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OfflineMushroomTrip
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Trippinr after a harsh beakup?
    #5908364 - 07/28/06 08:58 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Ok so I think that's where I should post it since it seems the most appropriate.
I just ended a very strong relationship and I think most of the fault was mine and feel kind of guilty about it and the way I did it. On the other hand something very deep was telling me don't ever try to contact him again. I don't know what exactly, I haven't managed to realize what determined me to so but it was something very clear to me. Maybe it was because I felt him being insincere in a way that I can't put my finger on but still feel it.
The thing is that I really feel guilty and still care about him.... it's just that it feels so wrong when I feel like talking to him. He's really confused and I don't want to hurt him, the last thing I wanna do is that and I think he deserves an explanation, only that I don't know it yet, not even for myself. Not with a "real" reason.
I want to trip maybe next week or the week after that, I don't know, maybe that will clear something for me or just make me take a final decision related to what I feel about him.
The thing is I know it won't be an easy trip for me and I don't expect it to be after all that happened.
I guess what I need is an advice about me tripping when going through such a confusing time or not.... can anyone help?


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5908487 - 07/28/06 10:09 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

I can't help much with the shrooms but i know that feeling your talking about.
I get it alot where i'm in a funny mood for days and i'm not sure why, then in the days following i say something in a conversation and suddenly things start to click. There are other times when i get a thought attached to a feeling. I know what i mean with the thought, but i just can't organize it into words so that it makes sense to me.

It's almost proof that our brains can have thoughts and ideas before ourselves as people can even understand them.

My advice would be to talk about your situation on here or on MSN or something like that. It's alot easier to type your problems than it is to talk about them.
Maybe just sit with pen and paper and write everything down for yourself, see if anything clicks.

I hope everything turns out ok and you feel better soon.

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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5908648 - 07/28/06 11:15 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Thank you very much for that post, I am still sort of confused but now I KNOW I was right about not talking to him lol. So just right after I posted this thread he did something like reporting me on myspace for something I don't know exactly what or how, but the thing is now my account from myspace has been erased, I know he did cause the coincidence is too big and because I also have a pretty good intuition, now I'm sure I can't be with somebody that acts like that out of revenge and then sending me all this messages to make me feel guilty about how much he suffers and then trying to make me look in a bad light in front of some people we both know, lol and after all the, and all these happening in these hours trying to make me jealous.
So really he's the kind of person that is able to do anything to get revenge, and I could NEVER love somebody who's like this.
I'm still confused cause everything happened so fast, what was between us was very intense too, but I think I'll be just FINE. Sure, now some time has to pass so I can re put my thoughts and feelings in order, to sort out what this thing meant for me and what can I learn from it, but one thing I'm happy about, lol, and that is that my intuition works very well and that saved me of a lot of tears that sooner or later I would of have because that relationship.
So yeah, I guess what I'll do right now is going on vacation, enjoy it and then when I come back trip cause it will help, though, as I said, I'm aware it will not be an easy one but a very relevant one too. This will definitely be a time to redefine myself and reanalyze my feelings and thoughts, but I'm aware that it's the only way in which we can shift our energy and wisdom.
So anyways, thank you again for you comment and one advice I can now give to anybody who wants to listen is to pay attention to what their intuition, what their instincts have to say to them cause most likely that's probably the truth. :sun:


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5908751 - 07/28/06 11:54 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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feel kind of guilty about it and the way I did it




i'd avoid tripping till these feelings reside. just askin for trouble.


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5908832 - 07/28/06 12:34 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

A vacation sounds like a good idea. It'll take you away from the situation making it easier to think and learn from it all.

I wouldn't feel guilty, you realized you didn't want to be in that situation anymore so you pulled yourself out.
I think once you made that firm decision you did what you felt you had too do.

He's acting the way he is because he's upset, but that's no excuse for the way he's behaving.
He will calm down and be absolutely fine, but you now have a greater insight into how he can be.
If you don't like it then your better off away from him, like you say he could easy turn like that again in the future and hurt you even more, so you are doing the right thing !( as far as i can tell  :smile:).

Enjoy your holiday, this is just another one of lifes lessons.
I'm sure you've already learnt what you needed too it's just a case of making sense of it all.
Things usually do make sense in the end.

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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5909529 - 07/28/06 04:54 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Oh yeah, I definantely don't whan to have anything to do with that revengde shit, I already feel bad because I wasn't able to give him an explanation but that's it. Not going back there and soon all feelings for him will go away since they were based on lyes.
So yeah, I will enjoy for sure my vacation and come back just as new lol.
And yes, when I come back I think I'll be ready for trippin cause even it will be hard in a way it will eventually give me great insights.
Thanks for supporting  :heart:


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All this time I've loved you
And never known your face
All this time I've missed you
And searched this human race
Here is true peace
Here my heart knows calm
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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5909634 - 07/28/06 05:43 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Revenge is useless and selfish, it never makes anybody feel any better in these situations.
If you really care for somebody you should want them to be happy whether they're with you or not.
It sounds like he's acting spontaneously, being a prick because of how he feels.
Which really is wrong and self centered.
He should be able to keep a tap on his emotions instead of lashing out and trying to hurt other people. They're his emotions after all, there's no way you should suffer because of them.
You haven't done anything wrong.
He's made everything alot worse and basically put a stop on the whole thing, so i guess you just have to move on now,, :smile:.

Don't worry about him he'll be fine, just as you will be too !

I don't have much experience with shrooms, but they say your should be in the right mind set. I'd say that mind set depends on what and why your using them.
Just don't go mad with them, stick to a low dose.
I think you probably know that anyway though,, :smile:.

So yeah, enjoy your vacation !
I'm hoping i can get away myself soon too, can't wait  :grin:.


Thanks for the rating :smile:. You didn't have too you have helped me alot in the past. The least i could do was give you my time !

:cool:



Edited by Mike_yy (07/28/06 06:32 PM)


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5930133 - 08/03/06 11:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

I just went through a shitty breakup not too long ago and tripped a week afterward. If you know how to leave these things behind when you trip you'll be fine. And you can really get great insight as well. Just be prepared to face the truth.

Tripping is actually what led to my breakup. I finally made my ex confront things that were always on my mind, and my intuition was right. The fact that I had supressed that intuition for almost a year got me all pissed off at myself. Filthy liar she was. Arrrr. Anyway, I wish ya good tripin.


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: Grok]
    #5945001 - 08/08/06 05:58 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah that proves one more time that people should start and listen more to their intuition cause in more then 90% it's very accurate. Just came back from my vacation and now I think I'm ready to trip, I know it will me probably show me some inconvenient truths too, but that's one of the purposes of tripping, right?
And anyways, after every trip I've had, no matter how "hard" it was I've always came back stronger and more mature.


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All this time I've loved you
And never known your face
All this time I've missed you
And searched this human race
Here is true peace
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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5946858 - 08/09/06 09:32 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Nice to have you back, :smile:.
Hope you enjoyed your vacation and it cleared your head abit.


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: Mike_yy]
    #5948228 - 08/09/06 06:12 PM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Oh yeah it was great and just what I needed to feel better and make things clear to me. Now everything's kool, thanks for your support. :wink:


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All this time I've loved you
And never known your face
All this time I've missed you
And searched this human race
Here is true peace
Here my heart knows calm
Safe in your soul
Bathed in your sighs

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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5949684 - 08/10/06 03:15 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

MushroomTrip said:
Ok so I think that's where I should post it since it seems the most appropriate.
I just ended a very strong relationship and I think most of the fault was mine and feel kind of guilty about it and the way I did it. On the other hand something very deep was telling me don't ever try to contact him again. I don't know what exactly, I haven't managed to realize what determined me to so but it was something very clear to me. Maybe it was because I felt him being insincere in a way that I can't put my finger on but still feel it.
The thing is that I really feel guilty and still care about him.... it's just that it feels so wrong when I feel like talking to him. He's really confused and I don't want to hurt him, the last thing I wanna do is that and I think he deserves an explanation, only that I don't know it yet, not even for myself. Not with a "real" reason.
I want to trip maybe next week or the week after that, I don't know, maybe that will clear something for me or just make me take a final decision related to what I feel about him.
The thing is I know it won't be an easy trip for me and I don't expect it to be after all that happened.
I guess what I need is an advice about me tripping when going through such a confusing time or not.... can anyone help?




Bad idea.


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Re: Trippinr after a harsh beakup? [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #5955721 - 08/12/06 04:28 AM (17 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

MushroomTrip said:
show me some inconvenient truths too




happens to me every time. :thumbup:


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