05/06 08:37 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Who the fuck cares what "normal" is? Do what makes you happy, not because it makes others happy or because others are doing it that way. Come on man, think about it
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Mike_yy


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princestoadstool said: From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.
This is kinda where i fall short, i have attitude but i don't like to use it. It always feels like it's something i'm putting on, i went for years 'playin' then i suddenly realized how fake i was being. After that point i don't want a girl who's looking for people with their attitudes on, i want someone who's exempt from all that bullshit. That way if i do meet someone, we're not going to be together for 4 weeks then decide we don't like each other.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TODAY]
#5933952 - 08/05/06 08:53 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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TODAY said: Who the fuck cares what "normal" is? Do what makes you happy, not because it makes others happy or because others are doing it that way. Come on man, think about it
I know, your right man. It's just strange that all of my mates are settling down, i used to think they were all mad. These days i'm not so sure.
Alot of them are together thru convenience and kids though. They all slag each others relationships off behind their backs, but they're all doing the same thing really.
Maybe i'm better off out of that for now,,
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eris
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933979 - 08/05/06 09:08 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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It doesn't sound like a big deal to me.. it's normal.
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TODAY
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933981 - 08/05/06 09:09 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I can see this happening to my friends in the near future too though. We're all still "kids" (21 give or take a year) so we have fun but I can see them beginning to go their own ways into relationships and careers and such, giving less and less time to their friends...as will I some day.
Personally, I'm in no way ready, willing, wanting to give up my freedom to a settled life. I've got money to make, people to fuck, irresponsibile living, and adventures in my future...not a white picket fence and a wifey making a pitcher of lemonade for me and TODAY JR maybe someday, but not now or in the near future.
It does seem like the natural progression for most folks to settle down and start raising a family yadayadyada, but most folks aren't all folks!
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trunksan
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TODAY]
#5934465 - 08/05/06 12:36 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think its stupid to get married/settle and unless you have approached the 30 year old mark.
I'm 22 and I regret that I had a serious relationship for 3 years. Had loads of sex but only with one person. I dind't party much, didn't travel much.
Basically while I was at uni I did the worst moves: I studied instead of partying I had a long term relationship instead of fucking around
Now I'm pretty useless at the game, so I need all the tips that you guys can offer!
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
#5934485 - 08/05/06 12:41 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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trunksan said: Now I'm pretty useless at the game
strange, I've been in several long term relationships, got married and I'm still at the top of my game
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trunksan
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#5934515 - 08/05/06 12:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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trunksan said: Now I'm pretty useless at the game
strange, I've been in several long term relationships, got married and I'm still at the top of my game
I was never good at it in the first place!
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
#5934519 - 08/05/06 12:53 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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well, cant blame that on the relationship then
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trunksan
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#5934535 - 08/05/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: well, cant blame that on the relationship then
True! I just never got to practice it much!
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: trunksan]
#5934551 - 08/05/06 01:01 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well now is your chance!
get out there and talk to girls, maybe touch a boobie or two
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#5934604 - 08/05/06 01:16 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey you know having a gf isnt alwys the best thing in the world. YOU dont even think about it, but you have all your time to yourself now you can do what you want. THat all will change, and sure there will be alot of good things that will come. But remmeber, you will have alot less time doing anything you like. And even those things you like that may seem annoying now cuz you do them too much, will no longer seem that way once all your time is taken up by a girl.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#5934607 - 08/05/06 01:17 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Or 3 or 4... shit, touch every one you see.
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