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 CherryBom
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 Flaming: For petes sakes, guys 
#5864989 - 07/16/06 07:38 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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This isn't kindergarten class. Grow a backbone.
I realize there is a mandatory NO FLAMING rule in the pub, but I'm really sick and tired of getting mod notifications for "flaming in teh pube" and it's completely rediculous statements that as grown adults, over the age of 18, you should be letting go. Really.
Just because someone disagrees with you, that does not constitute as a flame. Just because you are involved in a discussion that might possibly get heated, that does not constitute as a flame.
If someone calls you a chodemunching gutter slut to get a reaction out of you....that is flame, hit the button.
Moderators can't be everywhere all the time, and we truly appreciate your assitance in pointing out stuff that we could have missed, but there are certainly times when I feel like a babysitter handling flames that aren't even flames.
You're all grown ups. Choose your words wisely, you can call someone out intelligently, I've seen it before. You can disagree or argue without childish namecalling. When you hit the notification button because someone called you a retard, you're tattletaleing.
I can't hit the mod notification. I have to deal with people shooting me down all the time and deal with it I do. Everyone has the same capabilities that I do, I'm not special, I have no special training in social skills. There are all kinds of options for you:
- take the high road, let it go. Be the bigger person
- take it to PM, hash it out, possibly make a new friend
- take it to OTD, hash it out, post scat
- last but not least, hit the mod notification.
Please reply, discuss, thank you for reading.
KellieBom.
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goobler
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5864996 - 07/16/06 07:41 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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people(mostly OTDers) we always bring it up because of the dbl standard thing..
I would never press the notify button over flaming..I figure thats a mods job to police as they see fit
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 fireworks_god
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865000 - 07/16/06 07:42 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
CherryBom said:
Moderators can't be everywhere all the time, and we truly appreciate your assitance in pointing out stuff that we could have missed
Well, since you truly appreciate assistance in having stuff pointed out that you might have missed, you misspelled "assistance".
Just giving you what you appreciate. 
   
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: fireworks_god]
#5865005 - 07/16/06 07:44 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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eg;  <---not a flame.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865012 - 07/16/06 07:47 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
goobler said:
people(mostly OTDers) we always bring it up because of the dbl standard thing..
I would never press the notify button over flaming..I figure thats a mods job to police as they see fit
Exactly. If you really are offended by what some anonymous poster says to you on a message forum, you've got your priorities mixed up and need a kick in the ass in the right direction.
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CherryBom
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Personally, I think you can make a much stronger statement by being rational, intelligent and well thought out.
But that's just me.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865019 - 07/16/06 07:48 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, go tell that to the fucking whackjobs that appear in P&S every once and awhile. 
Oh my god, he used an emoticon, like, he's a dick! 
I'm not sure if or is more of a flame, but it certainly gets them riled up... 
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865020 - 07/16/06 07:49 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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A simple scat picture can do the same.... 
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865034 - 07/16/06 07:55 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I almost reported you on that one...
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fireworks_god
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That smirk means you are an arrogant, childish asshole! 
Peace.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: fireworks_god]
#5865051 - 07/16/06 08:01 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I just reported you for calling me childish...
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865052 - 07/16/06 08:01 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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ahhh ok,i know the rules now, i think
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: quiver]
#5865061 - 07/16/06 08:05 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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this thread itself could be considered a flame to bom....
but its all in good clean fun
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865068 - 07/16/06 08:07 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Penguarky Tunguin said:
Exactly. If you really are offended by what some anonymous poster says to you on a message forum, you've got your priorities mixed up and need a kick in the ass in the right direction.
Kudos.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865079 - 07/16/06 08:12 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
CherryBom said:
You're all grown ups...
I wouldn't go that far. There are alot of immature people here that have no idea how to care for themselves. I know what you're saying, though. Good post. There be a bunch of yellow bellied pigs, in here! Arrgh!
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: blissedout]
#5865085 - 07/16/06 08:14 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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blissedout said:
There are alot of immature people here that have no idea how to care for themselves.
ok..name names
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865095 - 07/16/06 08:19 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I wish I could sticky my threads...
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865107 - 07/16/06 08:22 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's not my place to say. We know who they are, when we run across them. You are an intelligent person, so you know it when you see it.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: blissedout]
#5865128 - 07/16/06 08:28 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I want names dammit, NAMES!
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865149 - 07/16/06 08:35 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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well said bom. but goobs is right, the only time i bring up the no flaming rule is when its sorta seemingly enforced as a double standard. Havnt seen the double standard in awhile though! Things are good between otd and the pube.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: Yarry]
#5865153 - 07/16/06 08:37 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ever since images of the trance tent faded away into voice clips.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865196 - 07/16/06 08:48 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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she could have just pm'd me instead of outing me like this
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: quiver]
#5865204 - 07/16/06 08:50 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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isnt she dreamy......
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5865217 - 07/16/06 08:54 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I vote for option 3.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: kake]
#5865227 - 07/16/06 08:57 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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that is a great option
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865466 - 07/16/06 09:49 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
CherryBom said:
This isn't kindergarten class.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5865894 - 07/17/06 12:27 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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everytime someone even comes close to disagreeing with me its notify bom time...from now on :-P
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a chodemunching gutter slut huh? I like it.
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Edited by kilroy69 (07/17/06 01:07 AM)
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: kilroy69]
#5865996 - 07/17/06 01:01 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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im putting you on notice
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: goobler]
#5866696 - 07/17/06 03:25 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
KingOftheThing said:
everytime someone even comes close to disagreeing with me its notify bom time...from now on :-P
I disagree! 
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: Konnrade]
#5866908 - 07/17/06 04:19 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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that's because you're a retard
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#5866912 - 07/17/06 04:19 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'M GONNA BAN YOU ALL.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5867024 - 07/17/06 04:44 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
CherryBom said:
If someone calls you a chodemunching gutter slut to get a reaction out of you....that is flame, hit the button.
Do people really call people that here? I am flabbergasted.. Really..
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: CherryBom]
#5867084 - 07/17/06 05:03 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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I remember when I first started coming to the pub, that it was a very nice place, with very little negativity. Over the past year or two, it seems like more and more people are spilling over from otd[not that there is anything wrong with that], and bringing a certain amount of that attitude here. I remember the mods being alot more strict about negative talk here, and I for one wish that they would continue to be. If you want to talk childish highschool shit, then go to otd where it belongs. If you wanna have a nice chill conversation, then I think that this is the perfect forum for it.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: nicechrisman]
#5867100 - 07/17/06 05:09 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Werd.
People, life is hard. Wear a helmet.
This place has an /ignore button. Learn it, use it, love it.
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: MrSinister]
#5867144 - 07/17/06 05:22 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
CherryBom said:
If someone calls you a chodemunching gutter slut to get a reaction out of you....that is flame, hit the button.
unless that person was refering to gillette's car, in which case the description is apt
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: blink]
#5867176 - 07/17/06 05:30 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Didn't she got a new Buick that runs like a champ?
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Re: Flaming: For petes sakes, guys [Re: blink]
#5867463 - 07/17/06 06:34 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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blinkidiot said:
unless that person was refering to gillette's car, in which case the description is apt
Damn no love for the hoopties these days umm?
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