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OfflineOneWhoHasSeen
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: MOTH]
    #5822012 - 07/04/06 11:55 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

screweed?

I think your subconscious is calling for something.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: OneWhoHasSeen]
    #5822018 - 07/04/06 11:57 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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zippoz said:
im not blaming anyone for wanting to get laid, not at all. I would like to point out that if the values of 50 years ago were in place AIDS would not be as large as it was today. im refering to the sexual values where sleeping around would be considered taboo...

Im not advocating this, but its a point to be made that everyone fucking everyone is not working out that well. hence why im doing my best to abstain from sex.

and yeah some relationships are just so damn bad to watch.... my across the street neighbors are married with a kid, the father is always yelling at everyone i feel so bad.

Also people bringing children into loveless marriages is fucking horrible.
I just dont think that the human race has proved itself intelligent enough, in light of recent developments, to allow itself to continue having sex all of the time. lol.




No, the values of 50 years ago only stifled and agitated peoples natural sexual instincts. It was the absence of CONDOMS and people with BRAINS enough to use them that caused the spread of AIDS and early pregnancy.

There is nothing wrong with trying to get laid. Of course, going on a date with someone with the soul purpose of having sex and not a continued relationship is quite misleading. Ethically, you should let the other person know this. Of course, relaying this information probably destroys any chance of getting laid in the first place.




regardless of who is right about the above listed descremency, i will contend that the following is true.

1) people are loosing their virginity and having more sex at earlier ages than they have in the last 100 years.

2) the above listed issues can be attributed to a lowering of societal values and acceptance of casual sexual encounters. Partially to blame is the media who has used sex, and sexuality as a sales technique this de-sensitising us to it. ( im not saying that there is anything inherantly wrong with sex, or borading ones horisions if done safely)

3) The increased amount of sexual activity, regardless of a larger percentage of people using protection, has resulted in an increased volume of un-protected sexual activity

4) this higher volume of un-protected sex has resulted in a rise in STD Transfer and infection in america, along with other issues such as un wanted pregnancy and loveless mariages


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"People do it every day, they talk to themselves ... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
    #5822050 - 07/05/06 12:09 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

/me hugs Gillette

i love you girl, i know we've never met but you are still a friend, or at least i like to think you are. you definitely deserve someone you can be happy with.


on that note ......

wanna go on a date? <3



i love you Gill, we will hang out one day. you're a very awesome chick, i'm just sad you're not a lesbian. :wink: :heartpump:

btw, i'm drunk so i'm kinda talking out my ass. forgivez me.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Iamthewalrus]
    #5822058 - 07/05/06 12:11 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Not so much in contrast--I'm high and I figured this was a good rambling subject.

sometimes, it's not about whether you cheated or have lied.  Sometimes it's just about how you make us feel. (not YOU specifically, of course.)

To get respect you of course have to give respect. and many men really believe whole-heartedly that women are not worthy of more than just passing conversation (partly because a lot of it's about hot asses and big titties--though of course not limited to.) because we somehow don't reach that level.

I'm not beating the feminist drum by any means, but it really pisses me off as I work in a field mostly occupied with crude, rude, ill-mannered, and (in spite of what they believe) emotionally and at times intellectually unintelligent men who all feel that because they can bullshit with the rest of the boys, it somehow justifies their actions or comments toward women. Men of this nature are little more than pathetic, but, on a whole, majority of the male population dedicates a large portion of his demeanor and personality to similar behavior--I've not met a man yet (straight anyway) that can claim innocence against such behavior. a couple of gay guys I've met don't exactly classify because, well... they aren't picking up women...

There is truth in the statement "All men are pigs." and your ability to control that behavior, however, is the something that will put you one step ahead of your other male counterparts.  A man that defends a women in the face of his friend's comments, in theory and of course depending on other factors, has a better chance of "getting the girl". The downfall to this is most men know of this example and can enact similar principles in similar situations.  Thus leading to the eventual annoyance to us chicks when you turn out to be "just like everyone else."

I tend to not get along with many females that I encounter on more than an acquaintance level because of their catty nature.  Women, in my experience, always tend to "test" other women in catty situations before (or if ever) accepting/opening up in any fashion and can be more manipulative. Men on the other hand, I find much easier to deal with because a man usually says what he means, and while he *can* be manipulative they just aren't as good at it and way easier to weed out, and thus I have a very large base of male friends who all realize their limits of sex-based humor. I love my boys and when I'm with them I'm just one of the guys, but when it comes down to it, they make sexual comments about me when I'm not around and sometimes take our usual humor a step too far. Of course they still have the pig in them--all men do, it's merely a matter of control.

As mentioned above, if I'm made to feel like I don't matter, that I might as well be made of inflatable latex, or that I'm into a "sub-category" of intelligence/experience/capability, I'm not going to decide "Hey I like that guy!"  Is that to say I like "wimpy" men?  Nah, I just like men with a bit of rational thought process and maturity who really likes to have a good time. Wimpy men are different things to women and men.

Lets move to the "overly-sensitive" man. They are on the opposite of the spectrum from the asshole guy and in fact know what *not* to do, but they are usually clueless, bombard you overwhelmingly with romance, and FUCKING CLINGY.  Nobody wants a puppy for a boyfriend/husband that whines and cries because she decided to go out with friends, or she didn't tell you she loved you your routine-needed 18 "I Love Yous" in a span of a 15 minute phone call. It's a turn-off, get a back bone, my presence will not alter destiny's call of life and death. I can have a few drinks with my friends and the world as we know it will not end, nor will you die of a broken heart, promise.

Of course, there are those girls that don't fit the rational norm. The pop-culture kind of girl that decided intelligence isn't as cool as that hot new mini-skirt (which in the recent era of Britney, Jessica, and any other half naked pop princess seemingly is quickly becoming the norm) Men in general are drawn to these girls because of the male nature, but then those girls are usually labled as whores automatically. This idea is somehow translated that because other women who happen to have tits in common with these girls, they too are whores and there solely for sexual amusement. While I still blame the behavior of male society for the stereotypes, I also blame those women who have utilized whore-ish behavior to gain acceptance among men. While female sexuality is an awesome thing, there is a difference between enjoying sexuality/casual sex and being an all out whore.

In sheer irony a pop song came out a while back by Pink called Stupid Girls--while I hate the song, I've been forced to listen to it on many occasions by my 15 y/o neice and her friends. Much to my surprise at the time, it kicks pop-culture in the face (as much as would be expected anyway) by daring to encourage girls to be something more than catty, slutty, trash--like a female president--in spite of my ears bleeding, it's a better song to identify with than "slave for you" which also coincidentally they loved as well.

Ok, so--what women actually want? A secure (not conceited), respectful, faithful man who is trust-worthy, utilizes a decent emotional IQ without whining or manipulation through guilt or sympathy seeking, someone we can have fun with, be adventurous with, who is open-minded, accepting, utilizes common sense, has a great sense of humor, and still has bravery/courage.

On the other hand many men would prefer a "nice piece of ass" who cooks well, as opposed to someone they relate with on a deeper intellectual bond. Thus, they look for that "nice piece of ass" because they don't feel the need to relate on a different level. It's not important to them to find someone with whom they can share the intellectual/emotional side of themselves because they don't feel the need for the same emotional/intellectual sparks that women do. Most women need mental stimulation before any attraction, where men are more visual.

Not all men base the fate of a relationship on physical attraction, but I can say for the majority of interaction its the physical attraction that interested them--if something happens after the fact (or rather, if they care about it) that somehow relates to him or catches his attention for another reason, he'll actually make an effort in a relationship.  Otherwise--you're just still that steady piece of ass.

Sorry, I know this is long, and it seems like I'm man bashing but, its more of a blunt generalization of relative reality from  a female perspective. I know there are really awesome men out there, I've been dating one for going on 3 years now (and even he has some really bad days when it comes to hanging out with the boys...) I'm going to finish off the rest of this bowl (3rd one in the past 30 mins) and find me some munchies... Flame on! :smile:


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
    #5822060 - 07/05/06 12:12 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

But...where do STD's COME FROM...beside's sex? Why do they happen to begin with?


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: OneWhoHasSeen]
    #5822108 - 07/05/06 12:27 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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For example, you feel "obligated" to go out with men when they ask you to go out. So you do go out, even when you know it wont be enjoyable or have no interest in the person.





Interesting indeed and I've pondered that idea a few times myself. My willingness to "go with the flow" and to accomodate (sp?) those I love and care about definitely lends to how much I'm taken advantage of, not just in romantic situations, but other relationships as well. Excellent point.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: MOTH]
    #5822122 - 07/05/06 12:33 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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EllemyshShade said:
But...where do STD's COME FROM...beside's sex? Why do they happen to begin with?




theres a book called the river, yoou might want to read it. its the best theory for explaining aids. mostly from the use of chimp kidneys to create a polio vacciene and was mass tested on a million people in africa.



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"People do it every day, they talk to themselves ... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: CherryBom]
    #5822135 - 07/05/06 12:36 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

There's good men out there, but to be fair, the majority seems to be assholes.  :frown:


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Le_Canard]
    #5822172 - 07/05/06 12:47 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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ToiletDuk said:
There's good men out there, but to be fair, the majority seems to be assholes.  :frown:





I wish I knew how to be an asshole...  :frown:


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: eligal]
    #5822212 - 07/05/06 12:57 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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I wish I knew how to be an asshole...





You mean you don't know? lol

/tease


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Acinaxuz]
    #5822221 - 07/05/06 01:00 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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Acinaxuz said:
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I wish I knew how to be an asshole... 





You mean you don't know?  lol

/tease




I dont, if I could be an asshole I would probably have a girlfriend, or atleast get laid once in a while  :sad:


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: eligal]
    #5822236 - 07/05/06 01:03 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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eligal said:
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ToiletDuk said:
There's good men out there, but to be fair, the majority seems to be assholes.  :frown:





I wish I knew how to be an asshole...  :frown:




They do seem to get more than their fair share of women. :thumbdown:


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Le_Canard]
    #5822257 - 07/05/06 01:08 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

its been said before, but ill reiterate it here.

its not so much about being an asshole, its about not being a pussy.
the typical 'nice guy' is a pussy. that is a major turn off.
confidence is the turn on, not necessarily being an asshole.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: bobjones]
    #5822270 - 07/05/06 01:12 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Well, you do have a good point there. It just seems the a-holes get all the women.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: MOTH]
    #5822280 - 07/05/06 01:15 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Apartently not caring about a womans emotional manipulative ways makes me an asshole. Oh well.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Le_Canard]
    #5822283 - 07/05/06 01:16 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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ToiletDuk said:
Well, you do have a good point there. It just seems the a-holes get all the women.




or maybe assholes are the only ones you notice?

there are plenty of nice couples out there, but naturally they don't tend to stay in the public eye as much...at least around here.

but i too used to think along the lines of us nice guys dont get any women. but then i started looking at the women that fall for 'assholes' and i realized i want nothing to do with them.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: eligal]
    #5822284 - 07/05/06 01:16 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

I'm a guy and it was a harsh and sad awakening when I realized that most men are stupid and shallow, and seriously believe in the out-cocking attitude that I always thought was understood by all to be a joke. I am also sadenned that most women are equally stupid and will consistently go for the empty-headed attention whore who can easily be recognized by any guy to be just playing the girl.

There's brainlessness on both sides. Don't count on finding the good man, ladies, I doubt you could recognize him.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
    #5822302 - 07/05/06 01:23 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Bear with me here, there is a point to this.

Ever hear of CYSTIC FIBROSIS?

It's a chronic HEREDITARY disease. It is caused by two genes, one from each parent. Either gene alone is not dangerous. Only when BOTH PARENTS have the gene will a child be born with Cystic Fibrosis.

Following me so far?

When Cystic Fibrosis is suspected, doctors commonly do DNA tests while the baby is still in uterus. Here is the interesting part: Ten percent of confirmed Cystic Fibrosis children have a father without the gene nessecary to cause it.

Doctors were puzzled by this until they realized this 10% were illigitimate children.

Men are men and women are women. I really couldn't care less about your frustration with dating. If you're going to say that men are really bad and lie, then I would counter that women are also really bad and lie.

Maybe you should print off that rant and give it to all your prospective dates. That way they'll know in advance not to bother showing up.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Disco Cat]
    #5822305 - 07/05/06 01:25 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

oKAY LOOK...do you guys watch Caeser Milon, the dog whisperer? He illustrates it perfectly;...a calm-assertive personality is what girls desire. Fuck it's what I desire for myself. if you're calm but assertive (not aggressive, that's just dumb) then you have game.


You can get anythting you want wiht a calm-assertive personality.


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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Disco Cat]
    #5822312 - 07/05/06 01:27 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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Disco Cat said:
I'm a guy and it was a harsh and sad awakening when I realized that most men are stupid and shallow, and seriously believe in the out-cocking attitude that I always thought was understood by all to be a joke. I am also sadenned that most women are equally stupid and will consistently go for the empty-headed attention whore who can easily be recognized by any guy to be just playing the girl.

There's brainlessness on both sides. Don't count on finding the good man, ladies, I doubt you could recognize him.



I couldn't agree more.

I have read that most people (man or woman) know whether they like someone ten seconds after meeting them, and are unlikely to change their attitude.

You cannot tell what a person is like in ten seconds!


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