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What would you do with this shit?
#5928461 - 08/03/06 12:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Last night i was walking out of a store with my girlfriend and she seemed really down, so i obviously asked her what was bothering her and she said nothing and that it wasn't me, i shouldn't worry. But she cried the whole way home. When we got home i kept prodding as to what it was that was bothering her and she refused to tell me she would just cry. So i asked her if it was something she had done that would hurt me, and she said yes. she said "I cant tell you because it would make you stop loving me. Would you hate me if we just stopped talking about it?" So i agreed i was really wore out after about 3 - 4 hrs of this. But I'm not stupid i know what this means. She has or Is screwing around on me. Ive been with her for 3 1/2 years now we have lived together for 1 1/2 and up until last night i believed nothing could be better. Looking back now i see the subtle signs of this. But I'm left with what to do. I know i will confront her when i see her later on at home, but what to do about this. Leave her? Thats my first instinct i mean how can i be with someone who could do something like this to me? Or stay and try to work this out? Again i just cant help but feeling betrayed, and how is that worked out? I just really love her alot and am really hurt about this. Although it isn't confirmed thats whats going on but what am I left to think? I'm just stuck and have left this to the wind and the shroomery for advice.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928486 - 08/03/06 12:42 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'd say tell her to be straight-up honest with you. Once you know the facts you will be more capable of making the next decisions regarding your relationship.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#5928499 - 08/03/06 12:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dude, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. Drop her like a hot rock.
Assuming thats it and she is not just upset about running your hamster or dog over.
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Edited by kilroy69 (08/03/06 12:48 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: kilroy69]
#5928503 - 08/03/06 12:50 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just a question. Has she been hanging out with any of your friends? Has any of your friends been acting odd? Thats usually the first place to look as bad as it sounds.
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Edited by kilroy69 (08/03/06 12:51 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928508 - 08/03/06 12:51 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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If she cheated on you, assess your feelings about it.
if you think it can be worked out(and feel it worthwhile), and she is willing to do so, then work things out. stranger things have happened. people can cheat and learn a lifelong lesson, it's possible.
if you don't think it's something you can work out then your best bet is to physically remove yourself from the situation. the longer you stick around her in the flesh the harder it will be to make any sort of decision in your best interest.
you invested a lot of time into the relationship so don't let it be something you toss aside and never look at as a lesson learned. you live and learn.. let this be another one of those situations if it must end.
as much as it hurts, my best advice to you is to walk away and fly solo.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: kilroy69]
#5928509 - 08/03/06 12:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah i do gotta get the truth about the situation but, i cannot think of anything else it could be. Be ill know soon enough. And kilroy i think your right, even if she did get swept away in the heat of the moment, who is to say this wont happen again?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928531 - 08/03/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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do you guys share a bank acct? credit cards?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928551 - 08/03/06 01:07 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ixitwistedixi said: who is to say this wont happen again?
the only thing certain is death, change. all we can do is go with it. hope all goes well.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: goobler]
#5928555 - 08/03/06 01:09 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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IF she cheated, then you need to get rid of her. You JUST DON'T DO THAT TO PEOPLE. PERIOD. They're not worth staying with, at any cost.
It sounds to me like she's about to leave you. I hate to say it but she's showing the symptoms I've learned to look for. The crying, putting off talking about it, 3-4 hours of asking what's wrong...I've been there and that's what I think is up.
If I'm wrong, my bad for bringing you down, but good luck with everytihng. I stepped out of this game for a while. I'm going to try single life. When they say it's not about you, it is. When they say it's not for someone else, they're with someone the next day. I hate that shit.
Edited by Newbie (08/03/06 01:12 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Newbie]
#5928672 - 08/03/06 02:04 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well she has definately been acting weird none of my friends though. She did go out last Sunday with someone from work which is weird because she is the type of person that would (or use to) want to take me everywhere with her. Well im going to go see her at work now she isnt officially off untill 8 (she works a split) Im not going to bring it up there for her sake, i wouldnt want to talk about it in the middle of a 10 hr shift either. And no we dont share accounts or anything if we split it off neither of us would have any seriouus problems of finding where we are going to go.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928689 - 08/03/06 02:11 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Damn dude I'm very sorry to hear about this. It's hard to grasp at first and you are probably going to want and try to work it out which is never really a good idea. It's best to go your separate ways and maybe cross paths again down the road when/if she is ready to settle down, maybe not. Good luck to you man, keep us updated.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928696 - 08/03/06 02:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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get the truth. Then don't do anytyhing rash, come back here post the update and we will decide for you.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Liquidkick]
#5928704 - 08/03/06 02:16 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah I'm really interested to see what's going on. Keep us posted!
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Newbie]
#5928725 - 08/03/06 02:23 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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if she did cheat on you, its going to be hard but you have to get out of there or kick her out.
i've been cheated on several times, it suxors and i will not be making that mistake anymore.
also i don't know if this is a univeral truth, but if they do it once they'll do it again the next time they feel like it.
edit: blah blah blah, i'm sure you already know this, but you're too good for that bullshit. there are more fish in the sea and often the fishing is the funnest part.
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Edited by truekimbo2 (08/03/06 02:25 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: truekimbo2]
#5928948 - 08/03/06 03:39 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well i went and picked her up from work so she could chill on her split, smoked a bowl and talked. I told her we don't have to talk about it right now but i need her to tell me what it is she is keeping from me tonight. She says Why? i felt Why Not would have been a suitable answer but i told her if she expects me to be open and honest with her she needs to do the same. And she agreed still said nothing. We smoked a bowl and kinda hung out. But I'm going to keep on this i cant just let it go shes going to have to talk to me tonight about this. I'm beginning to think now maby it was a while ago that she had cheated? We have been dating for 3 1/2 years. I need to figure out the truth and sleep on this shit. I mean what if this was 2 years ago? Should i feel any different?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928965 - 08/03/06 03:45 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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dump her to the curb 1000x fuck her. move on.
the quicker you end this, the quicker you'll feel better.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928966 - 08/03/06 03:45 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Do you believe she just cracked out of nowhere after 2 years? Personally I wouldn't buy that. You said yourself she's been acting weird lately and went out with a guy from work.. Should have gotten it out of her last night dude. She's had all day to make something up or tone the situation down to make herself look better.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Vvellum]
#5928969 - 08/03/06 03:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well if my assumtions are true but she hasnt left room for many other conclusions. i have She is either cheating or crazy...?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928975 - 08/03/06 03:50 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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cheating.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Vvellum]
#5928981 - 08/03/06 03:54 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Man the way your talking your not going to leave her even if she tells you she has been cheating. Do what you want... I can tell that nothing we say here is going to affect your decision at all
Edited by BuddahKillah (08/03/06 03:54 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: BuddahKillah]
#5928989 - 08/03/06 03:56 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Keep her as your fuck buddy.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928991 - 08/03/06 03:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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so you said she went out with a friend at work, was it a dude or chick? did she get home late with a bad case of bed head, jk. but yeah from first glance all ive got to say is sorry to hear about your 3 1/2 year relationship getting ruined.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5928993 - 08/03/06 03:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think she'd also be more likely to cheat again if you seemed like you weren't going to leave her for it when you found out the first time. Women are fucking crazy in that way.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5929047 - 08/03/06 04:18 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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mattzdope said: Do you believe she just cracked out of nowhere after 2 years? Personally I wouldn't buy that.
Your right, and even if that is the case she has been keeping it from me for a long time. I suppose your right i should have gotten it out of her last night she had just worn me down by that point with all of this.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929049 - 08/03/06 04:19 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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also, this isn't OTD, but i really just wanted to respond with:
donkey punch her.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: truekimbo2]
#5929225 - 08/03/06 05:31 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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truekimbo2 said: also, this isn't OTD, but i really just wanted to respond with:
donkey punch her.

Ok, so I finished reading through this thread, and most of what I wanted to say has already been said:
1) Yes, it sounds like she probably cheated. 2) If she did cheat on you, you CANNOT stay in the relationship. 3) Its going to hurt A LOT (trust me, it was a 4yr relationship for me). 4) If you break up, don't be surprised if she ends up dating someone else a couple weeks from now. 5) A few months down the line, you're going to feel completely different. You'll be able to look at the situation more objectively, and realize it was the right decision. 6) You're going to find someone else. Don't let this affect your trust with the next girl, they are two separate people.
Its probably going to the the hardest thing you've done in your life.
We'll be here to chat with you, and let you get the baggage off of your chest, so take advantage of that fact.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929297 - 08/03/06 06:00 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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dude, you've been together for how long? 3 1/2 years, and she's playin' head games. foolish, foolish head games.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: absolute zero]
#5929308 - 08/03/06 06:04 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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absolute_zero said:
Quote:
truekimbo2 said: also, this isn't OTD, but i really just wanted to respond with:
donkey punch her.

Ok, so I finished reading through this thread, and most of what I wanted to say has already been said:
1) Yes, it sounds like she probably cheated. 2) If she did cheat on you, you CANNOT stay in the relationship. 3) Its going to hurt A LOT (trust me, it was a 4yr relationship for me). 4) If you break up, don't be surprised if she ends up dating someone else a couple weeks from now. 5) A few months down the line, you're going to feel completely different. You'll be able to look at the situation more objectively, and realize it was the right decision. 6) You're going to find someone else. Don't let this affect your trust with the next girl, they are two separate people.
Its probably going to the the hardest thing you've done in your life.
We'll be here to chat with you, and let you get the baggage off of your chest, so take advantage of that fact.
& Good Luck
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: boatlaunch]
#5929309 - 08/03/06 06:05 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm telling you dude, prepare for the, "I need to be single" speech. It's always happened to me like that. The bitch even had a smile, like she was embarassed to say it. I KNEW from the minute I talked to her that MORNING she was going to break it off.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929332 - 08/03/06 06:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey your not in Tx are you? The reason I ask is because I'm currently having an affair with a girl who is slowly trying to get out of a relationship. Just so happens they had been together for 3 1/2 years. She no longer loves the guy and just wants out. They live together though and are stuck in a lease.
Its not my fault she didn't tell me she was with someone till we had been on a few dates. She Say's that hes a good guy and treats her OK but, she just doesn't love him anymore. This happens all the time man. Girls don't usually move on unless they have already replaced you. If they have there is nothing you can do to change their mind. Chicks are funny like that.
Best of luck to ya. Drink beer have sex with other women. Find someone to replace her with.
P.S. You might want to find out if she actually is cheating on you first. Women are nuts, who knows whats going on in her head
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929342 - 08/03/06 06:17 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Everyone is right. She IS cheating and you MUST breakup with her. She didn't respect you enough when you were together, she sure as hell isn't going to have more respect for you if you try to salvage it all. Take it like a man, go out with dignity. Don't whine and cry and beg for her to stay. Move on and realize you're learning what you need to learn in order for you to be able to meet the next "someone."
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he's in ohio... i cyber stalked him.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929669 - 08/03/06 08:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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update?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5929739 - 08/03/06 08:40 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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There's a small chance that it is something else. I was with a girl once who said she had had a baby when she was 16. She had all the details and I never really questioned it. Then like 1 1/2 years later she breaks down crying and I ask her what was wrong. She says that she never really had a baby, that she made it all up because she was embaressed about some stretch marks on her ass!@!!#$!!!!!!! Women are fucking insane somtimes. Anyway, good luck and keep us updated.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: EmperorKuzco]
#5929770 - 08/03/06 08:58 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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EmperorKuzco said: There's a small chance that it is something else. I was with a girl once who said she had had a baby when she was 16. She had all the details and I never really questioned it. Then like 1 1/2 years later she breaks down crying and I ask her what was wrong. She says that she never really had a baby, that she made it all up because she was embaressed about some stretch marks on her ass!@!!#$!!!!!!! Women are fucking insane somtimes. Anyway, good luck and keep us updated.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: EmperorKuzco]
#5929837 - 08/03/06 09:33 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, that sounds like their MO.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5929855 - 08/03/06 09:40 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Would any pot smoker besides me not smoke it?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: truekimbo2]
#5930715 - 08/04/06 08:04 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well she was fucking around. Last weekend with her "gay" friend. Guys you seen it here first THEY AREN'T GAY!!! Anyways fuck her man. She knows its over. We still need to figure out the living situation but i have a Walk-through for a house this evening at 6:30 and she will not be coming. And i know i gotta get out ASAP. Thanks for the help, at least i can come here.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5930741 - 08/04/06 08:15 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah man, try not to let it bring you down. If anything, you're a stronger person than her. You had the ability to supress urges with other people where she didn't. Thank her for her time, and the experience, and send her on her merry way.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5930945 - 08/04/06 10:00 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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sorry that all your worrying was for a reason. well i hope life is a bit kinder for a while for you
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931040 - 08/04/06 10:40 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks guys i'm sure everything is going to work out just fine. The hard part is telling her im getting rid of our apt. and she will have to find some place to go. Although she did me real wrong, i dont have any ill will just very hurt. Id like to see her come out of this without a huge mind fuck and a problem years down the line. But i know as far as me.....ill do just fine without this.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931064 - 08/04/06 10:52 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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so she cheated on you with a gay guy.....
damn man you need to hang in OTD
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ixitwistedixi
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: goobler]
#5931093 - 08/04/06 11:03 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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LOL supposed gay guy. What happened was she had this "gay" friend at work (not really gay if you see what i mean...) and they went "shopping" last weekend. Replace Gay for straight and shopping for fucking and thats what happened.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931097 - 08/04/06 11:04 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ixitwistedixi said: Although she did me real wrong, i dont have any ill will just very hurt. Id like to see her come out of this without a huge mind fuck and a problem years down the line.
No will will? Mindfuck & problems?
Sounds like ill-will to me 
I understand where the sentiment comes from, because you were betrayed, but its just not worth it to hold onto the negative emotion... At least not after you move out and go your separate ways...
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: absolute zero]
#5931103 - 08/04/06 11:05 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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i said id like to see her come out of this WITHOUT a huge mindfuck and problems years down the road......
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931308 - 08/04/06 12:17 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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wait a sec. So she said she went shopping, but fucked the gay guy instead?
This really true?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931343 - 08/04/06 12:30 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ixitwistedixi said: i said id like to see her come out of this WITHOUT a huge mindfuck and problems years down the road......

I guess its time for me to go enroll for Remedial Reading 101 or get a new pair of glasses
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: goobler]
#5931408 - 08/04/06 12:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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goobler said: so she cheated on you with a gay guy.....
damn man you need to hang in OTD
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: drtyfrnk]
#5931463 - 08/04/06 01:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well see im not sure where the confusion lies but this guy was obviosly not gay with the having sex with my girlfriend. That was a lie, so i wouldnt see a problem w/ them hanging out, And yes unfortunately this is true.
It feels like a bad trip.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931524 - 08/04/06 01:49 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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sounds like you got the strong mindset. kudos for doing the right thing.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: truekimbo2]
#5931532 - 08/04/06 01:51 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thank you, and i couldnt do it w/out the support from likeminded people. I would have probably caved in, but thats why i came here, i needed strength.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931544 - 08/04/06 01:56 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Can't make a ho a housewife.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: daimyo]
#5931662 - 08/04/06 02:35 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its done. And i feel like shit....
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931681 - 08/04/06 02:43 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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You will for a good while. Don't succumb to the bullshit though. Stay on your own path and get out and get money. Coming home to a full safe and calls from your broker telling you you're up 18% for the quarter is infinitely better.
Have the poon, don't let it have you.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: daimyo]
#5931688 - 08/04/06 02:45 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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daimyo said: Have the poon, don't let it have you.
If only i were so heartless....j/k. Thanks for the thought. Its just going to take some getting over. And she isnt making it easy. I didnt expect her too though.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931697 - 08/04/06 02:48 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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you did the rigth thing man, its going to be rough but just know that you have the strength to make the proper decision. go listen to tom petty- time to move on, for a little bit of a lift
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931729 - 08/04/06 02:59 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is love really supposed to be about possession? She is afraid to talk to you for fear that you will stop loving her....... There needs to be some better communication fo sho
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i need a firework show
Edited by loopin20 (08/04/06 08:41 PM)
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ixitwistedixi
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Corporal Kielbasa said: Is love really supposed to be about possession? She is afraid to talk to you for fear that you will stop loving her....... There needs to be some better communication fo sho
She knows how i feel. I wear my mind and my heart on my sleeve Everyday. And she knew what i would do before she made her choice. Funny thing is we had the best relationship of anyone I know. We have never had a problem communicating.
I didnt have your typical shit of a realationship before this happened.
Edited by ixitwistedixi (08/04/06 03:20 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931812 - 08/04/06 03:21 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ya'll are the perfect communicators? yeah, right.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931820 - 08/04/06 03:22 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
ixitwistedixi said:
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Corporal Kielbasa said: Is love really supposed to be about possession? She is afraid to talk to you for fear that you will stop loving her....... There needs to be some better communication fo sho
She knows how i feel. I wear my mind and my heart on my sleeve Everyday. And she knew what i would do before she made her choice. Funny thing is we had the best relationship of anyone I know. We have never had a problem communicating.
I didnt have your typical shit of a realationship before this happened.
You might think so, but consider this: if your relationship was so great, why did she cheat on you?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Lily_Morgan]
#5931827 - 08/04/06 03:24 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hi Lily.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: loopin20]
#5931833 - 08/04/06 03:25 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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What's up?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Lily_Morgan]
#5931834 - 08/04/06 03:25 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm tired.
Edited by loopin20 (08/04/06 08:33 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931836 - 08/04/06 03:26 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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im sorry to say something negative, but. most women want a future, so maybe the problem really was that you didnt seem to provide much by not getting married/engaged. i mean 3 1/2 years is pretty long to just be dating. i dont know though just throwing stuff out.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931841 - 08/04/06 03:28 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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edit, too much info
Edited by loopin20 (08/04/06 08:33 PM)
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ixitwistedixi
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931842 - 08/04/06 03:28 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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She told me it was because she wanted to be sure she loved me......i cant decipher the bullshit but thats the reason given.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931845 - 08/04/06 03:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well loopin good to hear it
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: loopin20]
#5931846 - 08/04/06 03:29 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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was that to me? i know it probably wasnt but if it was i dont know where you were trying to go with that.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931850 - 08/04/06 03:30 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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yeah i got a bit confused about the gay dude having sex with your ex girlfriend.
If your gay aren't you supost to be porking people of the same gender?
I think your girl was lying to you about him being gay so that it could potentially soften the blow a bit.
ANd shopping, she probably was shopping for some condoms to fuck the dude with.
Good choice. Move on. I find that concentrating on making a shit load of money helps ease the pain a bit cause when you have the money you can go get yourself some nice stuff.
Hopefully i don't sound to jiberrishy
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Liquidkick]
#5931852 - 08/04/06 03:31 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks for the reassurance but if you refer to previus posts HE WASNT GAY
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Liquidkick]
#5931858 - 08/04/06 03:32 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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i edit
Edited by loopin20 (08/04/06 08:37 PM)
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931862 - 08/04/06 03:33 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ixitwistedixi said: She told me it was because she wanted to be sure she loved me......i cant decipher the bullshit but thats the reason given.
yeah thats complete bullshit. it doesnt take a cock to figure that out. i mean i could see a date or some shit (even though it would still be wrong) but not a cock. typical woman excuses to make herself feel justified, i would so call her out on it so she would feel a little worse for trying to justify a fucked up decision. but whatever you should really cut ties man.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931865 - 08/04/06 03:33 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I already have, Ive done this its over i let her go.......
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: loopin20]
#5931877 - 08/04/06 03:36 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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alright cool see thats what was confusing, i couldnt decide if it was to me or the topic creator or lily. could you please use the reply feature so there will be no future confusion, thank you.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931879 - 08/04/06 03:36 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Loopin, PM me if you wanna talk, I hate posting non related messages in someone's forum.
twisted - Again, I'm sorry hon
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931882 - 08/04/06 03:37 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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ixitwistedixi said: I already have, Ive done this its over i let her go.......
im glad to hear that, did you listen to the song i recomended?
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931886 - 08/04/06 03:38 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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No, i will check it out though. Thanks for the help.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Lily_Morgan]
#5931894 - 08/04/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lily_Morgan said:[/b}
twisted - Again, I'm sorry hon
Thanks Lily.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931908 - 08/04/06 03:43 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear she burned you man. However I'm glad to hear you're making the right decision and getting rid of her, it's for the best. You'll feel like shit for a while but as time goes on she'll slowly fade out of your head.
Best thing to do right now is to go to the docs and get tested for any STD's. Hopefully she didn't 'burn' you in that aspect.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5931917 - 08/04/06 03:44 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah maby your right but i asked her (i kinda needed to know) And a condom was used, but it wouldnt hurt to be sure.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931926 - 08/04/06 03:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
ixitwistedixi said: a condom was used
if a girl is willing to cheat, she's just as willing to lie
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931930 - 08/04/06 03:48 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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cool. Thanks.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: ixitwistedixi]
#5931963 - 08/04/06 03:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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post pics of her.
Lets see who this lying cheating girl is.
Yes go get checked out.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Liquidkick]
#5931966 - 08/04/06 03:59 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Liquidkick said: post pics of her.
Lets see who this lying cheating girl is.
Yes go get checked out.
yeah who was the dude who posted the pics of his chick after she banged his best friend? yeah internet porn is a good revenge, jk.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931981 - 08/04/06 04:05 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not to worsen the situation, but at least the faith was tested before any further relations carried on. If she did this recently, a time when you said all was great, then imagine how the batchlorett part would have gone...
Sorry to hear. I've had a much lesser situation occur, but it tore me up none-the-less. I feel for you.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: lemon_lw]
#5931987 - 08/04/06 04:07 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think that would have to be Gumby.
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Re: What would you do with this shit? [Re: Liquidkick]
#5932000 - 08/04/06 04:10 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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yep that would be the one. good memory.
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