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TrippinTeddy
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5932912 - 08/04/06 09:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey man thats what im trying to tell you!!!! If you dont want a gril that thinks like that don't do it. Try it. Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds. If they dont like you then guess what you dont want to be with her anyways. If your just looking to fuck then yeah you play the game. You tell be what they want you to be and in the morning you tell them everything you hate about them.
Youre not looking for that right? Ok then... be yourself and that chick will come. Dont rush it man...
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
#5932917 - 08/04/06 09:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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alright.. i dont think its bad.. but shit.. im almost 19 and have a lovely gf.. ne wayz..
if ur really that worried about it check out eharmony.. idk if u guys have that overseas.. or something similar.. but idk.. my mom has tried and it idk.. shes met up with a couple guys from it.. seems to work for dating
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: special_k]
#5932919 - 08/04/06 09:48 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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special_k said: To find a pearl, you have to go through a lot of oysters. I think he's just getting tired of going through so many oysters and finding no pearl.
Yep,, i find pearls, but my job is more to help them then for them to be with me.. That's how things turn i guess
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
#5932947 - 08/04/06 09:55 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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TrippinTeddy said: Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds.
Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now. I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5932980 - 08/04/06 10:03 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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mikeyyork said:
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TrippinTeddy said: Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds.
Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now. I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..
Well I guess if who you are is non attractive then that may be the case. Couldn't say i dont know you. I never put on a act for a girl im always myself. Never had a problem yet You will figure it out someday my friend trust me.
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Edited by TrippinTeddy (08/04/06 10:04 PM)
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
#5932990 - 08/04/06 10:07 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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TrippinTeddy said:
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mikeyyork said:
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TrippinTeddy said: Girls like guys that are them selfs and speak their minds.
Wrong !!, tho i know what your saying. I don't need to rush anything, i always thought my mates were rushing things but they all seem ok now. I'm basically the only person left who isn't settled. In my situation that's worrying..
Well I guess if who you are is non attractive then that may be the case. Couldn't say i dont know you. I never put on a act for a girl im always myself. Never had a problem yet You will figure it out someday my friend trust me.
I'm ok man, i'm not ugly or anything.
"I never put on a act for a girl im always myself.", i find that very hard to believe !
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5932992 - 08/04/06 10:08 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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settling in my opinion is simply a culturally sanctioned ideal that you do not have to follow if you don't want to. If you do want to, take your time. Its better to wait and get it right than rush in and get it wrong. Who's to say that maybe your friends didn't get it right? But than than again maybe they got lucky.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: special_k]
#5932994 - 08/04/06 10:09 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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special_k said: settling in my opinion is simply a culturally sanctioned ideal that you do not have to follow if you don't want to. If you do want to, take your time. Its better to wait and get it right than rush in and get it wrong. Who's to say that maybe your friends didn't get it right? But than than again maybe they got lucky.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: TrippinTeddy]
#5933000 - 08/04/06 10:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yep.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933014 - 08/04/06 10:19 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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23 and you're not married?! Are you a homosexual?
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
#5933041 - 08/04/06 10:27 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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daimyo said: 23 and you're not married?! Are you a homosexual?
I'm Sensible,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i guess.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933050 - 08/04/06 10:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Like others have said, there's nothing wrong with being single. Don't ever feel that you need to be in a realationship to be normal. Get in that shit too soon in life and you'll have a fat wife and kids before you have a career and home. Keep your priorities in order.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: daimyo]
#5933109 - 08/04/06 10:51 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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they say if the shoe fits, wear it. but somedays, i think i would rather reach the end barefoot.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933133 - 08/04/06 11:02 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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never get married
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933168 - 08/04/06 11:12 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am single and broke.. but happy to be single and not married and no child support, I am 35.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Skunk420]
#5933170 - 08/04/06 11:13 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not at all I'm a happy single female at 23, havin too much fun!! And, very focused and busy with my career and home. So that itself takes up a lot of time.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933207 - 08/04/06 11:30 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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the bad thing is as the years go by the pickings get less and less desirable, so then you might have to do the thing you are avoiding and settle with what is the best that is left. just imagine ou want to buy a box of chocolates the day after valentines, sure you can get a sale but all the good ones have already been taken.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: Mike_yy]
#5933214 - 08/04/06 11:33 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm single and 24. I don't think it's something to be ashamed of. I would definitely prefer to be in a good relationship, but I'm in no rush.
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Re: Is it bad being single at 23 ?? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5933230 - 08/04/06 11:42 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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From a chick's perspective - It's not about who's smarter, or who's better looking...it's about the attitude.
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yes i can understand and agree with that 100%. but my way of thinking is applied to attitude along with just about every favorable trait that humans display.
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