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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5923576 - 08/01/06 10:46 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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this thread + me = roflcopter
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passitbobbie said: Whether you see it like that or not most Trans consider themselves and act their chosen gender.
whether you or your tranny see it like that, a tranny "girl" is still a guy.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: eric_the_red]
#5923602 - 08/01/06 10:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not really
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5923620 - 08/01/06 10:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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umm, yarly.
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Edited by eric_the_red (08/01/06 11:11 PM)
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5923643 - 08/01/06 11:03 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well this thread went over like a lead balloon huh?
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: Microcosmatrix]
#5924291 - 08/02/06 02:46 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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You make it sound like the Pub is a religion.
The Pub is a place for respectful debate and here is constant effort to turn this thread into a joke and rejection of alternative lifestyles bordering on flames and in my view crossing that border on several occasions.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: Asante]
#5924585 - 08/02/06 06:48 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Wiccan I appreciate that, I do. I honestly thought I would get a worse response but I thought what the hell. There was some decent advice here so I'm happy. I'm going to see Emily again today so thats cool.
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#5924790 - 08/02/06 09:10 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: blink]
#5924805 - 08/02/06 09:16 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess its just so hard to let go of something that meant so much to you for 4 years... your second love... high school sweetheart but I guess thats life.
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#5924826 - 08/02/06 09:27 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: blink]
#5925416 - 08/02/06 01:18 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I found a very attractive black transsexual that I'm going to meet soon. She sounds like she might be interested in more than just sex so I'll see how that goes.
To be honest I'm hoping that I don't enjoy it because Emily is really a wonderful girl and even though we just kissed I would feel terrible breaking up with her because she keeps thinking that I'm not for real.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5925723 - 08/02/06 02:55 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think some of you guys are confusing crossdressers with transexuals.
Good luck with your transexual. I bet a goth girl from a GLTB bar would be understanding if you said you wanted to get fucked by a transexual and explore that but wanted to continue seeing her in a very friendly fashion.
What do you mean break up with her? You've made out once or twice, that's not a relationship ESPECIALLY when you hook up at a gay bar.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: tomk]
#5925748 - 08/02/06 03:02 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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We did only make out once, nothing more than kissing. I guess not break up with her but break it to her. I guess she just hasn't dated good people, I don't want to be another dissapointment in her life.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5925757 - 08/02/06 03:06 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Why don't you say "You're a cool person and I still want to be involved with you but I'm also going to pursue this tranny thing on the side??? More then 50% of gay men (and probably closer to 80 or 90% at a gay bar) are in open relationships, this goth chick could be ok with it since she is obviously immersed in that culture.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: tomk]
#5925764 - 08/02/06 03:08 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess because I don't have the testicular fortitude for that. Since we aren't really HOT and HEAVY yet I'll probably see this trans and go from there.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: passitbobbie]
#5925765 - 08/02/06 03:09 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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this thread is hilarious
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: Atheist]
#5925776 - 08/02/06 03:12 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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That doesn't take testicular fortitude. Your attitude should be "I like you and like having a good time with you but I met you at a gay bar for christsake so of course you should assume I like a little tranny cock up my manpussy every now and then." with an air of "duh, what else were you expecting?"
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: tomk]
#5925827 - 08/02/06 03:36 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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OK kid, I really don't think you're being honest with yourself.
You said in your original post that you "cheated for the second time" in your life or something, and then someone brought it up, and you denied it. But I mean, it's right there, I can read it. You said you cheated with some black chick who gave you a blow job.
Also, why are you looking for a trannie to have "something more" with? What if you have sex with them and decide it's disgusting? Or you actually just don't like the person? Why bring up a relationship as soon as you meet the trannie, and then decide that it's not for you? Then you'll be hurting that person and it'll make you look like an asshole. And if they are adults, they probably think you're a fucking freak coming up to them and asking if they want to have sex with a first-timer but maybe they would also want a relationship? Maybe if you want to explore this side of your sexuality just do the casual-but-safe sex for the time being.
From a psychological stand point, you don't need to be in a relationship at all if you're this confused. You're going to end up hurting your girlfriend, the girl you're kind of sort of seeing, and whatever trannie you might have sex with. It's just a bad idea.
One more thing. You need to be honest with yourself. Even if the trannie is taking hormones, their genetics still say MAN. You keep saying how it's a girl, and they see themselves as women, but genetics don't lie. It's all fine and good if they want to be a woman, but even they know that they were born men. Why can't you see that?
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: Lily_Morgan]
#5925864 - 08/02/06 03:50 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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First of all please don't call me kid.
I didn't deny anything, you just didn't read.
I guess that I'm not really looking for casual sex. Its quite fair and honest to tell a trans that its your first time and you don't know for sure if it will work.
The only thing I'm "confused" about is whether I want to be with a trans or a girl. Since I haven't talked to my gf on the phone in 2 weeks I really don't think she's going to be broken hearted when I break up with her.
You are right that the technical definition of a female is a human with a self-lubricating hole.
Edited by passitbobbie (08/02/06 03:57 PM)
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: Lily_Morgan]
#5925874 - 08/02/06 03:54 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's not that he isn't getting something. It's that you don't get something.
Gender is more fluid then just male and female sex organs. Gender is a complicated social construct that often includes lots of cultural bullshit. Most cultures around the globe have room for a third gender. In India, they are called hijra's. In native american cultures, children who did not confirm to binary gender roled would be put in a hut with a bow (masculine symbol) and pottery (feminine symbol). The child would be told to pick an item to take from the hut, and the hut was lit on fire (so the choice would be automatic without time for cultural pressures to alter the kids choice). A child who picked the item of the opposite gender would be raised as a two spirit person, given some of the responsibilities of both genders. These individuals were considered highly desirable as mated (because a male biological male and a two spirit biological male were able to produce much more wealth then a male and female biological couple). The first buddhist priests were explicitly allowed to have sex with other men, but not woman, on the basis of theoretical reasons. Even look at the roman catholic church, where priests (who are, often as not, repressed homosexuals themselves) are treated to a different set of rules around sexual behavior. You find this throughout cultures. Further, these third gender biological males often held roles around the shamanistic/guru/priest/monk archtype.
As christianity spread, it repressed both people's immediate connection to the divine and limited their available choices of gender identity. This is the framework you are operating on when you criticize the original poster for not seeing gender identity the way you do. Even though your framework of gender seems obvious to you, throughout the world it has been a minority way of conceptualizing gender. The judeo-christo religions work to actively suppress anima, (the feminine subconscious), and this repression of anima leads to the narrow way of conceiving of gender you advocate.
That is especially unfortunate on a psychedelic forum, because third gender types throughout cultures are the ones who are most linked to ethnogenic substances, and because psychedelics and respect for these third gender types are both linked to the same structures in the collective aspects of the unconscious mind.
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Re: Just met an amazing girl while at a gay bar looking for a transsexual [Re: tomk]
#5925881 - 08/02/06 03:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm sorry I said a mean thing lily I just don't like being called Kid.
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