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Crying and release
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When was the last time you cried? Hot tears, running nose, completely helpless? Just fuckin lost it and let it all out?
This week? Last month? Last year? Can't even remember?
Crying can be really helpful. A release, closure...
I spent a good 4 or 5 years of my life fairly emotionally balanced. I'm not sure if maybe there were some incidents where I kinda blocked myself up, cuz in the past months...look out!
So to answer my own question, the last time I sat down and just let myself cry was about two days ago. I feel tired, yet stronger after I'm all drained out. A fat joint and a good sleep bring on a new day.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846834 - 07/11/06 12:45 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Crying's great, it's necessary. I had one in the shower the other day. I've always liked crying in the shower.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846835 - 07/11/06 12:45 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cant even remember, when I was a kid, I guess.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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when my dog died in '02
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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domite said: Cant even remember, when I was a kid, I guess.
See now, I don't think that's healthy. I don't know you, but it just doesn't seem right. Do you need a hug? 
j/k. 
Also, shower crying is awesome. You're all naked and kind of vulnerable in that state...all your tears and pain go washing down the drain to nowhere.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846852 - 07/11/06 12:49 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can't remember really. I've gotten used to just going numb in tough emotional situations. I'm not blocking em out... but just trying to remain in control so things don't fall apart. Everything falls into place from there.
The times I hate are when I feal like crap and don't know why. I usually cure it by doing something I've been putting off... like mowing my yard, cleaning my closet, or washing my car. Sounds silly, but simply attempting and completing a simple task gives me a little boost.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846862 - 07/11/06 12:51 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Years. I can't think of anything in my life worth crying over.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846864 - 07/11/06 12:52 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I did probably about a month ago when a girl was really getting to me. I laid and cried for ages, it brought up everything that was wrong in my life. I felt better afterwards !
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846867 - 07/11/06 12:52 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've forgotten how to cry
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My last cry was about a year or so ago, after the death of my aunt.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846875 - 07/11/06 12:54 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I almost cried the past two days in a row whilst reading "Into the Wild". I almost cried at Bonnaroo during my first LSD experience. But I haven't physcially been able to cry for the last 8-10 years of my life; I can begin to tear up, and then, without force, it stops. But after reading in "Into the Wild", I think when my brother/grandparents die, it'll happen...a lot.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846881 - 07/11/06 12:55 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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It's been awhile since I cried really thoroughly. I agree, though. Crying is one of the best releases that one can have. You do feel drained, but it really helps, if you can get alone and lance that wound and drain he poison.
I hope your days are brighter and better for you, today, tomorrow, and progressively get better.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: demiu5]
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demius said: I think when my brother/grandparents die, it'll happen...a lot.
That's probably a safe assumption to make after 8 years of not really feeling any cry-worthy pains.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blissedout]
#5846892 - 07/11/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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blissedout said: if you can get alone and lance that wound and drain he poison.
I like that.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blink]
#5846916 - 07/11/06 01:05 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sometimes I feel like I'm afraid to cry. Not really fear, more like personal shame, or embarrassment. Even when I'm completely alone I don't like to go to that state. Once I'm in it, it's hard to leave.
Crying is such a touchy subject for me. I know it's release, but I get vivid mental imagery and emotional pain that crying seems to under-rate. It feels more like I should explode than shed some tears.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blissedout]
#5846918 - 07/11/06 01:06 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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blissedout said: it really helps, if you can get alone and lance that wound and drain he poison.
I really liked that one, too. Very fitting.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846927 - 07/11/06 01:08 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm glad to see that you're reinstated, too! You're way too young to retire!
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5846988 - 07/11/06 01:28 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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domite said: Cant even remember, when I was a kid, I guess.
See now, I don't think that's healthy. I don't know you, but it just doesn't seem right.
I agree actually, I can't even cry when I know I'm supposed to.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blissedout]
#5847028 - 07/11/06 01:40 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5847038 - 07/11/06 01:43 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't think that men should cry (and if they do it should only be in extreme circumstances). My last cry was about 7 years ago when my dad died.
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RandalFlagg said: I don't think that men should cry (and if they do it should only be in extreme circumstances). My last cry was about 7 years ago when my dad died.
You're kidding, right? 
Men need to learn to cry.
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I didn't even cry when my mom died until the next day or so. I didn't know what to make of it. I was so confused. I mean I was 18, I knew damn well what death was but I was in shock I guess.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5847059 - 07/11/06 01:50 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I cry often, and in the most embarressing situations. Too much of any one feeling will make me cry. The last time I cried was...last night. Because of my stressful job. (I always cry at my job)
Tripping always makes me cry, but in a healthy way.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5847065 - 07/11/06 01:53 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I cry during sex.
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Men need to learn to cry.
I guess I'm old-fashioned. 
I believe that men should be brave and stoic. We should be in control of ourselves and our emotions.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
#5847080 - 07/11/06 01:57 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: I cry during sex.
Strange....usually its the girl that cries when I'm engaging in sex.
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Men need to learn to cry.
I guess I'm old-fashioned. 
I believe that men should be brave and stoic. We should be in control of ourselves and our emotions.
I don't think men and women should be expected to be any certain way other than who they feel themselves to be.
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It's nice as an idea and all, but do you really belive that?
You dont act as you know you "should be" acting as a man?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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domite said: It's nice as an idea and all, but do you really belive that?
You dont act as you know you "should be" acting as a man?
I think men and women act differently simply by being men and by being women, but as far as how one interacts with one's emotions, I don't think that should have anything whatsoever to do with gender. I think you can decide how you want to interact with your emotions, and if you want to be in touch with them in a way that allows you to express them in ways that might not be "masculine," that's great. I've never been much of a guy.
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: I don't think men and women should be expected to be any certain way other than who they feel themselves to be.
Dude...imagine Commander Ryker crying in every episode of Star Trek. Would you respect him as he blubbered because the self-destruct sequence had been turned on? Would you respect him as he threw himself upon the floor and cried because the Romulans just cloaked and he doesn't know where they are?
The male sex was made to hit things, conquer, and die like badasses. Anything else is just not natural.
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RandalFlagg said: The male sex was made to hit things, conquer, and die like badasses. Anything else is just not natural.
I write poetry.
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Actually, I kind of like the whole idea of being yourself reguardless of the roles you are taught to play by society, I just think the idea is unrealistic. Personally, I cant remove myself from the identity I have been raised into. I couldent cry in public even if I wanted to.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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Actually, I kind of like the whole idea of being yourself reguardless of the roles you are taught to play by society, I just think the idea is unrealistic. Personally, I cant remove myself from the identity I have been raised into. I couldent cry in public even if I wanted to.
As I grew older and my parents became divorced I grew to really dislike my father, and I spent 7th-12th grade (formative years, in my opinion) being raised by my two sisters and my mother. I never had a masculine role model that I actually respected until the last few years...that probably deeply affected my perception of who I was in regards to my gender. It's probably also why the ladies love me, cause I'm teh uber-sensitive jewbot.
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If it wasn't natural we wouldn't do it, im not sure why we do it but i'm guessing it's a stress relief thing so it's ok.
Whats not natural is using some star trek dude as a rollmodel for how men should be. His is fictional afterall. ( abit like jesus and christianity but i won't go there,, )
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: I write poetry.
It better be about guns and war and shit.
When you see examples of in-control and downright robotic men...don't you feel admiration? I know I do. There is this quiet and assured stoicism that men should strive for. Is it any wonder why movies have men like John Wayne in them?
Could you seriously respect a man who was not in control of himself and broke down all of the time?
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You're being an extremist. A man can will himself to allow himself to cry and still be in command.
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It better be about guns and war and shit.

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OneMoreRobot3021 said: You're being an extremist. A man can will himself to allow himself to cry and still be in command.
Command of what? The Kleenex box?
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BURN!
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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domite said: BURN!
You're on a roll, randall.
He's also violently alone, in a cold and sterile room without decorations on the walls, and no warm body to look forward to later, prowling MySpace for cheap flings with random sluts. That's what textbook masculinity gets you.

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Yeah, but he's just so manly.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Mike_yy]
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I'm not sure but I think it was the movie 'Serendipity' that said it.
went something like this...
The body becomes overwhelmed with emotion and when the body can't take it anymore we begin to weep.
Something to that effect anyways. I've looked and can't find it but I'll give 5 shrooms if someone can.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
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For pete's sake. I can think of several episodes in which Jean Luc Picard let the tears flow. In one I recall he blubbered like a little baby.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5847220 - 07/11/06 02:36 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Is this thread a reminder of that post I made about my neighbor crying?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
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Feelings just mean you're capable of love.
Why are you afraid of love, Randall? WHY?!
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Re: Crying and release [Re: MOTH]
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EllemyshShade said: For pete's sake. I can think of several episodes in which Jean Luc Picard let the tears flow. In one I recall he blubbered like a little baby.
Jean-Luc was a true Renaissance Man.
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Even Superman cried once when Lois Lane died and he had to turn back time by reversing the orbit of the earth. He cried....oh yes, he cried. Even Supermen have feelings.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
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Cowgold said: I'm not sure but I think it was the movie 'Serendipity' that said it.
went something like this...
The body becomes overwhelmed with emotion and when the body can't take it anymore we begin to weep.
Something to that effect anyways. I've looked and can't find it but I'll give 5 shrooms if someone can.
That's never happened to me. 
Never seen that show either
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: He's also violently alone, in a cold and sterile room without decorations on the walls, and no warm body to look forward to later, prowling MySpace for cheap flings with random sluts. That's what textbook masculinity gets you.
Ouch! Goddamn.

And I don't pick up cheap sluts on Myspace...I do that at seedy bars thank you very much.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: MOTH]
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EllemyshShade said: For pete's sake. I can think of several episodes in which Jean Luc Picard let the tears flow. In one I recall he blubbered like a little baby.
Hm. I never knew that Captian Picard was gay.
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Don't hate me, Randal. Just cry in my arms instead.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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CherryBom said: Even Superman cried once when Lois Lane died and he had to turn back time by reversing the orbit of the earth. He cried....oh yes, he cried. Even Supermen have feelings.
Jesus Christ, every masculine role-model is going sissy on me.
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Just cry in my arms instead.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity_disorder
I suggest that you pick up a copy of the DSM-IV.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: domite]
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Would it make you uncomfortable if a male friend of yours was crying like a baby about something around you?
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That would make any guy uncomfortable.
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Would it make you uncomfortable if a male friend of yours was crying like a baby about something around you?
If it was about something important...no. Close relatives dying counts as important for example. If it wasn't important, then it would bother me greatly.
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Randal...I don't know...I just have the feeling you cry more then any of us...
...on the inside.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: MOTH]
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I think that would make a woman uncomfortable, too.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: MOTH]
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EllemyshShade said: Randal...I don't know...I just have the feeling you cry more then any of us...
...on the inside.
I do cry on the inside. That's why I'm a drunk and a whippit fiend. But, I do not cry on the outside. There's a big difference between the two.
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EllemyshShade said: Randal...I don't know...I just have the feeling you cry more then any of us...
...on the inside.
I do cry on the inside. That's why I'm a drunk and a whippit fiend. But, I do not cry on the outside. There's a big difference between the two.
Whether you make your sad feelings known or not doesn't change the fact that they exist. Will you explain to me the difference?
Come on, Randal. Let it out...go on. Nobody here is going to judge you. Crying is nothing to be afraid of.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: MOTH]
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EllemyshShade said: Come on, Randal. Let it out...go on. Nobody here is going to judge you. Crying is nothing to be afraid of.

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I cried a little today, for Syd.
Last time fully blown though, was 6 months to this day, when I had to say goodbye to my cat for ever
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I agree with you, Randal. But at the same time it's not for every guy to be that way or expected be that way. But a leader shouldn't cry... a leader can't show weakness or noone will follow. When things get tough, a leader gets tougher. This leader being a man or woman. Though, leadership is generally a masculin role.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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hmmm I think the last time was wd a couple years ago but that dosen't really count...oh no wait I know lol it was like 3 years ago maybe...at christmas...I weeped like a baby for days
I don't cry often but I almost wish I could cause it IS a good release
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Phumfeinz said: Last time fully blown though, was 6 months to this day, when I had to say goodbye to my cat for ever
Nippy.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blink]
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In the last few years:
I've cried tears of joy after several festivals and events because of meeting people like you.
I've also cried due to not having sex in close to 2 years.
That about covers it.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: nookjohn]
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did you get laid?
I'd cry if I got laid for it... Funeral crasher? eh? /nudge eh?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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day before yesterday.
it was not a good day. i was very depressed. i'm okay now though.
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I hate depressin days...todays one for me too...I slept but I wasn't fully asleep(like I was still aware of my surroundings but not conscious) anyways I just feel like poo
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Two nights ago. But it was definitely a good thing.
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Last time I cried was about a month ago. I'd been really stressed about a lot of stuff, been betrayed by a close friend, and to top it all off my car was stolen while I slept. I was at my Dad's house one day and he mentioned that he was worried that I wasn't letting anything out, which I wasn't, and suggested I let my anger out on a pile of old fence boards. So I went in the back yard with and axe and started beating them to spinters, and eventually I was smashing them to spintters over a concrete block. After about twenty minutes I was exausted and sat down on a rock and lit a ciggerete. I guess the release was what did it. I started to cry for the first time in years, and it really felt good to let go.......
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EmperorKuzco, nice sig.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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Cant remember. I don't intend to start now, better to keep it all bottled deep inside.
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You can try, but I imagine that sooner or later if you don't deal with it, you will have some kind of breakdown.
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just takes something to shake you up... wait you're uncarbonated right?
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Same here, It must have been when I was 10 or less... When ever something happens that should make me cry, I cant.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: eligal]
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I cry all the friggin time now, well more then before at least...I think I went for a good couple of years with no crying and then about two years ago it all started to come out, death brought it out, stress brought it out, anything, it was like emotion from years and years of numbness just exploding from under a shell.
I cried last week when my cat died.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: eligal]
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one thing that makes me wonder about myself...I am very emotional and will cry if I need too...but I have never cried from someone dying...even when my grandpa died when I was in the 5th grade...I didn't shed a tear
I balled my eyes out when I lost pets tho...I'm fuckin weird
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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the last time i cried was in april 2005, at the az gathering. i went overboard and by the weekends end i was hurting. i put myself and some of my friends in some not so pleasant situations....and i felt bad about that. not so much for myself, but for doing that to my friends. i knew better than that. a valuable lesson learned.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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How'd it happen? (your cat)
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
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I dunno, I just found him laying dead in the grass on my way to work, I thought he was just sleeping, but as I got closer, I noticed his little eyes were open....I have no idea, maybe had a heart attack...who knows, he was a stray before he came to me...
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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I haven't cried in a long time. 10+ years probably. I don't count crying while tripping. Too easy.
I don't like the taste of crying.
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only time ive cried (recently) is when my 3yr relationship blew up...that was like 2yrs ago now i think. it really fuckign pissed me off when i cried too. i wanted to beat my own ass for being a homo. i also vowed to never get close enough to a chick to let that happen again :-p
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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Maybe another will wonder up.
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KingOftheThing said:it really fuckign pissed me off when i cried too. i wanted to beat my own ass for being a homo. i also vowed to never get close enough to a chick to let that happen again :-p
Shame over a gender role? It's not weird to cry you know...
I know plenty of stone cold brutes and there's triggers for each of them.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blink]
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KingOftheThing said:it really fuckign pissed me off when i cried too. i wanted to beat my own ass for being a homo. i also vowed to never get close enough to a chick to let that happen again :-p
Shame over a gender role? It's not weird to cry you know...
I know plenty of stone cold brutes and there's triggers for each of them.
its not the crying that bugged me i dont think. like if sum1 close to be keeled over i wouldnt be afraid to cry. i just hated that a chick actually got to me like that. i felt it was my fault for giving her the chance to crush me like that
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thats sad man(not pathetic sad truely sad)...don't u want love?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blink]
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I think he wanted to kick his own ass because he let 'her' get to him. He probably thinks that she wasn't worth it after it was all said and done.
Atleast I've fealt that way before, that bitch!
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
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I was right!! Late, but right.
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Iamthewalrus said: thats sad man(not pathetic sad truely sad)...don't u want love?
love is an odd concept to me. ive seen so many loving relationships end in hurtful betrayal. ive seen so many people in love betray their partners, and the partner never finds out. well maybe i believe in love but not the idea of we're supposed to find one person and love them forever. i think that may be against human nature. i think monogamay has to do with jealousy and possesive thoughts more than actual love.
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KOTT you've never been so drunk you've cried??? I bet you have.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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KingOftheThing said: its not the crying that bugged me i dont think. like if sum1 close to be keeled over i wouldnt be afraid to cry. i just hated that a chick actually got to me like that. i felt it was my fault for giving her the chance to crush me like that
That I can understand. That's more about loss of control than the crying. The fact you can't stop it from happening, nor the tears that follow. I got you on that one.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: blink]
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Shit definitely fucking sucks.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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oh i was drunk and crying then (around the breakup) and it was about 3 different nights of drunken crying...not since then. seriously though, i dont really cry that much. before the breakup it was my grandma dying.
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I think I've called someone from here crying once, but I can't think of who it was.....40 maybe...
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I can see your point...I think it depends on the person...some ppl don't seem to be cut out for one person...but I know I am...when I'm with someone I love(like right now!) no other girl even exists...well I guess thats not true because I have female friends...but I have no physical interest in anyone else
I'm sure some won't believe me like my last post about my relationship wants...but this is just the way I am...I have no choice in the matter
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You always have a choice in the matter of anything in your life. It IS your life....
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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is it creepy to think chicks are cute when they cry? ya cant help but just wanna hug em and tell em its gonna be ok.
*except fat chicks, then its just annoying
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So true. Shockwaves of blubber.
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So true. Shockwaves of blubber.
"i get it, you got dumped, here's a cheeseburger ya big baby. now shut your face im trying to watch tv"
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I love watching big people, especially women, order lots of food and then get diet soda!
'Cause it's the soda that's what ruins your figure...
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the worst was when I worked at mcdonalds and they had that 2 can dine for $9.99 deal and people would come in and order two meals for themselves super-sized with diet cokes.
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If you're gonna eat like a goblin, drink the good tasting shit. Some people prefer the taste of diet soda though. It's weird.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
#5848585 - 07/11/06 08:44 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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i saw something worse once
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
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Nothing worse than two people laughing at an in-joke....
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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I'm having a cry right now...
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Re: Crying and release [Re: fruitloop]
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Sweet. Let it out.
Wail, sob, hit things... ahhhhh. Care to tell us why?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: fruitloop]
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go here they can help you out.

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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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i cried and punched my computer monitor. then i punched a brick wall. now my hand is all bruised. i think i might have fucked it up, but i kinda like the pain.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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A few weeks ago. I was with one of my friends and we were talking about our problems with heroin etc, and my friend began asking me why I walled him off (we were estranged for a while), and why I was this way and that way; bascially why I was such an ego-centric, vindictive asshole back when I was at my worst, and it just cut staight through, I can't remember the last time I cried that hard. My friend said it hurt just to see me in that much pain.
It cleared up a lot of shit that needed clearing up, really putting our friendship back on track, and it also released a lot of shit that I was keeping locked away inside. So I guess it was a good thing, sometimes ya gotta let it all out.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Dark_Star]
#5848883 - 07/11/06 09:50 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I would love to tell you why if I knew why.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Dark_Star]
#5848890 - 07/11/06 09:52 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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yes, you definitely need that release sometimes. it's not good to keep shit bottled up, which i think most people have a tendancy to do. crying is good for the soul.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: fruitloop]
#5848899 - 07/11/06 09:56 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've done that before, too.
I spent the entirety of Easter long weekend one year quite a while ago crying all over the place. I had no idea why I was so triggery, I thought I was going absolutly crazy. I even went to the doctor about it cuz long distance telephone commercials started setting me off.
Turns out I had indeed chose not to deal with some very common stressors, bottled up and shut out some very average, normal shit that had required some emotion for closure.
So even though I thought I was just going crazy crying over nothing... my body needed to let some shit go, and was going to do it wether I concious of it or not.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
#5848912 - 07/11/06 09:59 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: go here they can help you out.

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no justice anymore?
It is a good release to cry... gotta relieve some pressure sometimes. Hope it's helping for those who are down right now.
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RandalFlagg said:I believe that men should be brave and stoic. We should be in control of ourselves and our emotions.
Hear hear. I really don't see a point to crying. It doesn't help you solve your problems. So what does it accomplish? Maybe some emotional release, but at the same time, it can bring down people around you if you're not in private. After you're done crying, you're still in the same boat.
I never saw my dad cry when I was a kid, and it seemed to me that he could take on whatever the world threw at us. I think it's important for parents (or any role model) to show emotional stability and emotional strength. Emotions rub off on those around you (including children).
I saw this show about some girl on TLC that was having a sex-change (girl to guy), and she started taking testosterone. She/he said that after a couple months of shots, she/he didn't feel the need to cry as often, and even had trouble trying to cry.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
#5848965 - 07/11/06 10:14 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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i weep eternally into the ebony shores of my despair :'(
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5848993 - 07/11/06 10:18 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Full Moon
Full Moon Gleam, Full Moon frontals, Full Moon shine, Full Moon leafy, If you know what I mean.
I cried that. But not in the dark. Right out in the open, wild woods, but the Moon wasn't out, the Sun was shining. And there were no tears, cause I shouted for joy when I cried, Heaven heard it and smiled in heart, when I was free and hell died.
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when i feel the need i let them flow. i used to keep everything bottled up but i don't think that is healthy, i have cried probably 15-20 times in a year... seems high but i went through some important things.
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I never have that much to worry about, stress sometimes...big deal, i feel sad sometimes for being lonely, but it goes away fast.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Skunk420]
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Cryings for fat people. My dog died last night and I didnt even cry.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Tomcat23]
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I just fuking get pissed when something bothers me...but I dont do anything crazy just loud swearing...etc.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Skunk420]
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Don't really cry very often, I think the last time was after watching Who's Eating Gilbert Grape a couple months ago. I find that masturbation is a fairly effective way to difuse stress.
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KingOftheThing said: only time ive cried (recently) is when my 3yr relationship blew up...that was like 2yrs ago now i think. it really fuckign pissed me off when i cried too. i wanted to beat my own ass for being a homo. i also vowed to never get close enough to a chick to let that happen again :-p
Hell yeah. You need to become an emotionless automotan like me. Good times. 
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Re: Crying and release [Re: king_cobra]
#5849468 - 07/12/06 12:13 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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king_cobra said: i weep eternally into the ebony shores of my despair :'(
Do you listen to emo music?
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Re: Crying and release [Re: king_cobra]
#5849532 - 07/12/06 12:51 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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sometimes i'm reminded of a loved one that died, when i remeber i sob like a baby. other than that i don't really cry.
also, unless i very much love a girl, watching someone cry is the biggest turn off ever. and if you cry after/during sex, you're a psycho as far as i'm concerned.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5849538 - 07/12/06 12:53 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I cried two weeks ago when my friend died from a heroin overdose.
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king_cobra said: i weep eternally into the ebony shores of my despair :'(
Do you listen to emo music?
the " I wish my grass were emo so it would cut itself" joke is really bad, and makes real emo's even more angry.
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sometimes putting on the latest dashboard album and crying to myself insn't enough..
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5849570 - 07/12/06 01:12 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sunday night after I got home from work. My cat was hit by a car and killed saturday morning. So coming home and he not being there to greet me as usual really brought me down. So I sat and had a smoke at the spot he was found and let it out. Damn, I miss that guy...
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Re: Crying and release [Re: nunciate]
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may he rest in peace
losing pets is fucking rough. ive had one pet in my life, and losing her has kept me from ever wanting another.
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Sometimes, when I dribble in my undies after not shaking everything off...makes me cry, cuz then my undies smell bad the rest of the day, even if I dribble at night.
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taking a shit and then realizing theres no tp...that gets me weepin everytime jk
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
#5850023 - 07/12/06 07:20 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Gillette said: KOTT you've never been so drunk you've cried??? I bet you have.
Man that's the worst, probably the only time when i think that person should shut the fuck up.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Mike_yy]
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I only had that happen one time...it was after my first oxy binge...I wasn't physically addicted but I was really disappointed in myself for falling victim to addiction again...and unfortunately that was only the beginning...it was also weird vodka that made me black out everytime I drank it(I've never blacked out from any other booze)
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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this post makes me cry
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
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I havent cried in the longest time, then it just happened about 3 weeks ago.
It during the first few days of my month long trip home to europe. I havent been in 7 years, and ive changed a lot since then. Anyway, most of my family was back there, and we were all drinking having the greatest time. In fact, i felt so good, that i started to become depressed that EVERYONE, and i mean almost everyone was smoking. Even my sis whom i love so much was just puffing away one after another. So anyway, being all drunk, i imagined coming home 20 years down the line to visit graves, instead of meeting with these cool people. I tried to force it down but i just kept spiraling down, so i went outside n sat in the yard. My sis comes out a while later, asking wtf is up, and man i just lost it. It was the weirdest thing ever, i mean both me n her were shocked, she couldnt imagine wth i was crying about like a baby.
Anyway, that was the best/weirdest hug+cry i had in a long time. It really does suck watching ppl you love hurt themselves. 
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5850262 - 07/12/06 09:42 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I cannot remember the last time
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Re: Crying and release [Re: goobler]
#5850272 - 07/12/06 09:47 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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nor can i!
But what about just a lil wetness in the eye region during a movie? Does that count as crying?
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i cried when i spilled some A1 sauce last night
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5850283 - 07/12/06 09:51 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can't remember, but probably not too long ago. I sometimes get kind of misty-eyed during some movies.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Silversoul]
#5850284 - 07/12/06 09:52 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Million Dollar Baby fucking killed me.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: AliceDee]
#5850286 - 07/12/06 09:52 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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well thats understandable, was it in a place you could not lick it up? tragedy
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Re: Crying and release [Re: AliceDee]
#5850292 - 07/12/06 09:55 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Last night i bought a bacon cheese burger. I asked the bar maid if i could get some of that A1 to put on my burger the boss man was like A1?!?!?! So she went in the back and got some cheep stuff in a cup for me. I was like fuck that.
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I balled watching hotel Rawanda. I thought my sis was gonna kill me for it.
I cry from laughing all the time too.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Gillette]
#5850367 - 07/12/06 10:25 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't think I've ever cried from a movie...but I was close with million dollar baby for sure
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I've always been a movie-cryer. All Dogs Go To Heaven was where it started. Edward Scissorhands still can make me cry to this day. American Beauty too. Magnolia. Million Dollar Baby. Dancer in the Dark. Sometimes, Stop Making Sense makes me cry just cause I'm so unbelievably fucked up when I watch it and David Byrne is so alive I just can't stand the beauty of it.
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american beauty its a beautiful movie
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It's the movie that made me want to make movies...I saved up all summer and bought the same mini-DV camera that Ricky Fitts uses.
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I've never gotten into shootin movies yet but I want too...I love takin pictures
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Re: Crying and release [Re: AliceDee]
#5850993 - 07/12/06 02:27 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Cowgold]
#5852065 - 07/12/06 07:51 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: did you get laid?
I'd cry if I got laid for it... Funeral crasher? eh? /nudge eh?
No.
I don't sleep with strangers and I turn down women who are too fucked up. At the same time I'm incredibly horny at festivals. I'm searching for the middle ground. Tears of frustration.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5852149 - 07/12/06 08:06 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: When was the last time you cried? Hot tears, running nose, completely helpless? Just fuckin lost it and let it all out!
Last month when my Mom died and when I found out the love of my life was recovering from his Cancer!
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Tippinthru]
#5852347 - 07/12/06 08:46 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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One hour ago. God I'm a mess.
Booya.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: CherryBom]
#5853164 - 07/12/06 11:20 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Last time I realized how much I missed my brother I cried, it was probably a long time before that because it felt like a huge release.
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Re: Crying and release [Re: Tippinthru]
#5857029 - 07/14/06 04:58 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: When was the last time you cried? Hot tears, running nose, completely helpless? Just fuckin lost it and let it all out!
Last month when my Mom died and when I found out the love of my life was recovering from his Cancer!
Oh hell. I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine how I would feel if my mother passed. But it's one of those pains that almost everyone will feel at some point. Moms are godlike. I'm sorry that I cannot even condole correctly in text.
I wish you the best. <3
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Re: Crying and release [Re: nunciate]
#5857578 - 07/14/06 10:38 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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i cry 
but i haven't had a good draining cry in a few months... i felt like it a few days ago so i just picked my self up and went for a walk (ended up playing frisbee with a stranger for like two and a half hours... exectly what i needed!!!)
i felt like crying on my second trip but i couldn't... my logic would not let me!
radiohead makes me cry modest mouse make me cry dylan makes me cry the list goes on!
i hate crying though, i hate the stuffy nose and the headache! i hate how it dosn't help with anything except draining the blocks of thrustration! i hate feeling pathetic for loosing it...
i think i'm so used to being "down" since that's more readily available it's easier to be a cry baby and feel pain then it is to be content with how things are or god forbid even happy 
i shed some tears reading through this thread (twice to be frank) it's easy when you can relate to some things!
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